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Name: POOF | Date: Jul 18th, 2008 1:46 PM
oh gosh melissa lets see...well im glad dh and his company are going to stop working until they get paid, this is bullshit. imagine if you had a kid already...what are you supposed to do. as for the landlord, a lot of asskissing is in order...unfortunately. tell him you know how understanding he has been and you appreciate everything he has already done for you both but it is absolutely out of your hands. i would even tell him that dh and the men are considering a 'sick out' if they dont get paid directly and i would tell him that you will try your best to get some kind of written documentation of the issue with the company (if you think he is starting to think you are lying). really i mean you cant get blood from a stone and it takes a long time to evict someone so dont get tooooooo crazy about that part. but LOL at the 'not prepared' for the exam...what did you think he was going to want to do...they always want to get in there n have a looksee lolll. hope what have i missed that youre having a lap. last i read you are doing iui. ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 19th, 2008 2:51 AM
Thanks for the advice..I really appreciate it!! Thank god my mother in law is helping us. I couldnt stand the thought of talking to my landlord..anyways,,,with that behind me for now....about the dr, visit...lol...I dont know, I had been working all day and had ER funk all over me and I didnt have any time to freshen up and I am one of those people that have to be straight out of the shower and smelling like roses before anyone goes near my shit...LOL. So I definitely had to decline that part. He was such a soft spoken man and kinda handsome and when he asked to examine me I froze and thought "no way..not right now"...haha. He probably will next week when I have my follow up. I will be more fresh and clean and shaven and ready. =). I know...i am a dork...hehe ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 19th, 2008 9:21 AM
Hiya Girls! Can't believe it's been another week without me catching up, dh needed the mobile i-net, so there was me stuck again. Anyhoo, Melissa, that's so tough. While my dh was in Finland that week, his salary also didn't come through, I think he only got paid the eight or ninth of the next month. And I didn't have a job then. Our saving grace was that my tax money came through about a year after it was due, so that filled up a lot of holes. Before that, our stress levels were skyrocketing. And HOPE, you'll get through the lap fine, it's not that pleasant, but afterwards you'll feel like a new person. Are you in for a laparotomy or a laparoscopy (I'm hoping for the latter!). And now I have 25/26 day periods, like a young girl again, yeeh-hah! Af came last Saturday. So now I just have to skip one more O, and then it's ttc again, can't wait. ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 19th, 2008 9:27 AM
TMI WARNING! DH and I got into the John Gray Secret to Great Sex thing, and it does make a difference. Because here's me, married 2 and a half years and still not knowing exactly what gets me there. So now I'm finding out how and for some reason I'm in such a good mood the last few days, lol. And Poof, sorry you're still not sure what to do next, follow your gut-feel, normally mine doesn't lie. GL, will pop in soon (I hope!) ↑
Name: hope-31 | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 2:13 AM
i will find out monday when in sept it is. i am having too much pain lately an i know i only had 2 failed iui's but i just want them to check things out inside and see wtf is going on. i have to go on bcp for august to help things in the mean time. i got my + opk on thurs(cd 11) ad today is cd13(cd14 since its actually sun) an we bd on cd 10,12 and we will the next few days and see maybe just maybe we will get it before the lap. ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 11:34 AM
Hope- I really pray that this time is it for you! You seemed to have bd'd on the right days =). ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 2:49 PM
Ok...after missing my period and cramping and having the brown spotting, my cm is back to white. My ovaries are hurting so I might just be getting ready to ovulate. How odd...... ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 3:04 PM
Macy-What's the John Gray secrets to great sex?? Is that a book? If it is making you happy then those must be some great secrets...lol. ↑
Name: POOF | Date: Jul 20th, 2008 5:05 PM
i wouldnt have married my husband if i wasnt sure he could get me there ;) and im only 1/2 kidding! life is too short and batteries are only so satisfying. dont you just love weird "periods" melissa ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 21st, 2008 11:29 AM
Hi Girls! Poof, I was a virgin when I got married, so I was understandably inexperienced. Melissa, I'm not sure if it's in bookform, I have it on audio. But John Gray is an American, so it it's in bookform, that is where you'll def find it. He also did seminars, I don't know if he's still at it, though. He's the Men are from Mars, women are from Venus-guy. It's not even big things, just doing things a bit differently, and then KABOOM! ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 21st, 2008 11:31 AM
Ooh, Poof, that sounded snotty, sorry! lol. Just meant to say I was a dufus when it came to sex. ↑
Name: POOF | Date: Jul 21st, 2008 2:36 PM
aw macy! i was a virgin until i was 20! i guess after that, once i figured out what made me tick i was always sure the guy could do it! LOLL and yessss sometimes it is just the slightest little thing, i even discover new things now! and what works today may not work tomorrow but may work next thursday lol, thats the fun of it right ;) & no you did not sound snotty <3 ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 21st, 2008 3:18 PM
I guess I must be one of those lucky women...I have never had a problem with "what makes me tick"...lol. I always read about how hard it is for women and I guess I just dont fall into that category =P ↑
Name: POOF | Date: Jul 21st, 2008 3:33 PM
lol, im pretty easy too but penetration has never worked for me. i always thought something was wrong until i learned that straight penetration doesnt work for most women...except the really lucky ones ;) ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 22nd, 2008 12:39 PM
Hi girls. I'm almost counting the days till we can ttc again, can't wait. Just one teensy bitty month more and it can be all systems go. We've stopped trying in February, so I'm understandably excited. Anyone with faint evap lines etc? See, I'm getting worked up about non-existant pregnancies now! LOL ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 22nd, 2008 10:38 PM
I hope the month goes by fast for you Macy! Time really does fly...ttc will be here soon =). Damn..my feet and legs hurt so much. The shoes I wear are junk and dont support my feet so I feel like an achey old woman..lol. I HATE shoe shopping though....If I could pay someone to go try on and buy cute shoes for me..I would. Good news girls...the husband might be home next week..yay for me! I miss him terribly. And I can finally stop eating sh*t because then I will actually have someone to cook with and for. I swear..I have been living off of taco bell this past month and a half...I am seriously taco bell-ed out! Hope you all are having a good evening. ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 22nd, 2008 10:40 PM
And how many times does this Gottschalks/Clinique commerical have to air already??...I have seen it like 6 flippin times in a 30 minute period!..lol ↑
So I went to the doc's again today to follow up with my lab results and he said that I have PCOS!! He told me my lh levels were high...so...shit. This sucks. Now I have to get on birth control for 2-3 months to help regulate things. I am glad I actually have a doctor now that listens though. He actually told me that if I have any questions or need to see him I can just drop in..and I dont even need to make an appointment! Come to find out, he is renting a house from my sister..small freakin world. But hey, that can be a plus on my side!...lol. But really, he is very nice and thorough and I am glad I found him. He will definitely be taking care of me when im pregnant for sure!! ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jul 25th, 2008 12:08 PM
Where is everyone at today? I am trying to keep myself entertained between patients! I need someone to chit chat with. I am really tired today...I had to stay up late to finish some homework. I have been doing poorly in my business class because of all the stress I have been going through the last few weeks. I added up all my points and I can only pull out with a D. But I dont give a rip..I just dont want to fail the damn thing!! There goes my gpa...it was really good...then somehow made its way down to a 3.0. have like 5 classes left so if I get A's and B's I cant still graduate with a decent gpa =) ↑
so I called my car company to set up payment arrangements to catch everything up and my account manager was such a bitch. She demanded I pay the whole amount in full because "it is company policy" because I am pretty delinquent. I told her that I dont understand the policy, that they would rather have NO money than SOME money??(They wouldnt accept my partial payment) Then she proceeded to tell me that this matter is serious and I am acting like I dont care. Oh lord, thats when I blew up on the bitch. I pretty much told her that she must be very blessed not to have any financial problems and how dare she presume that I dont care!? I told her that I have a lot of financial issues going on and that I have to pick my battles. So anyways..after arguing with her about the stupid ass policy she tells me she wants to connect me to her supervisor. Then the bitch gets back on the phone and says "Well, we can split that into two payments for you.." OH REALLY?? Isn't that what I asked you to begin with you dumb cunt??...lol. So they are a bunch of freakin bullies and liars. I am so glad I didnt back down and I got my way...lol ↑
Name: POOF | Date: Jul 27th, 2008 4:20 PM
theyre lucky youre nice. i would have just sent the 1/2 payment w/o even calling them lol ↑
Name: momtoaandk | Date: Jul 27th, 2008 10:36 PM
Sooo, how does everyone like the crazy "baby_patojo" lady? She is definitely something else! Anyway, just wanted to make fun someone really quick, bye girls, lol! ↑
Name: POOF | Date: Jul 28th, 2008 10:44 AM
wellll since you brought it up...what the FUCK! it must be crazy k...has to be...or that other chick lizie2 who came in here and lied about getting a bfp and then i caught her in another thread asking the same stupid questions she did in here....and then said 'oops i was confused, yes, i am pregnant', no stupid, youre not confused, youre a liar. either way she needs to see a general practitioner. who wants to lay bets she 'miraculously' gets a bfp too??? ↑
Name: momtoaandk | Date: Jul 29th, 2008 1:14 AM
I will bet!!! Naomi told her what for in one of her many threads that she keeps posting, it was totally awesome, naomi told her that she needs to quit posting so many threads with stupid questions and that she can make up as many symptoms as she wants but it wont make her pregnant! Ha! I was like finally someone told her what she needed to hear! Geez, I mean, I post stuff and what not, but not stupid stuff like " I have a twitch in my stomach, so I think I'm pregnant. Atleast mine are like, " I'm 7 dpo today and having crampy feelings and I'm eating like a cow and sleeping like a sloth!" Now thats some real shit, not some "I cant suck my stomach in, so I must be pregnant, even though I've taken like 50 hpts and they are all negative, but I'm crazy and still think I am pregnant." no no no, you cant suck in your gut cuz of all the hot air that you are full of. Sorry, wow, I am really tearing this girl down, maybe I am pregnant, I am being such a bitch, lol! Ok, so I am gonna stop talking shit now and go to bed, goodnight! ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 29th, 2008 12:34 PM
Hi Girls! Ooh! Guess what??? So Friday dh and I did the shebangbang, no protection. And I went through the weekend thinking, it was just AFTER O, so, checked my dates and that must have been RIGHT ON O! So now I'm officially back on the sign-checking with you gals. Yay!! So now I can change the colours for my cycle on my charts(I have Pre-op as blue and Normal cycles as pink, and now my new bit - ttc - gets to be green, my fav colour). So even if af comes this month, I'm still one true month closer to getting lo. ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 29th, 2008 12:38 PM
Melissa, sorry about pcos, that sucks. I'm glad you have a proper doctor, that goes a long way. And the cow on the phone. Just proves that the moment someone quotes company policy, they just don't have a clue what really goes on. Now going to check out the crazy chiccie everyone is typing about..... ↑
Name: Macy | Date: Jul 29th, 2008 12:55 PM
Ok, fine, they're all nuts. "I had sex with my bf during end of my period, my period stopped. Am I pregnant?" Geez, NO, suffices! And the girl with the flutter in her ovary, didn't have the heart to tell her that's what I felt right before I was diagnosed with endo. Oi! ↑
