I lost my virginity the day before my period. My boyfriend only put the tip in and without protection. We did the same thing again the day my period finished (6 days later). seven days after the first time we did it, I spent the whole day vomitting and feeling bloated. Am i pregnant? Or is it just a really bad coincidence? I'm only 15 and I'm so confused/scared. I dont even know if i should consider myself a virgin anymore... PLEASE HELP! ↓
even if it was just the tip, the penis still entered thus intercourse so I don't think you could consider yourself a virgin anymore, The only way of knowing if your pregnant is to get a test, If you period dosn't show up test then, Good luck, I hope you get the result you want x ↑
You were feeling bloated...because you were having your period. Not because you're pregnant. Now if you want to continue to have sex and don't want to get pregnant, use protection...always. Don't make a quick decision for pleasure result in a life time commitment. Feel me? As for being a virgin, everyone has their own definition as to what is a virgin..what constitutes virginity. For many, once the penis enters, they are no longer a virgin. I'm not trying to knock you, but you don't sound as convincing, that you want to have sex. Don't do anything you don't want to do, especially if you just want to please someone. Sex can be fun and feel good, as long as it is done with precautions and because one feels they'e ready for it. I hope you don't get offended. Just be careful. :-) ↑
There is only a very little chance of you getting pregnant the day before your period and right after your period. But it depends on when you ovulate, most people ovulate midway through their cycle. More than likely you didn't get pregnant right before your period so with that said, your probably not pregnant YET because the egg would not have implanted yet. ↑
could have been a cuase of your period i get very bad periods i feel nasuas and i vimitti alot along with otha side effects but take a test to be sure ↑
I hope this little scare convinces you to use protection from now on! Or better yet - don't have sex - you are way too young!!!! I lost my virginity at 15 and felt like such a fool afterwards! I know now that I was using sex as a way to get affection from a guy. Luckily, I did not fall pregnant as a teenager (I'm 26 now, and married with a 4 mth old daughter), or contract some horrible disease - which is another reason why you need to use protection! Please really think about it before you decide to have sex - if I could go back I would choose to wait till I was married - but that's just me! I don't think you are pregnant, but even just putting the tip of the penis in is enough to allow sperm to enter, and if you happen to be ovulating at the same time, a pregnancy can occur. Sperm can also survive inside you for a few days after sex too - so PLEASE be careful sweetie!!!! ↑
i just want to say to Aussie Beck, that telling her not to have sex and hoping this little 'scare' teaches her to use protection is not what she asked....why is it that so many people come on her and give their opinion on teenagers having sex and falling pregnant?? they want advice not a lecture! and if u lost ur virginity at 15 who are u to tell her not to have sex? a bit hypocritical dont u think? ↑
young_mum_2_b , Aussie_beck is clearly stating that this scare she push her into using protection or wait for sex until she knows the facts or worse gets an unwanted pregnany. She has a right to say what she likes aslong within reason and what Aussie said was some useful information. ↑
To young mum 2 b: I would hardly call what i said as being hypocritical! I am not lecturing her at all. Having sex when you are so young is a bad idea and by your username I'm guessing that you too were silly enough to have sex unprotected and now there will be yet another child coming into the world raised by someone who is merely a child herself. We all make mistakes but if what I have said to this young girl stops her from having unprotected sex and possibly falling pregnant then I don't care if it is seen as a lecture!!! Children don't get a say in who their parents are, and I can tell you one thing I wouldn't want to be raised by a child! Your only upset by my comments because you didn't just have a 'scare', please grow-up before your innocent baby comes! ↑
for your information aussie i was on the pill when i fell pregnant so i was already using a form of contraception. as for my user name, in case u haven't noticed this forum is full of teenage parents and i dont appreciate a 26 year old coming into this forum and judging us...if all your going to do is come on here and lecture the young mum's who already know they may have made mistakes then your opinion is not wanted. we get enough of that from our families and dont need it from a stranger who has no idea what the circumstances or situations may be. go elsewhere!! ↑
Hey young mum what's the difference between a 26 year old and a 16 year old coming on here and telling other people who think they may be pregnat to start being more careful about sex? Everyone knows that if your going to have sex then you have a chance of getting pregnant none of the ( lectures) are regarding you, infact i haven't seen one that has your name on it. So are you gonna start an attitude with me now and say that i can't be on this forum either. Well geuss what ANYONE is allowed on this forum. You may not like what some people have to say but if you don't like it then ignore it. Are you going to say that 20 year olds are not allowed on this server who have infact been in the same situation and come on here to give younger people advice who actually need it and want it. Quite taking everything so personal. ↑
If you all can't take the heat get out of the kitchen....and dont have sex at such a young age and expect the grown ups to be so understanding because just the pill is not responsible enough ..havent you ever heard of STD's and the pill failing...well guess you do know now ....Good Luck though!! ↑
I would honestly say that...it's the person's choice of whether or not to have sex, it's their choice to use protection or not. They say that you ovulate on day 14 if you are regular and that you cannot get pregnant. SO there is a small chance....but it's very slim. ↑
Hahaha. What would be the point of just putting the tip in? That wouldn't be a form of protection like the pull out method because the tip is the part that matters... I guess she just wanted to be really unsatisfied with her first sexual experience haha ↑
Not unless she just thought it was the tip cause it was sooooo small lol. I knew a guy like that once & I pity the poor women that ends up with him, poor bastard hahaha. ↑
No, it's about the size hahaha. I mean if it's not long enough to reach where you need it to reach you've got yourself a problem. It's not like the 'g-spot' is just sitting at the opening so any size would do. Some women have it wayyyy back there, others have it at a spot that's easy for a regular sized penis to reach. But no body is going to orgasm from the tip. Anyway, it could have been foreplay but it sounds more like she was too afraid to go for it. If a guy gets to that point he's going to want to put the whole thing inside, she probably asked him not to. ↑
amanda you have only slept with one person so you woouldnt really know, of course you think size matters i mean i perfer size to techniques but i,ve slept with someone who was quite small but it is how they use it, some have small penis's and dont know what to do but not all are like that, its not all about long penis and g-spot you know lol! my now partner is large in size but its still how he uses it! using the tip could be teasing! once you understand sex better the g-spot means nothing! there are much more exciting ways for your man to please you with out just hitting your g-spot, anyway im not here to give sexual plesure advice, each to there own ↑
No I haven't had sex with anyone but my fiance, but that doesn't mean I don't know anything about having an orgasm during sex... Yes the tip would be teasing, but that has an effect only as a... you want it to go in more. You can't have an orgasm during sex unless the penis, or whatever object you use, reaches the g spot. Sure there are other ways besides sex to orgasm i.e. playing with the clitoris, but I was only talking about intercourse. If you honestly think it's how you use it, your g spot is most likely closer up... Meaning you could orgasm from something like fingering which I can't because mine is really far back. You really couldn't reach climaxing from just the tip unless he was say, rubbing it against your clitoris. ↑
Lol I'm sorry, I think the G-Spot means EVERYTHING. I don't see how you can have an orgasm without hitting the g-spot. Sure it can feel good to be touched and that but you can't get an orgasm just from that.. sure it makes it exciting to have the tip but it's nothin' special for the girl.. yeah for the guy maybe XD ↑
I agree bwityh mizz aussie lady or whatever her name is because if I had not been so rebellious and grown as a child I would just be starting my life so to all the adults who come in and give us advice I appreciate although I'm very excited about my new baby thats comin in january!!!! ↑
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Hey anal monkey, love the new name, do you get a new one every month!?! ↑
lmao, oh i see some one has joined who has angel in her name ahh i see so your small minds think its me! ha for one i cant even understand what mizz angel is saying and to i see her baby is due in january hmm well im not due then, but what ever if you all wana think its me then please do i think its funny the way you were all like hello angelmonkey! ha ↑
*psst amanda notice how she pointed out exactly what our point was?* Hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah-ahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha- ↑
oh beacuse your point was hiddin! oh im sorry did you think i was more stupid than you thought aww isnt that cute! ok i give up mizz angel is me haha you make me laugh ↑
