My husband and I don't have any kids together but I have a boy and a girl that will be 11 & 7 this August. And he has a 16 & 8 year old. Should we start over with a new baby together? I will be 30 NEXT YEAR!!!!! And he is 36. ↓
I'm 29 and 3/4, and I'm pregnant with my first! You're definitely not too old!!! ↑
Name: andiebub3 | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 9:52 AM
Go for it. I saw on one of the other threds that someones mil had a baby at 43!!
what do your kids think? I think it would be nice for you to have his, hers and ours if you get my drift. ↑
Name: Melissa30 | Date: Apr 11th, 2007 10:16 AM
I have an 11 year old girl and a 9 year old boy from my 1st marriage. I am due to give birth to my son with my current husband on April 25. I was 30 in August. I say go for it. I am glad I did. Good Luck! ↑
Name: missyann117 | Date: Apr 13th, 2007 12:02 AM
i think that you should go for it. If both of you want this then I think it is the greatest gift you can give each other. Besides 30 is not old at all. I have a 7 and 6 year old and my husband has a 10 yr old and a 12 grl he raised as his own and I wish that I had the opportunity to have one of our own. I would say go for it.......If you have a good marriage and you both want it then ya, and besides it isn't starting over it is just another blessing in your marriage that you will treasure forever........keep posted ↑
Name: tmjulien | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 8:28 AM
Yeah, im starting to think you all are right. Some of my friends are just begining to have children at 30. My kids are okay with it. I do believe we are missing that love connection that you have when you have children together. One problem is my husband is in the army and he's hardly ever here, let alone here while i'm ovulating. ↑
Name: misschrissie | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 11:28 AM
I am 30 and my husband is 36 and we are pregnant with our first. I don't think I could have picked a better, more stable time in my life to do this. ↑
Name: missyann117 | Date: Apr 18th, 2007 12:43 PM
Now that could be a problem but just keep trying and it will all work out. The connection between you and your husband and your new baby will be worth all the waiting. Besides 30 is not to old to get started again....just think you will have all the wisdom and patience from already having older kids....good luck ↑
Name: mrs. rochin | Date: Apr 19th, 2007 2:58 PM
honey! Salma Hayek is 40 yrs. old & is expecting her first child, you are at a perfect age to have healthy beautiful kids, better start working girlfriend! ↑
Name: KiyanisMummy | Date: Apr 20th, 2007 7:48 AM
hey tmjulien....i know this is strange but i'm hoping this will help!!! lol...ok...so when my other was 17 she had her first son....then had three children by the time she was 21...myself included...she was with my dad for 14 years..she is now remarried to my stepfather......she has 2 grandchildren who are 3 and 18 months....and my daughter who is 9 months......a month after her eldest grandchild turned 2 she had a son to my step-father...he is now one....when she was 5 months pregnant...i fell pregnant with my daughter...atm she is 7 months pregnant with another baby and i am 2 1/2 months pregnant ith my second....i know thats confusing and sounds crazy but what i'm trying to say is...my mum is 37 she has 4 children their ages go from 20 - 13 months, her husband has 2 kids that are 13 and 10, and she has 3 grandchildren and another one coming not to mention the baby she is having...but thats what makes her happy and thats all that matters.......she's a great mum alays has been and always will b....her age doesnt matter and neither will yours...go for it!!!!!!!! good luck!!!! ↑
Name: shellyrn | Date: Apr 21st, 2007 12:51 PM
Hi,
I am 31 and i do not think it is too late to add to your family! Do it soon! Your eggs are getting old! ↑
Name: sahm2alaj | Date: Apr 23rd, 2007 3:14 PM
I have an 8 yr old from a previous marriage and my current husband and I had a baby boy 1 year ago.... If your husband is up for it, go for it!!! Good luck! ↑
Name: tmjulien | Date: May 21st, 2007 10:56 AM
Hey everyone!!! Just wanted to let you all know that my husband and I are ttc!!! I said I would keep you informed about the outcome. This is our 1st month trying, I get regular periods and I believe I ovulate reg. so guess we just have to wait to see what happen, My next period is due to arrive around 5 June, wish me luck!! ↑
Name: billsgirl | Date: May 21st, 2007 11:06 AM
i definately think you should. you say 30 like its 60! im turning 29 soon and have an11 year old son and would love to have more. i think kids keep you young! not to mention 30 is a great age because in my case, i always got funny looks from people the last time i was prego cause how young i was. it'll be nice to go to parent teacher confrences NOT being the youngest mom there! ↑
Name: kimberly | Date: May 25th, 2007 3:32 PM
I will be 30 in Oct. and I am having my third baby sometime in Aug. I say if he also wants to then go for it. 30 is not to old to have a baby and neither is 36, my dh is 37. ↑
Name: tmjulien | Date: May 30th, 2007 6:57 AM
Hey ladies, well I got impatient and I bought a HPT. yesturday it showed one dark line(NEG) and a faint (POS) Im not sure, so this morning I took the second test (first P) and I got a more faint Neg line and faint pos line so if you're thinking what I'm thinking, I may be PG, let me know, ICBW. My AF is due between 3-5 June so maybe that will be the deciding factor before I go and buy another one of those expensive HPT. The begining of my last AF was June 7 so could I be seeing results this soon?
I will KYI, THX for listening, OH and I haven't told my DH yet :) I'm going to wait. ↑
Name: billsgirl | Date: May 30th, 2007 9:37 AM
honey- the darker line is the control line. the lighter line is the test line. you see two?! congtats! your pregnant!!!!!!!!!! ↑
Name: billsgirl | Date: May 30th, 2007 9:38 AM
also- if you want to get a cheap test- go to the dollar store- they are only a dollar and really reliable ↑
Name: tmjulien | Date: May 30th, 2007 11:57 AM
THX billsgirl, but I couldn't resist so I went and got another test POS results.(First Response) and this time the pink lines are very visible. OMG I can't believe I took all you ladies advice and now I'm PG. Im so excited. THX Everyone!!!!!!!!!
I will be a new mom at 29!!!! NO MORE 4 ME after this for sure. ↑
Your defanatly not to old I'm 18 and i think its a great idea for you to have another why not if you two are in love and really want a baby together go for it, GOOD LUCK ↑
Name: mummy2paris | Date: May 31st, 2007 4:51 AM
Oh lol ive just read through this and it seems your pregnant well bloody hell that was fast im really happy for you good luck ↑
Name: tmjulien | Date: May 31st, 2007 7:02 AM
Hey ladies, yeah I guess you would have to read some of the other post to find out the latest news. I told my DH and he said, "I new you were PG,because I don't shoot blanks". The nerve of him, but anyway we are happy and he's already giving me that prego attention. Haven't told the kids yet, I think I'll wait till Iv'e been to the Dr. Can you believe I may be only 3 weeks and 3 days according to this due date calendar online and I really don't understand it because it says we conceived on the 21 of May so that would make me 10 days???, I guess it went off my last AF, oh well, guess I'll find out today when I go to the Dr. If you can explain it better feel free. Baby Dust To You All !!!!!!!!!!!! ↑
Name: msmorgan | Date: Jun 20th, 2007 3:41 AM
I sure hope you're not to old..other wise I am too and that thought never crossed my mind :) I'm sure that it's a MAJOR decision to start all over again, but at least you'll have easy access to a babysitter!!! LOL Ok, so I'm new here...what does DH mean? I know it's something husband...darling or donor???:) ↑
Name: drm4441 | Date: Jun 21st, 2007 7:41 PM
I THINK YOU SHOULD HAVE ONE RIGHT AWAY GO MAKE ONE RIGHT NOW I KNOW YOU AND YOUR HUSBAND LOVE EACH OTHER A BABY WILL COMPLETE THE BOTH OF YOU!!!! ITS SOMETHING YOU NEVER HAD BE4 A BABY BY YOUR HUSBAND IAM 21 &MY HUSBAND IS 30 WERE TRYIN NOW...GOOD LUCK ↑
Name: Kayla_1605 | Date: Jun 22nd, 2007 1:34 PM
Go for it! It will be much sweeter this time around with all the experience & Much more patience! ↑
Name: sexymommy2007 | Date: Jul 12th, 2007 1:57 AM
I think that if thats something u both wont, go 4 it. and no 30 is not too old, i just had another baby 05-10-07 9 days before i turned 30. ↑
Name: cakegirl | Date: Jul 13th, 2007 6:30 AM
Congratulations tmjulien!!! BTW, when they work out how many weeks pregnant you are, they go from the first day of your last period. So you might have conceived one week ago when you ovulated, but you'll be considered to be 3 weeks pregnant. It is very strange, but it is they way the medical community works it out. ↑
Name: babybradley | Date: Jul 19th, 2007 1:52 PM
Go for it!!! I am young but however my mom has 7 kids and her last is 2yrs old... She was 33yrs old and my dad was 38yrs old... They had a wonderful and healthy 7lb baby boy... who at 2yrs old is vibrant and full of life!!!! So go for it... If the desire is there fullfill it!!!! ↑
