I had an ultrasound on 24 dec saying i was 17 weeks pregnant. My daughter was born 10 jun at 41 weeks. Now mind you I was depo and I didn't have a period, therefore i did have relations with my boyfriend during labor day weekend but have broken up. So I had relations with someone the next weekend which was 11 0r 12 of Sept. Who do you think I should test ?? ↓
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Name: cherylc | Date: May 23rd, 2008 9:31 PM
It's really a 50/50 chance if you're not sure when you O'ed. If you were on the depo shot, you may have O'ed at anytime. I would test both if I were you ↑
what about features? who does the baby look like? ↑
Name: potter-nut | Date: Jun 7th, 2008 3:51 PM
Based on a due date of June 3 (if the baby came a week late), you likely conceived around September 11. Ultrasound dating can sometimes be a little off though, especially at 17 weeks along (it's supposed to be most accurate around 7-10 weeks pregnant; after that, genetics kick in to make some babies larger at birth, so they would seem like they were farther along (or vice versa). So since the baby came even later than June 3, it's possible you conceived a little later than September 11. I'd first try testing the guy you were with the weekend of Sept. 11/12. ↑
Name: MelissaP | Date: Jun 9th, 2008 5:48 PM
Well...if you were only with two guys..all you need to test is one. If the first one is not the father....then it has to be the other one ↑
Do they both know there is a chance they are a father, or is one completely clueless...? ↑
Name: babygirl99 | Date: Jul 1st, 2008 3:39 PM
The sperm will connect to the egg with 72 hrs. So both are knowlegeable of the situation but both has moved on with their lives. I had relations with my boyfriend around the 6 0r 7 of Sep so I could have easily ovulated on the 11th. As far as the realtions I had the weekend of the 11 or 12 of sep I think I would have ov'd around 15 or 16 Sep. My daughter is my main concern what we had is gone it's about her. So which one should I test ? ↑
Name: flowergirls | Date: Jul 2nd, 2008 7:40 AM
Test whoever you can get to test ASAP! Then you know who the father is. Are either of them curious if they are the father or do they not care? Good luck! ↑
