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Question: I just gave birth to my daughter 5 months ago. I had c-section due to the breech condition of my baby. Now, I'm pregnant again, 5 weeks. I heard a lots of stories that I need at least 9 months to recover back or else I may face higher risk during labour.
Now I'm feeling confused, whether to be happy or sad to have a 2nd baby. ?
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| Answer: I had a c sec with my first son, and wanted another child right away, my doctor told me to wait six months and that everything would be ok. I got pregnant exactly six months later and had a very healthy child!! = |
| Answer: aliyah, i had c sec with my first son then fell pregnant again when he was 3months old. I had another c sec and im sitting here 1 1/2 yrs later very healthy and so are my boys. enjoy, everything will be fine. congrats. = |
| Answer: I had a c sec with stillbirth and wanted another baby desperatly, but my doc advise to wait for 1 year before having getting pregnant again or there will be a risks of uterine rupture. Now, i'm also confused as you are. If i really get pregnant after 6 months, will i be able to deliver VBAC. = |
| Answer: tracey, my doctor explained that having both pregnancys so close together there is a higher risk of another c-sec, as the pushing of natural birth can cause hemoraging. my babys weight was monitored through out pregnancy, which determined another c-sec.im sorry to hear of your loss, hope all goes well next time around. = |
| Answer: I had cs on 25 january 05 and my baby died the next day. i came here to find answers too, though my doctor says ic oulw od try again at 6 months. I hope more people respond so one can really get a fair view of what to expect = |
| Answer: I had a c-section November 11, 2004 and my daughter died at 3 weeks. I, too asked when I could try again and my dr. told me 6 months minimum, but 1 year is best. Good luck! = |
| Answer: I had a cesarean section with stillbirth when can I get pregnant again? I so deperately want a child. What are my risks or the babies if I don't wait six months? = |
| Answer: My doctor told me to wait six months as well. For all of you who have lost your babies, my prayers are with you and your angels. = |
| Answer: I to delivered a stillborn baby boy on March 16th by c-sec. He was my second child by c-sec. I too desperatly want another child. Should I wait 1yr since it was my second c-sec??? = |
| Answer: Be happy!! Congratulations! You will be fine. You may have another c-section, but who cares? You will have another baby!!! = |
| Answer: I had a c section in november of 2003 i have found out I am almost 3 weeks now and I have been having pains around the scare inside and out is this normal?
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| Answer: I delivered a baby girl on February 15, 2005, she passed away two days later. I spoke with my doctor about when my husband and I could begin to try to get pregnant again and she said she would like me to wait one year. That seems like forever and basically impossible. If we wait for only 6 mos., are we at risk for going through this again? = |
| Answer: We gave birth to a baby boy on 1st April and am also wondering when we can try again. We were advised by the hospital doctors to wait atleast 6 months before trying again. We were going to try again very soon as we had trouble falling pregnant for this one.
It seems the general rule is 6 months after C-section. = |
| Answer: I gave birth to my son Thomas on Jan. 14th, 2005. He died 8 days later. One doctor said 6 mos. was best to wait, but another doctor said 3 mos. would be ok if I ate healthy and had my pre-natal checkups, so we are presently trying again! Good luck. Be happy!:) = |
| Answer: I have had 4 c-sections. The last two were exactly a year and 17 days apart. I am pregnant now again after 11 months from the last c-section. Can this be dangerous? = |
| Answer: I gave birth on 6th Feb '05 and planning to have another one soon. However according to my OB, I have to wait for a year and told me it will take 3 months for the internal wound to recover. Aliyah, sometimes it's hard to plan our pregnancy, it is up to HIM and all you need to do is PRAY for safe delivery.We PLAN but the ONE ABOVE decides. = |
| Answer: things will be ok. be glad to have another baby. they are miracles from god i cherish all three of mine we want another one but just scared because the doc told me only 3 csection he recommends and this will be my third c section if i get preg again. i have also had one tubal pregnancy and that scared me afraid i might have another what do you all think i am 33 years old = |
| Answer: I had a C sec with my second baby, I got pregnat 1 1/2 years later and I tried to deliver VBAC, my uterus broke in the same place where my C section was performed. My little Adriana suffered a lot and she died 2 days later on march 16th. I know the odds are very rare, but try to get as much information as you can before deciding to get a VBAC. Best of luck. = |
| Answer: i haven got my period for 5 months but my belly hasnt got much bigger... im just a bit bloated. am i pregnate? = |
| Answer: I have the same problem as you, Aliyah. My son is four and half months old and I'm a month pregnant. My entire family is fearful of my health and don't think it's a good idea to go through the pregnancy. I talked to a doctor today. He said I should be fine. I'm sure we will be but it's scary, isn't it?
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| Answer: I wouldn't worry too much - be happy and let God and the doctors take care of the rest! Best Wishes! = |
| Answer: Julie, sorry to hear that, my stillbirth is oso deliver in Thomson, i had lots of question, is it possible that u could reply me through my e-mail : tracy_lim75@yahoo.com = |
| Answer: I just had my second c-section and unfortunately lost my twins due to pprom and an infection, but the doctor said I can try again next year to be safe. I am 36 now and would rather try again after 6 months or so, but I may wait a year just to be safer and reduce my chances of having a placental rupture, I don't want anything to go wrong next time- but of course with childbirth as I have learned there are no guarantees. = |
| Answer: My heart and prayers go out to all of you who have experienced the loss of your newborns...I can't imagine what that's like. I am due at the end of June, my first child, and due to low-lying placenta I may be looking at a c-section. I have heard that you should wait 6 months before trying again. My fear is uterine rupture of a second baby if I try too soon. Aliyah, it sounds like you should be ok, be happy that you have been given another miracle. Good luck to all of you who are trying again! = |
| Answer: I had a c section last August. I was told to wait for 12 months before trying for another baby.Take care. = |
| Answer: I guess I am the only one that heard that you should wait at least 18 months for any pregnancy vaginal or c-section in order to allow the body to fully recooperate. I was so angry about have a c-section 15 months ago, but I thank God for all his blessings and for giving us a healthy baby girl. My prayers are w/ all of you who lost your angels but we know they are looking down on you. And to all the mommies to be good luck! = |
| Answer: I lost my baby Logan 2-16-05 one week before my due date when he tied his chord in a knot. I then had a c-section. My heartbreak has been so great I could not wait to get pregnant again. I am 5 weeks pregnant and have researched the internet like crazy on the issue of how long to wait before getting pregnant after a c-section. I read that old school thought was to wait a year. The new school of thought I read is that you should be healed enough after 3 months if you had no complications with the c-section and recovered normally. Be happy, feel as blesses as you are. = |
| Answer: Dear Becky, at least u know what happen, mine is still unknown, my stillbirth is on 02/03/2005 just before my hubby birthday on 02/04/2005 and my baby girl is about 37 wks. congratulation to u, i am still trying hard to get pregnant, dun worry, my new gynae said so, can conceive after 3 months. Must take good care of yourself and monitor your baby closely. = |
| Answer: I lost my bueatiful angel 30 hours after he was born. That was October 23. I asked my doc when we could try again and he said to wait at least 3 months. So I did and I am now 5 months pregnant. We are expecting a girl. I just pray that everthing goes good with this one. Congragulations on being pregnant. And to all that have lost a child my prayers are with you I know how you feel!! = |
| Answer: Thanks for the responses and encouragement. I am so touched to see that I am not alone in my anxiety and fears........good luck Michele and Tracy. I realize we don't know each other, but I am praying for you both. Do you think though if you get pregnant less than a year after a c-section that you should go ahead and plan a scheduled c-section? I think that is what I'll end up doing. = |
| Answer: thank's becky and michele, ya loh, my gynae told me that too, he said need to c-section 1 mth before the due date........ = |
| Answer: First of all congrats on your 1st baby and on your pregnancy. The only one who knows if it's too soon or not is God first and then your doctor. My doctor told me to wait at least 18 months before trying to conceive again so that my body could heal, however each person is different. Now that you are pregnant, enjoy it. Forever your children will be considered Irish twins! Good luck! = |
| Answer: I am very sorry to hear about the losses, thank everyone for the feedback it seems I am sicker with this one, tryed the crackers, and every thing eles anyone have any suggestions? = |
| Answer: try ginger it really works also my son aj is ten weeks old he was my second c section my doc thinks i may b pregnant even though on injection so im really worried as only had c section 10 weeks ago good luck 2 all = |
| Answer: I had a c sec on June 15 my baby died the next day. The only thing that keeps me going is the thught of trying again my doc told mr to wait 6 months but that just seems so far away I have heard 3 months is ok but looking for more info. Help Please. = |
| Answer: Dear Clarie, cheer up, till now i still dont know why my baby died when i was 37 wk, but everybody told me to think positively that the baby is just not fated to be with you...and you will feel better, you should do that 2. Try to keep yourself occupied, try not to be alone, go back to work early or get something to do, drink more tonics to build your body for the next pregnancy, but dont overdo.....:) My Gynae told me 3 months should be enough for me when i go for preconception advice, you should maybe try to consult other gynea for second opinion. = |
| Answer: aliyah i had a c section on 8th june my second one but unfortunatly my son was still born i have been told to wait atleast 3 months i am so desprate for a baby . be happy and you will be fine. = |
| Answer: well ive done the test and its possitive even though im on injection pill yep its risky as my yougest is only 3mnths 2day i felt confused but wat u gota think is if the only worry is complications how can i put this but the baby is wanted then enjoy being preagnant as stress does no one any good and we cant control the future look at me i was on injection yeah i felt confused and worried as ive had 2 c,sections and have 2 boys 3yrs and 3 months u never know this one might b a girl not that it matters if its not i hope u get wat im trying to say i know its not easy but relax b cuz lying awake worrying i know ive been there isnt going to do u any good best wishes and good luck charly = |
| Answer: Claire,
After my daughter died in December, I waited until my 8 weeks were up before returning to work. I wanted to give myself time to heal so I could have another one soon. Also, taking that time is essential for grief - I couldn't work a full week at first because the grief was exhausting. Be good to yourself, but be sure to make steps forward. Good luck! = |
| Answer: Aliyah, you should be happy about your second child also. Lots of women have had babies close together. My first three children are 18 months apart. My mom had 6 kids starting at age 18 and ending at age 28. That is 6 kids in 10 years time. I have 5 children my first two were c-section. My first child was breech and an automactic c-section. My second child was a c-section, but it was an emergency section because he had fetal distress. My mid-wife couldn't see why I couldn't have a natural birth and I have had 3 natural births since the c-sections. I am expection my 6th child and my delema is that the closest hospital won't let me have this baby natural at their hospital, because of the sections, so I have to drive an hour and a half to a hospital that will let me deliver natural. Hopefully my labor won't be too quick I would rather have the baby in the hospital and not on the way to. = |
| Answer: nicole, i know the morning sickness bites but i found it comforting with my second pregnancy. i had none in my first pregnancy and i ended up losing my little girl. when i was so sick with the second, the nurses that my mother works with told me that the sickness means that the baby is taking a tole on your body and by that you can tell that it is for sure alive and healthy - so with every sick night and day came a comforting thought. i now have a five month old beautiful boy, born by cecarean. i still mourn my daughter and my thoughts and prayers are with all of you who have experienced losses. i was told at one point that God will give you the exact right child for the exact right time in your life. = |
| Answer: unfortuanly im no longer preagnant early loss but good luck and love to every one = |
| Answer: My mom had my me and my sister both by c-sec in the '80's 14months apart. She had a verticle cut both times (but not up the middle, more up the side.) but managed rather well. It is possible, you may end up having a c-sec again though because labour could rupture the previous incision. = |
| Answer: i had a baby 4 weeks ago sadly he was still born i really wont a baby now my consultant told me 3 months is fine iff i can wait that long but he said it would be ok 6 weeks after because your stomach dosnt stretch till about 3 months any way . = |
| Answer: I had a C-Section due to placental abruption at 27 weeks and the baby died 2 days later. I have been told to wait 3 months before trying again. You will be fine just take it easy. = |
| Answer: I had a c-section with my first, when she was 5 mths, we got pregnant...my dr said nothing about getting preg too soon. We weren't trying to it just happened. She would not come down, I was over a week late, the induce and still no progress. The dr figured the second would be the same...so 2-c--sections...both healthy kids now 5 and 4 (14 mths apart).
Be prepared for another, the baby will fine, and so will you. Your dr will know if you can delivery vaginally or not, your body will tell them if it's ready. = |
| Answer: i also have a 5 month old daughter and i am 6weeks pregnant.i had a c-section and now that im pregnant again i am so scared.i dont know what to expect. = |
| Answer: My baby died two wks after I had her igot pregnant again six month after that. Just leave it up to God and check insede your heart if your ready to receive anotrher baby in your arms as a new blessing and not a replacesement . it's hard trust me i know because there has been times of a lot of fears for me but i have faith. my prayers go to you guys God bless ! = |
| Answer: I know how you feel i also had a c-section 9 mos ago and haven't had a period in almost 50 days so im not sure if i pregnant but feel that im am and im scared of complications. = |
| Answer: nicole i know how you feel i've been having pains around my scar but im not sure if im pregant if you find out what the problem is let me know thanks = |
| Answer: Hey, I just lost a baby 6 weeks ago. I was 7 months pregnant when they did an ultrasound and found fluid in her belly and the next day they admitted me and took her and she didn't make it. I miss her so much and don't think that I will ever get over it. I try to be strong and my husband is great! I can talk to him about anything. This was my first pregnancy and I want another baby. We had unprotected sex once about 2 weeks ago and I still haven't had a period yet. I don't think I could get pregnant that easy, but who knows. I have been cramping a lot in the last week. Who knows?? I would like to have someone to talk to about all of this. Someone who has gone through it. She had fetal hydrops and they don't know the cause. I am so confused and sad. If someone wants to talk my email address is raggedyann74@charter.net. = |
| Answer: Cindy, My daughter died in December at 3 wks - emergency c-sec at 31 wks. She was my first child too. I know it is hard to believe, but eventually you will learn to live with the pain better - I don't think it will ever go away, but you get used to feeling it and find a way to experience joy again. Take good care of your spirit and body so you can have another one, soon. Bless you. = |
| Answer: Hi i am so sorry to hear of you nice people losing your babies.i know it has to be the hardest thing in life to go through.my prayers are with you all. = |
| Answer: can someone please answer my question?if you have a second c-section soon after having a first one how many weeks before your due dose the doctor perform the c-section? = |
| Answer: i'm having a schedule c-section an is my second one the doctor said that is ussually done when you're 39 weeks . I hope this answers your question. = |
| Answer: thanks liz,you answered my question.i just hope i dont go into labor two weeks early. = |
| Answer: To Aliyah i think you should just talk to your doctor about your feelings, anyway every child is a true blessing from the lord above he'll protect you and your child just try to relax i'm kinda like that also my son is 9 mos old and i might be pregnant again im a little nervous but trying to relax i'll find out tomarrow. = |
| Answer: my wife had a baby 6 mos ago.she wont let me even hold our baby or even look at our baby.she says i can hold her if i want to hold some one.whats wrong with my wife?could it be that postpartem depression?i dont know how weman work so i dont know if this is normal behavior or not.i love my little girl but it seems like my wife is jealous of her or something.most of you are weman so can i get some input.i havent my daughter since she was 2wks old.thanks for any help. = |
| Answer: I see where i messed up on my letter about my wife and daughter.i was saying i havent got to hold my daughter since she was two wks old.my wife is good to the baby she just wont let me be a daddy to our baby. = |
| Answer: To Steven maybe it's something to do with postpartum but i really don't understand why your wife would'nt want you to hold your own daughter it's such a beautiful thing a father holding there child some guys want nothing to do with there child maybe you should talk with your wife tell her how you feel. = |
| Answer: I tried to talk to her all it resulted in was her cussing me.and she said i dont need to hold any female but her.my wife wont even let me look at the baby.i cant even mention the baby to her.im really hurt by her behavior.how can she treat me this way?our daughter wont even be able to know me and i live in the same house as them.i cant even go into the babies bedroom.i need more advice. = |
| Answer: steven,im sorry for your wifes behavior.is she mental or something?why on earth would she be jealous of you guys baby?how old is your wife?i would divorce her and get custody of your daughter.dose anyone else reading this agree with me? = |
| Answer: Steven,
Your wifes behavior is very bizzarre. You really need to speak to a professional about this. Does she expect you to leave the room when she's with the baby? My advice would be to call her OB-GYN and explain the situation, he/she may be able to guide you in the right direction. Remind your wife that this is, after all, YOUR baby too!!!! = |
| Answer: Steven, I agree with Sarah you need to seek professional help. It is not normal how your wife is actingl. I heard from good friends that in postpardom depression woman don't want anything to do with the baby and that doesn't sound like your wife she just doesn't want you to have anything to do with the baby. That sounds really strange. Talk to her doctor maybe he/she can give you insite on what is going on. = |
| Answer: my wife spends alot of time at her sisters house.she never did before the baby was born.she is 29and extremely jealous.i cant watch tv if theres any pretty weman on the show.i cant have any friends.she wont even let me talk to my own mom or sister.but that stuff i can handle.its the part that i cant even be a daddy that gets to me.no i cant even be in the same room as the baby.shes even mad because the baby looks like me.i cant talk to her doctor if i did that she would probably leave me.she would leave me if she knew i was on this computer.i cant even remember what it was like to hold madison.my wife wants me to pretend like we dont have a daughter.she was upset she had a girl she wanted a boy.i havent done anything to make her act this way.i work i am faithful i dont deserve this.i dont know what to do.she just dosent want me to love my little girl.my wife said if the baby would have been a boy things would have been different.but the way things are now i cant even say one word to her about the baby.all i know is madison is off limits to me.right now it sucks to be a guy.thank you ladies for giving me advice i just wish she could see things from my point of view. = |
| Answer: Steven,
With all do respect, you really do need for you and more importantly, Madison's sake get out of this relationship. Your wife has you on such a lock down that I don't think you understand the severity of this situation. Your wife undoubtly needs professional help. She is very insecure in your relationship and NOTHING you do is giong to change that. Know this, NOTHING YOU'VE DONE (from what you've said) IS YOUR FAULT!!!!! Do not take this as a personal defeat, it is nothing you did, said or any way you've acted. If this continues, your daughter will suffer immense mental consequences. You need to tell your wife if you don't start councling, you'll leave. There is light at the end of the tunnel, and while it might not seem like it, there is life after divorce. = |
| Answer: Steven, My best friend had a similar situation- she only wanted boys because she feared that a girl would be "competition" for her husbands affection. Much of this was due to her own parents bad relationship - she has worked it out now, but perhaps this is what is wrong with your wife. She may be terrified that you will love Madison more than her - I would seek professional help for Madison's safety. = |
| Answer: I lost my baby girl Lauren at 10 days old 8-2-05 due to a rare chromosome disorder her left ventricle was under developed in heart. She was so beautiful and I desperately want another baby. I had a c-section so I think I will wait 3 mos. What do you all think? I read a reply to the same question a Prof. ob-gyn doctor said that 3 mos was fine as long as you get good antenatal care and plan for an elective c-section. = |
| Answer: michelle you have a good point.maybe that is her fear.but love for your spouse and love for children is different.why cant she see that.she dosent want me to love the baby thats what i cant understand.i cant be around madison at all and i already know my wife would not get any type of help.and she thinks shes pregnant again.i hope this ones a boy.she leaves madison in her room most of the time especially if im home.but how can you get help for a waman that dont want help?i just to be a daddy to my kid but to my wife its all wrong to her.sometimes i just want to leave but not without my daughter but at the same time i dont want to take her away from her mamma. = |
| Answer: Steven honey listen to me.apparently your wife dose"nt love your little girl to much or else she would want madison to know her dad.its not good if shes pregnant again what if its another girl?she will be the same way.take the baby leave go get temporary custody then file for divorce.your wife must be crazy how can she be so cruel when it comes to a little tiny baby.take my advice leave her and take the baby with you.and steven good luck! = |
| Answer: Steven, it sounds like your wife has some deep rooted issues. How was her childhood with her mom? Was she wanted by her mother. If a child is not wanted they can sense it. It affects them later in life. A lot of times things from our childhood that affect us and we are too young to remember. Maybe something like that has affected your wife, maybe her father wasn't allowed to pay any attention to her so it seems somewhat normal to her. Who knows. Your wife knows what she is thinking and feeling and if she won't talk to you about it then you can't help her. You guys should be talking this all out and trying to work it out. There is always hope if you want it. I will pray that God will reveal to you what is going on with your wife so you can find out where this is coming from. = |
| Answer: Hi I have a 7 month old baby and i'm 8 weeks pregnant !! Is it dangerous i'm really nervous! Does anyone know what is the wrost that can happen? = |
| Answer: This is to Steven what the heck is wrong with your wife!!!!! I think she is psycho!!! she really needs to seek some help!!! she did'nt make the baby herself !!! it does take TWO!!! i 22 and married I would never do that to my husband EVER!!! we have a 9 mos. old boy and i'm more than happy to let him hold our son especially when I need a break. you should'nt have to deal with this nobody should. she should be ashamed of herself cussing around a baby!! not to be mean but your wife is MENTAL!!!!!!! = |
| Answer: Steven... Joanne is right your wife seems to have some deep rooted issues but I think the question would be.... what was her relationship with her DAD???!!! Maybe something bad, like sexual abuse, occured and maybe she is trying to unecessarily "protect" the baby girl from you. I was abused as a child and I don't ever think that my husband would ever do anything to hurt my 3 year old daughter but, on rare occassions I get very protective of her. Maybe, Maybe not but either way your wife needs counseling...or you need family counseling together to get to the root of this problem.... people don't just act that way for no reason... Good Luck Steven. = |
| Answer: To Steven your wife obviously has a problem she should help seriously, how is she? im 22 and i would never EVER deprieve my husband of are children, this might sound crazy but are you sure your the father???? is there something your wife isn't telling you.... sorry but thats the only thing i can think of or she totally gone NUTS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! = |
| Answer: my wife came from a good family.she has a good relationship with her parents.i dont think there was any type of abuse.my daughter looks just like me im positive im the father.my wife has always been jealous of me im surprised she even lets me work.but ever since she had the baby shes been a nightmare to live with.i cant even sit in the living room she says its to close to the babys room i either stay in the kitchen or in my bedroom.if my wife goes any where with me she has her sister to come over and stay with the baby.i dont understand why in the hell my wife is so jealous of our daughter.she said well if the kid would have been a boy then you could have held him and helped take care of him.but you dont need to hold any other female but me.hell i cant talk to her about anything she flies off the handle to eaisly.she will either cuss in my face or hit me.and i dont beleive in hitting women but sometimes i want to hit her so bad.i thank you folks for taking time to try to help me figure her out.but i dont want to be a nussiance to anyone.i just dont know what to do about this woman.i cant beleive shes so angry because our daughter looks like me.at least thats what everyone says.well thank you all very much for your time. = |
| Answer: Steven, You seriously need to get your family some counseling. What does her sister and the rest of her family think of this? You might all have to get together and have an intervention. Her violence is not good in any situation, but especially around your daughter. = |
| Answer: can anyone help me with this please?i had a baby 18 mos ago during the whole pregnancy i suffered severly with heart burn.and my throat still hurts.my left tonsil is even larger than the right one.and my throat burns alot.and my enlarged tonsil throbs alot.i went to a throat specialist about a month after i had my son and he told me it was from acid reflux.he said it burnt my esophgus.has anyone else went through this?or know of anyone who has?i am really worried.i dont have any insurance to see another doctor.this throat problem really scares me.its been this way for two years.somedays it bothers me more than others.especially if i eat something hot or spicy.so if you can please reply to this question.im so worried and have been for a long time.thanks for any help any of you can give. = |
| Answer: Steven, I guess I am wondering why you just don't put your foot down and tell her she is your daughter also and you are going to hold her and love her and you need to accept it. You need to talk about why she is so jealous and what needs to be done about it.. You are missing out on fatherhood and that isn't good for any of you. She needs to get over this jealousy thing and wake up, the fact is you have a daughter and she looks like you and your wife needs to get over herself. You and your daughter are missing out on a relationship and bonding between you. I wouldn't dream of doing that to my husband he is a great dad and we have 5 kids. I love it when he takes the kids so that I have time to myself. There still must be some deep issue, because the way she is acting isn't normal. Blessings - Hope you figure things out before it's too late. = |
| Answer: joanne,i tried months ago to put my foot down.i asked to hold the baby and my wife just flipped out.she screamed at me,accused me of being a pervert.said men dont need to hold girls.her family dont have a clue as of how she acts.she puts up a front when there around.but still wont let me near the baby.i remember one time when her sister and neice was at our house i was sitting on our bed and my wife and her sister walked in the bedroom well her neice came in also and had the baby my wife quickly gave me a real dirty look.her neice walked over to the bed and laid the baby down for a minute,well after they left my wife rushed the baby back to her room then came flying back into the bedroom grabbed our sheets off the bed and washed them saying they were dirty because the baby laid on them.she is so hard to deal with.and if she says anything at all to me about the baby she refers to our daughter as (that thing)i dont know how to take care of a baby really.so far being a daddy has not been much fun if you know what i mean.and this is to samantha,i dont know anything about about heartburn or acid reflux but im sure someone on here will be able to help you out.i wish i could.just dont worry so much im sure your okay. = |
| Answer: To Steven, how are things going? i just read your last statement your wife really needs help, I feel so bad for you, you need to get her help before it's to late. what if she tries hurting your daughter???? has she always been like this?? have you talked to her or your family??? maybe you should tell them whats going on whatever it is maybe they can help!!!! you need to protect that baby and yourself please take this advice and do something!!!! = |
| Answer: my wife has always been extremely jealous over everything like tv,women who work in grocery stores,the bank,gas stations,even my own mother and sister.she dont like my family and keeps me from them much as possible.but the whole time she was pregnant even after she found out she was having a girl she acted excited.she would tell me your going to have a little girl you will have to play baby dolls with her when she gets old enough.she would say i hope she looks like you,kiss my belly and tell madison you love her.i even went to every single doctor app.she had.when she had the baby she had me to hold her feed her and showed me how to change her diaper everything was fine.then we get home and after a couple weeks she just let me hold the baby less and less.then just completely shut me out of the babys life.she loves the baby she just is to damn jealous to let me be with the baby.i can her in the babys room singing to madison some days.i never hear the baby cry when brenda is in there.i find receipts from where she buys the baby toys and clothes.i dont beleive she would do anything to hurt our daughter.but if she ever did i would break her nose i really would.maybe i should record how she acts when i mention anything about the baby.do you think her jealously of everything else is overboard?im only aloud to watch cartoons and we dont have cable we have a vcr and millions of cartoon tapes thats it.i cant even like any songs sung by a female singer.she goes to the doctor next tuesday to see if shes pregnant.she had a positive home pregnancy test.with all the hell im already going through i hope shes not really pregnant.i dont want to stay with her but how do i walk out on my unborn baby if there is one?i cant take care of a baby on my own.madison is really the first baby i ever held i mean little baby i ever held. = |
| Answer: I want to encourage you by sharing that I have a beautiful baby girl who is 8 months old now, and I too had a c-section. I recently called my doctor to share with her my concerns, because my husband and I want to start trying to conceive again. I told her all the things I had heard about waiting a certian amount of time, and she told me that it completely depends on the individual. I think the smartest thing for you to do is speak with your doctor. It is easy to get confused with so many different opinions, and with not so many answers. The best advice I can leave you with is to pray for Jesus's will to be done. He lets us borrow these little precious gifts to raise and love, and he truely decides when the right time is!!!!! Jesus Loves You and The Precious Baby you are carrying!!!!! So never be confused about being happy or sad!!! Be Happy and Thank Him!!! = |
| Answer: I was going to post a similar question. There is a chance I may be pg. I am getting a blood test this week. I had a positive pregnancy test, but it was followed by some bleeding, so we suspect a possible early miscarriage. My last period was about six weeks ago and my son is almost four months old! They would be less than a year apart if I am still pregnant. We were on birth control this month when we conceived. = |
| Answer: To Steven I can't believe what I just read about your wife, she is obviously very selffish, any person in there right mind would'nt act like this. she seems very controlling i understand you probably don't want to leave your wife or child or could be children but you need to do something SERIOUSLY!!! you wife seems very immature and thinks the whole world revolves around her, Lord forgive me but she seems to be a Moron, I usually don't judge people but come on this is not right well GOOD LUCK!!!!! LATER!! = |
| Answer: well it has been confirmed,my wife is 10wks pregnant.she went to the doctor this morning.brenda says the baby is a girl because the doctor said the heart rate was 176.dose a high heart rate positivly mean a girl?im a guy so i dont know how these things work.brenda is excited she already has a girl name picked out.i cant say i showed much excitement and she wondered why.hell it should be obvious.nothing else has changed.i still dont get to see my daughter.i guess that will never change.well thats all i need to say for now. = |
| Answer: To Steven Guess Your giving up??? well I will say a prayer for you and I hope all things work out keep everone informed about how your doing. take care and congrats!!!! = |
| Answer: DONT BE SCARED EVERYTHING SHOULD BE FINE LEAVE IT ALL TO GOD HANDS.IM RECENTLY 8 MONTHS PREGNAT AND IM HAVING A BOY. I HAVE A 1 YEAR OLD DAUGTHER MY DOCTOR SO FAR SAYS THAT IM SO HEALTHY ITS SCARY AND THAT MY C-SECTION EVERYTHING SHOULD BE PERFECT SO BE HAPPY AND ENJOY YOUR SECOND PREGNANCY! = |
| Answer: I just need to ask if anyone has had pain around there cesarean scar going into a new pregnancy. I had my son 2 years ago and I am 5 weeks pregnant again anf feel a lot of pulling and pain is that normal? Please someone answer! = |
| Answer: tara,after i had my first c-section i got pregnant again and my scar bothers me.it feels sore and also when i get sweaty my scar burns but my obgyn said my incision has healed up really good.so dont worry.im sure its normal you can always mention it to your doctor.they can reassure you. = |
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