Everytime my boyfirend cums inside of me a few minutes later the cum drains back out of me we are trying to get pregnant an i want to know if i can stil get pregnant and the sperm drains back out of me. Is that normal or is he doing it rite? has this happen to anyone? ↓
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Name: ~S~ | Date: May 4th, 2005 4:42 PM
^ Hahah...I don't think that's necessarly true. Does this happen every time? Maybe he's pulling out while he's still cuming? therefore, allowing sperm to leak out? If you think about it, a mans penis occupies a good lenght of your vagina and cervix, and when he cums, it's shot up even further, so the distance the penis reaches and the distance his cum is shot, already gives his sperm an advantage to hopefully reach your egg. Maybe your man cums a lot? There's days when my boyfriend cums sooooo much that he can't even believe it, it's almost like he totally fills me up, to the point where I can feel it dripping out of me while still laying on the bed. He has to get up and grab me a towel or something because if I get up, it's going to start to dribble down my leg LOL. Like I said, I wouldn't worry too much about it, I became pregnant, so I'm pretty sure you can too. ↑
Name: Jbear | Date: May 5th, 2005 1:07 AM
Are you getting up right after sex, and that's what makes the sperm leak out? If you're serious about getting pregnant, you might want to lie flat on your back for a while after sex, to let the sperm get where it needs to go. That's the only way I was able to get pregnant. ↑
Name: Katie | Date: May 5th, 2005 4:41 AM
what is the best position i should be in when he is cumin inside of me? ↑
Name: lovepitbulls | Date: May 12th, 2005 3:50 AM
your a** in the air and your face down, that's what my mother-in -law told me when my husband and i were trying for a baby. :) it holds it in and kinda pushes it way to where it needs to go, but you have to stay like that for about 2 min. we tred for a year and a half and nothing but when we did the crazy upside down stuff we got extra lucky with twins ↑
Name: THE REAL ANSWER | Date: May 12th, 2005 9:01 PM
SWEETIE DONT WORRY ITS NOT ALL COMMING BACK OUT. DONT GET UO RIGHT AFTER TO AVOID THIS ALSO. AND YOU CAN STILL GET PREGNATE. KEEP YOUR HOPES OF MOTHERHOOD ALIVE. ↑
Name: tazzman | Date: May 14th, 2005 1:31 PM
sounds like you have got the cart ahead of the horse here. Your supposed to be married then start thinking of these baby ideas......:(
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Name: to tazzman | Date: May 14th, 2005 4:36 PM
why should she be married before trying for a baby? ive been with my bf for almost 10years and we have a stronger relationship than alot of married couples,marriage isnt guarenteed for life. ↑
Name: TRACY | Date: May 22nd, 2005 10:04 PM
TRY NOT TO MOVE WAIST AROUND WHEN HE HAS EJACULATED, CHANGE YOUR SEX POSITION E.G SPOON POSITION , TRY TO USE A LITTLE CUSHION UNDER YOUR WAIRST AFTER LOVE MAKING TO PUSH THE SPERM IN YOU FOR WHILE. LIFT YOUR LEG UP IN A CYCLING POSITION FOR A WHILE AFTER LOVE MAKING ↑
Name: Suzanne | Date: Jun 2nd, 2005 2:57 AM
Like you, when my husband would come inside me, he would literally fill me up with his sperm! I know I'm a petite thing and he's a tall man so he must have a large amount to put inside of me. I would dribble sperm within a few moments when we were done. So he had this idea to place a few pillows under my waist to raise it above my head to let gravity do its thing and hold his sperm inside me. It worked! ↑
Name: dahlia | Date: Apr 14th, 2008 10:47 PM
My boyfriend semen is always draining out of me whenever we have sex and continues days after. I am trying to get pregnant for him. Is something wrong why this is happening.I am trying to have another child after 11 years break ↑
old post, but yeah. it's only the first shot that's important anyway. ↑
Name: Teddyfinch | Date: May 8th, 2008 8:07 PM
did dahlia say she's trying to have a baby for her man? psh! let the man carry it if he wants it and not the girl lol. my husband tells me "yeah let's have 5 kids at least". my answer to that is "ok, i'll carry the first and you carry the rest". we settled on 3 lol. ↑
Name: youngbabymama08 | Date: May 26th, 2008 3:50 PM
don't worry i do that a lot to. my boyfriend has to get me a towel or something and i still got pregnant even when it came out. ↑
Name: emmajayne | Date: May 27th, 2008 9:37 AM
Its totally normal, the sperm always does come back out afterwards but like ~S~ said if you think of how far inside you his penis is and the sperm is shot inside you also (and it does come out at some speed) there is still plenty inside you to get you pregnant. Remember it only takes one sperm to get you pregnant and there are millions there every time he comes. ↑
Name: hoofprintz | Date: Jun 7th, 2008 8:12 PM
all my pregnant friends tell me the same thing as what ilovepitbulls said...lol lie on your back & a** in the air after sex. ↑
Name: sallyisamom | Date: Jun 9th, 2008 3:21 PM
yes. Its normal and yes you can still get pregnant. Think about it you only need one of billions to make a baby where is the rest supposed to go? in the recycle bin you keep in your vagina? lol but some men produce more sperm than other so thhis may have happened before but you didnt notice it with an earlier partner. ↑
Name: georgelakshmi | Date: Jun 12th, 2008 6:45 AM
Yes it has happened to me before but you've to lie down for sometime after sex before getting up. Pls consult your doctor if it is still happening. ↑
Name: Nisha Leigh | Date: Jun 17th, 2008 4:46 PM
It is perfectly normal and happens with most women about half an hour after intercourse.
The semen consists of two parts. Most of it is a carrier fluid generated by the prostate gland, and embedded in this are several million sperm generated by the testicles. While there are millions of them, they are very tiny and form less than 10 percent of the total ejaculate. Furthermore, they are swimmers, and once in the vagina they sense chemical signals and swim towards, and then up, the cervix. Any healthy sperm can do this within a minute or two. After a reasonable amount of time, your body rejects the rest as a matter of hygiene. What is ejected is the prostate fluid plus any sperm which were not of good enough quality to cross even the first barrier (there are several more barriers to come).
The sperm themselves are very small indeed, and you won't know the difference in the ejaculate with and without them. But there is no reason to believe that you have any problem at all. ↑
Name: HopefulMommy | Date: Jul 1st, 2008 6:43 PM
that happens to me, you'll be fine, it doesn't all driain out ↑
Name: jing | Date: Jul 8th, 2008 5:09 PM
not all the semen necessarily stays inside you to get pregnant just certain counts of them, this happend to me and worried me before but after few monts of trying, i got pregnant ↑
Name: rsun | Date: Aug 4th, 2008 12:50 AM
The semen has to come out of you at some point Katie. It doesn't just absorb into your body. Before you go giving your boyfriend a baby, why don't you challenge him to show his committment to you through marriage, then you you can worry about conceiving a child. Believe me, no child wants to say, "my mommy is my daddy's girlfriend." In my profession you wouldn't believe how many children are ashamed of their parents never being married and they have to work through a lot of problems because of it. Not only are children ashamed of that but also divorce. Marriage is not a light thing, but neither is having a baby. Marriage requires two committed people for life. A lot of people do really GET that. Don't be selfish...... no sex before marriage is the best way to have a happy child. ↑
