What do I do about my pregnant girlfriend that hates me?
Name: scaredsick | Date: Mar 27th, 2008 10:18 AM
7 months in. We fight constantly. She doesn't want to be touched or even get close to me. She won't tell me she loves me. I love her. I want to be a good father. We live together. She is horribly argumentative. I slept on the couch last night. I want to feel like i'm a part of this, but she won't let me. She said that she loves me as a person..ie not a mate. we had a fight the day before she found out that was bad...we also know that she was two months along at the time. What do I do? I almost can't communicate at all with her. When is it time to leave? Or do I even think like that? I want to be with her forever. I want to raise this child together. I'm a good man. I was self centered..and it seems that the focus should be on the baby, but how can that be when I don't feel loved or wanted? I'm lost and pragmatically considered suicide for a minute. I won't, but that's how far this has taken me. How much can i leave her alone and still feel like a part of things? I am lost. please help. ↓
Hiya, Scared. I'm sorry you're having such a rough time. I think now is the time to take a step back and think outside of the box. I don't think you should give up, but I think you should hold on very loosely at the moment. Don't fight. Just don't do it. Let it go. Fighting won't solve anything. If she's the one instigating it, then if you don't give into it, she'll eventually quit trying. If it's the other way round, then think about it. She's still there, so just give her some space and try to work it out. Best of Luck. ↑
Also, avoid drink, drama, and physical boundaries. Remember her hormonal state. Try to work on efficient communication with lower key emotions displayed during communication. ↑
