ok well despite what people think about me, i dont need help im fine the way i am, i dont want to get in anymore fights, i know that all of the drama last week WAS caused by me, i know i was a bitch who was jumping down everyones throats! but hey im over myself now i,ve realised i,ve got alot of growing up to do and i,ve decided that people who i think are immature blah blah blah so what i dont have to say anything to them if i dont like them then ignore them its no skin of my nose is it, i just wish other people would also take my advice and if you dont like me just dont comment, its the most mature thing you can do, people who are going to comment me horrible things well that says it all to me, im not making this post to cause shit i just want people to know why i may not reply to them, th reason im not leaving for good is there are people who i get on with on here like addy shes probably the only one that instead of saying immature things to me was trying to knock sence in to me before she gave up its just a pitty i didnt listen at the time. and for thoses that care i had my scan yesterday and my little baby was perfect!i seen every part of it and its little heart beating and it even stretched l;ike its dad does when he lies on the sofa lol, and it also had a little hicup which was alos so cute anyone who wants to see my scan pic its on my myspace ww wdotmyspace.com/cheekydamonkey ↓
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Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 10:43 AM
Good for you. Good luck with everything, I wish you a healthy, happy pregnancy. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 10:45 AM
thanks amanda! oh and my due date is valentines day!! whoo lol. ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 10:52 AM
Aww that's a cute due date haha. Valentine's day is sort of a special holiday for me... That's when Ellie's first ultrasound was, which doesn't seem like much, but I think that was the day I really fell in love with her. And I wasn't scared of what people would think of me getting pregnant anymore. It was like I grew up instantaneously. I was planning on celebrating it this year, not with cards and candy but my own special way. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 11:03 AM
aww thats cute lol, its amazing how real it seems when you have that first u/s and you see little baby moving and stretching and showing off lol i dont have another one until 20weeks now which is like 9 and a half weeks time so ages away but its going to be massive compared to now lol it messured in at 3 and a half cm,s yesterday lol, and we get to find out the sex, im planning on having a 3d scan after 20 weeks but i need to find a hospital that does them lol ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 12:33 PM
I had a ton of ultrasounds, I went to a private ultrasound clinic five times, then routine the routine ultrasounds, then toward the end of my pregnancy they were concerned she might not have enough amniotic fluid, so I got an ultrasound twice a week. I think I would have gone insane if I had to wait that long. I don't think I ever went longer than a month. Oh and the 3d ultrasounds are recommended between 26 and 32 weeks :) ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 12:39 PM
wow i wish i could have that many scans! i will wiat untill about then for a 3d scan of thats what they recomend, gives me longer to save up lol! i know i think im going to go insane having to wait that long, i will amke up something so i get a scan lol i done it with this scan i wasnt due one for another 2 weeks but i told them i didnt know my dates so they booked me in for a scan ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 1:17 PM
Hurry and think of more excuses so you can get more scans :D The place I went to for private ultrasounds and 3d ultrasounds only charged like 75 bucks for one, my hospital was charging 300! And their machines were more up to date and clear too. The ultrasound tech said more often than not she could tell the gender as early as 13 weeks. So I got a good deal, hopefully you'll be able to find somewhere like that where you live. Unfortunately where I went only has one location, it might be family owned or something. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 1:22 PM
i dont know what other excuses i could use lol, there are only 3 local hospitals near by an di dont think any of them do 3d but i,ll check all the other hospitals are like an hour or 2 drive away ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 1:49 PM
Try researching some private clinics. No hospitals around here do 3D either. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 2:01 PM
its different in the uk though, i think if you go private its still at yhe same hospital but you have to pay where as here you dont have to pay for medical bills except stuff like 3D scans but i think i,ll ask my midwife about it ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 3:27 PM
You don't have anywhere that just does ultrasounds? ↑
Name: newbaby2009 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 3:30 PM
The hospital i go to does 3D ultrasounds as a routine part of your pregnancy and they're completely covered by my insurance. I had one w my daughter but she was being stubborn and had her hand over her ace the entire time. So i didnt get any pictures. Hopefully this one will be more cooperative! ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 3:49 PM
im confused the hospitals do ultra sounds tehre is a ward called the materninty ward that speciallizes in pregnant women, but i dont think they do 3D ultrasounds, we have this thing called the nhs which means you get free health care in the uk when we work we all get taxed which is money that we pay to the goverment which pays for the things like the nhs ect its kinda strange how you guys have to have insurance lol, but to your question we dont have places that do just untrasounds its all in the hospital if that makes sence.......i think i,ve confused myself lol ↑
Name: newbaby2009 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 4:08 PM
The Unites States needs a a helthcare system like that. There are so many people who dont have insurance nd dont get the helth care they need. We have a program called Medicaid. Its for the lower income women who are pregnant and children, mainly. While you're pregnant all your health care is free. It continues until 3 months postpartum then your back to no health insurance. The child get to stay on it though. Its paid for by all the tax payers. ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 4:31 PM
so thats a bit like the uk except its free forever but the tax payers pay for it, there is occcasionly talk that they are going to get rid of the nhs but its never happened yet, i think some people have to pay for stuff like medication but a majority of people dont earn enough so get it free oh and nhs stands for national health service, just thought i,d add that lol ↑
Name: mizz angel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 5:14 PM
HEY GIRL I FEEL YOU ON THIS I WISH U THE BEST OF LUCK WITH THE LIL ONE AND JUST LIFE AND PLEASE BELIEVE I WILL BE HERE IF U EVER NEED TO TALK TO ME!!! DEUCE!!! I'M DUE JAN. 10 AND EXCITED ABOUT THIS NEW LIFE AND ALL THE BLESSINGS THAT R GONNA COME TO ME AND YOU SHOULD REJOICE YOURSELF!!! ↑
Name: amanda17 | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 5:16 PM
Yeah, in a perfect world no one will know the word insurance. It causes so many problems. My insurance doesn't cover my daughter so we've been having to pay for all her medical bills with cash while we look for an insurance company that we are happy with. The hospital gives us discounts but it's still a lot of money. She gets her vaccination shots in about two weeks... I hate to see what that bill looks like >.< ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 5:16 PM
thansk mizz angel i wish you lots of luck, wow your about a month ahead of me ↑
It is, I can't imagine how people afford it. My mom makes a lot of money so I'm very blessed to have her support, but boy when I get on my own I'll probably have meltdown after meltdown. I'm horrible with money haha. Hopefully I'll learn. ↑
Name: mizz angel | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 5:56 PM
YEAH INSURANCE IS TOUGH SUMTIMES CUZ THERE R SO MANY SURPRISES I HAD IT BUT I'M ON MEDICAID NOW AND EVEN THAT SUCKS AND WHEN MY BABY IS BORN I HAVE TO BE PUT ON A WAITING LIST AND WILL HAVE TO WAIT A MINIMUM OF 11 MONTHS SO MY BABY CAN GET ITS OWN MEDICAID AND SEE DOCTORS IS THAT NOT INSANE???? ↑
Name: durante baby | Date: Jul 23rd, 2008 8:01 PM
Im happy to hear that your baby is okay. I hope you can relax a little more now....I dont hate you. I just dont appreciate lies lies and more lies. You could ask me anything and i would be honest. i would expect the same from anyone else that I talk to or are friends with. Im not saying you have to tell us everything about your personal life, but, dont lie about it. All you have to do is say Im sorry Im not comfortable talking about this subject. or if it is an arguement, just say that is none of your fucken buisness....Anyways, lets start fresh with no argueing. my myspace is myspaceDOTcom/durante_baby if you want to add me, if you have any questions about me and/or my life just ask, i have nothing to hide. I am proud of my life good and bad because it has made me who I am today, and so should you. *HUGS* ↑
angel- I would like to apologize for the things that I said to you personally. I admit i was out of line on some of my comments, I have had time to cool off and obv. so have you! Congrats on the baby being healthy! ↑
Name: AddysMummy | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 12:34 AM
Angel I don't really care what you do etc as long as you don't jump on people. That was my original point. You didn't get into my business I didn't get into yours it isn't my business. Not trying to be offensive, just being blunt and honest. What is your business is yours what is mine is mine. I don't give a crap as long as you stop the jumping people shit and don't lie about lots of shit. Otherwise, none of my business. I'm sorry I was a bitch but you literally had to cut out the crap to Amanda and had to cut out the acting like you're better when we are alllll equals here. ↑
Name: V9653 | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 3:05 AM
Glad to hear everything's all good, and I know it must have been heaven to finally see your baby and it was okay-God I hate saying "it", you need to get further on in this pregnancy already so we can say he or she. Also Im proud of you and can really see that you took the advice about not even starting to let yourself get worked up. You sound like you are in a much better place. Now you can really enjoy your pregnancy the way it was meant to be. As for Ashley-ha ha ha, someone brought out the sweetheart in you!!!!! No sarcasm ↑
Name: Teddyfinch | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 5:00 AM
well, i guess i'm the last bitch left. but sorry i don't buy into the whole "i'm better now" attitude. her hormones now are nothing like they will be later, so i can only imagine what she'll be blaming them for at that time. i'm going to be civil until earned otherwise, of course, like everyone else, but of course i wish you luck with your baby. from the tiny pic i could see, it looks cute already and i'll try to help where i can, but i'm not going for the buddy buddy angle. i tried that once and it backfired. burn me once, and all. luck and grats. p.s. we told you your baby would be fine! ↑
Name: angelmonkey | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 6:45 AM
db thankyou but you have to understand i didnt want people to know about my past thats why i lied and then you kept digging in to my personal life it just freaked me out that this site is suposed to annomuns (cant spell that) yet everyone was finding out about my life that were real personal to me, i supose i dint know what to do and panicked so lied, it was the only thing i could think of doing at the time but yep clean start no more arguing! thanks everyone for not jumping down my throat in this post lol, teddy thats your decsion thats fine but i just want to point out that i never said anything about hormones in this post, v9653 i hate calling it "it" aswell lol, but i dont know what else to call it apart from th ebaby lol, i dont have another scan untill week 20 where i will find out the sex! thats like 9weeks away! i really want one imbetween but i dont know how lol, ↑
Name: pfcwife | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 7:27 AM
im proudof you angel for coming on here an apologizing to everyone.. that shows you are mature and ready to handle situations in a different way.. good luck ↑
Name: ashley_1991 | Date: Jul 24th, 2008 9:02 AM
V9_ I can be a total sweetheart until im pissed off lmao =) haha and Teddy your not a bitch :D ↑
