hey girls let me first start by saying that i'm pregnant now. i am 5 weeks and a half. to think i didnt get pregnant when i planned to but got pregnant when my b/f lost his job. well anyways i am soooooo scared right now and dont know if its the hormones talking or me. a part of me feels i cant have a baby and wont know what to do. i cry and cry and cry. i am soo terrified and it wont stop. pls help. ↓
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Name: schreck | Date: Jul 9th, 2008 10:58 PM
If you are worried about money and paying for everything check into getting medicaid. If you have a good suppport team (your mom, bf, bf's mom, etc.) I'm sure everything will be fine. They will be there for you to support and encourage you. If you don't think you can raise a child yet there is also a choice of adoption. ↑
Name: Zabbee12 | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 7:25 AM
thanks . i will be fine.. i just feel really scared. not knowing if i'm going to be a great mom or know what to do if something happens . i wanted this baby so very much and now that i have that chance i just really scared. i love my child so much. my b/f loves this child. my family is looking forward to it. i just dont want to be a terrible mother. i just want to be perfect in every way. ↑
Name: schreck | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 9:33 AM
Sounds like you have a great support team :) This is very important. They will be there with you every step of the way. Ask for advice and help from them now and once the baby comes. I'm sure you'll do fine. We all have some fear of the unknown. ↑
Name: clindholm | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 11:29 AM
I think pretty much everyone has the same fears. We want it sooo bad then when it happens, we're like omg, what did I do? I can't handle this! It's completely normal to feel that way. Good luck. ↑
Name: Zabbee12 | Date: Jul 10th, 2008 6:51 PM
thanks ladies i needed that encouragement. i cant wait to see my baby. ↑
Name: FlyBear | Date: Jul 28th, 2008 5:05 PM
Zabbee, I've been an emotional wreck lately. As much as I think I'm a lunitic that needs to be locked up half the time, I think the hormones really do take that big of a toll on our emotions. Thankfully they say our bodies get used to it and by the second trimester all the hormone induced symptoms of the first trimester, such as morning sickness, fatigue and being emotional, should let up! :) ↑
Name: Zabbee12 | Date: Jul 30th, 2008 8:15 AM
thanks for that. i have notice a great change now since i just turned 8 weeks on saturday last i feel alot better now. i mean i can eat lol acid reflux is calming down and i cant wait to see my baby. it was scary though i will tell you that. ↑
Name: luckyme2403 | Date: Aug 6th, 2008 3:32 AM
The 1st thing i would like to say huni is that if any of us waited untill we could afford to have a baby none of us "normal" people would, unless your filthy rich chances are your not going to be able to get everything, most of us cant. It is very normal to feel scared during pregnancy and i to feel the same and worry but dont stress to much everything has a way of working its self out.... I wish you good luck and i'm sure you, your b/f and baby will be perfectly ok..... x ↑
Name: Zabbee12 | Date: Aug 6th, 2008 6:23 PM
thanks alot luckyme2403. my b/f hasnt found a job yet but we are doing fine so far. i'm feeling alot better sometimes anyways lol. dispute our financial problems we cant wait to see what we made together. its just all new to me i'm soon 3 months and i already want the baby in my arms... its funny really. ↑
