oki so i,ve decided im guno go for a few weeks as the majority of you are sick on here! did you ever stop think and think db that maybe im lying because it MY personal life! something so trajic that happened that i didnt want to share with a moron like you! and plus you only got half the story! i really dont know anyone called johnny i was pregnnat by soemone called phil! i had allready left home when i found oyt! no i didnt have an abortion some thing horrible happened which is why im leaving this page as db is so sick that she has to drag it up! so have fun all squabbling with your selfs! ↓
oh and btw no i wasnt on drugs when this happend it is what started the drug use i would tell you the whole story but looks like db wants to figure it out for herself! goodbye ↑
Hm, if you would have just said nicely from the beginning that it's personal and you don't want to talk about it, everyone would have left you alone. Seems rather silly doesn't it? Oh well, see ya. ↑
Angel-- if you had of been "honest" with us about it the whole time known of it would have had to be dragged up! instead y u sat on your pedastool thinking you where better than everyone else, so DB did her reasearch and proved to everyone that you here lying *not to self hmm dont piss DB off ** Ihope that your much needed break from the forum helps you! ↑
wow you girls are so mean!! you just don't let up!!! geez give the girl a rest and find something else to do!! if you are pregnant, go get a job so you can raise this baby, if you already have a job, go get another one you clearly have too much time on your hands to go investigating stries from people on line!!!!! if you have a baby, go take care of it!!! you people are obsessing over this girl, that's insane!!! get a hobby!!!!! Ashley, you're so young and will have TWO kids!! instead of cruzing the net looking for fights, get educated on birth control!! i don't want my tax money supporting your sorry behind becasue you can't keep your legs closed!!! get a job, so you can contribute to society in ways other than picking on others on the internet!!! if you have one, get another one!! odds of you being so young and making enough to raise your kids unassisted are slim or none... some of us have degrees and long established careers and it's still difficult - so none of the "i have a good job, my b/f works and we live on our own" crap please. You should print all those threads out and look at them 20 years from now, so that you can slap yourself in the forhead thinking "what the hell was I thinking, I should have been working!!!". geez, you people are bunch of immature, childish, bitchy, nosey, cat-fight loving children. Blows my mind some of you are having kinds of your own,what can you possibly teach them??? how to be immature, childish, bitchy, nosey and cat-fight loving kinds themselves??? wow, what a bunch of retards. truly. ↑
Are you talking to me? Because I wasn't being mean. I was just saying it's kind of silly to get worked up over something that could have been solved by a simple "I don't want to talk about it, please leave it alone" instead of lying, because that would just encourage people to look farther into it. That's not mean, that's just true. Who says Ashley can't support her kids? How would you know that? The reason most young people don't have well paying jobs is because they are lazy. If you worked really, really hard at it you could. And why does everyone think it takes 24/7 of your undivided attention to take care of a kid? My daughter is asleep two feet away from me and chances are she'll be like that for another two hours at least... I really can't do anything to farther take care of her at this point. She is asleep because she is well taken care of :) AND birth control can fail, why would you assume she wasn't protected? When you were describing immature, childish, bitchy, nosey, cat-fight loving kids... You were pretty much describing how angel was being (no offense angel) So unless you read through all the posts and now what's going on... You really don't know what you're talking about. I've never even seen you post before, who are you?
if the shoe fits, then wear it. if you think what i wrote applies to you, they yes, I'm talking to you. If you don't think it applies then I'm not. Having a degree and many years of experience I know a thing or two about what it takes to raise a child. And it's not all about "well my baby is napping right now and will be for a while and will be all good" If you have no savings to put this kind through a well respected ivy league college (tuition at least $16,000.00 min. plus expenses) to give him/her the best possible shot at a good career, then you have no business sitting on here wasting time, instead of working however jobs it takes to give that kid a good start in life. And what does matter if I ever posted here or not. Do i need your permission, will you and your secret club investigate me next??? ↑
Of course it takes money to raise a kid but you expect us to do that all the time? Since when is it a sin to have free time? And I didn't say it mattered if you posted or not, I was merely remarking that I had never seen you post before and was wondering if maybe you had a different username at some point. It just seemed random that you would come here, and post here, when it doesn't even concern you. And I wasn't sure if your post applied to me, I was asking because you said "girls" and only two of us posted... How am I supposed to know if you are mistaken in what I meant or not? ↑
I have skimmed through the other posts and thought it was mean that even after she's aplogized to continued to bagger her and so she finally left the site and even then you couldn't let it go and by "you" i dont mean just you, I mean all the other girls. It just seems to me you all need a hobby and something better to do than just this. It just shows your immaturity because you don't find this behavior on adult boards, just the kiddie ones. and it's just overwhelmingly sad that these are the kinds of people having babies and raising them to be just like them. it's just sad!! and if you yourself are not one of them,then again, don't take offense because it doesn't apply to you. ↑
and by the way, it becomes a sin for you to have a free time the minute you became pregnat. and maybe you were on birth control etc. but we all know that the only sure way to not get pregnant is to not have sex. So the minute you decided that it's time to have sex, was the minute you decided to give up everything in your life that had you as priority. right now it's your priority to assure that the kids you chose to bring into this world have the best shot at being a success and if that means working all the time - that's exacly what you ought to be doing my dear. That's what grown ups do!!!! ↑
Preppy1982: I have to give you props for finally telling these girls like it is!! I have been skimming the posts also and was trying to talk to angelmonkey in her appology post because I felt that she could use someone to talk to but everytime you try to have a conversation, the other little girls are right there again, doing the same thing that they do. These forums are for people to come to for advise and give advise, not be harassed and chased off. **Angelmonkey: Good luck in your future and with your baby!** ↑
I know that I will probably get crucified for doing that, but I just can't wrap my head around what these girls are doing!! it seems like they have turned this whole forum into one huge cat fight dominated by the few girls, who have nothing better to do, but yet continue to spit out children (yes, Ashley I'm pointing my finger at you!). It's simply horribile and in my day and age absolutely unacceptable!! ↑
I completely agree with you 100%. I have had a few things said to me also but I just ignore them and continue to move on. I dont need to stoop to there level and act like a couple of immature brats. They need to get hobbies and lives and start acting like mothers and grown up. I think it is sad what they are doing and they need to be more concerned about themselves and not other people. ↑
Alright I want to say one more thing to angelmonkey. Whenever you return I hope you look back and read this. You don't have to convince anyone what kind of mother you will be. You don't have to prove it to me, or db, or addysmummy or ashley. But, take the time to really think. Be completely and totally honest with yourself. The only person you have to convince is yourself, and your little bundle of joy. Your boyfriend, your mom, your best friend...whatever. No one knows you better than you. So if you really think you will be a good mom and be good to your child(ren) then you will be. Those who are for you, and those who are against you could never tell you. ↑
it' like they never let it go. they keep coming back for more drama - I really do pity the one who becomes a target and it really could be anyone. It's like a pit of snakes - they play nice until one gets hungry and then it's every man for himself. It's outrageous - it's really a perfect example of internet bullying - the only thing is, is that this is a pregnancy forum and was probably designed for your girls in trouble to seek help anonymously, but this is so beyond that, that the line is invisible. shame on them for acting this way and amanda - ALL OF YOU, including yourself should be printing this stuff out and looking back at it years from now - I guarantee you, you'll know then why your kids are not in college! ↑
I find it absolutely horrible that it has to be this way for some of the girls that get singled out and put through this! Don't the others realize that this might be the only place that some of these young girls can go for help and support?? They all claim that are responsible parents and they do this and that but would they wish this kind of cruelty on there own children if they were trying to find help? Responsible parents dont act this way and treat other people this way! It is a shame and so sad. ↑
So odd I've never seen preppy around anywhere.....and having a degree has nothing to do with how well you parent. I suppose all the stay at home moms know nothing about raising children. And since when does an ivy league school cost 16,000? I paid over 5 grand a SEMESTER to go to an awesome university. I think you're full of horse poo my dear. Also, for somebody sooooo educated and all knowing I would imagine you could put up a wee bit of a better arguement. ↑
hey preppy - do the homeowrkI HAVE A JOB YOUR TAX DOLLARS DONT HELP ME WITH SHIT !! and i was on the nuva ring a form of birth control when i got pregnant sorry to burst your fucking bubble ! and if you are on here maybe you have to much time HYPOCRIT!!! and both me and bf work fulltime and im in school so please do yourself a favour and if you dont like it here find another board ! ↑
it amazes me how she claims to be an adult and has nothing better to do with her so educated life then o go on the pregnancy side of this forum and post to all us horrible people !! hmm sounds to me that ive heard this argument b4 i dare say it might be someone who just left the boards :O ↑
I'm sorry, preppy why are you picking on me? I am intelligent, I gave her good advice and the only time I ever had a go at angel is when she was following me around the forums bitching at every little thing I said. She apologized and I happily forgave her. I'm really not being immature... if anything you are the one being immature when you're insulting my parenting abilities without having any knowledge of who I am, what I'm like or how I deal with things. I know I'm a good mother, I know I do everything I can for my daughter and I work my butt off to do it. I'm wondering why you don't seem to think so? ↑
Analmonkey...cause I know you are still reading...I nor did anyone else ever ask you to reveal your personal life...or anything else for that matter, but you cant come on here and lie about everything. Im sorry you had to go through whatevre you went through, but it is hard to be sympathetic to someone who has lied about everything possible. Yes there was a johnny, he is all over your myspace comments...You said yo moved out of your house, became homeless and started doing drugs, then moved into the hostel which is where you met you bf.....well first, you were homeless but had myspace access, you left home and immediately started drugs, so you were obviously on drugs when you found out you were pregnant.You act like nobody on here has seen the proof dear...you were fighting yourself..........I think i already have you pin pointed so there is nothing else for me to figure out. ↑
Honestly.....she didn't get chewed out until she started looking down her nose at everyone else in this forum, then couldn't take it when somebody pointed out she was no better and had no place to speak on such matters considering she had done the same herself. We dig our own holes. I've been fussed at before and didn't cry or go running off the forum because of it. I don't understand why so many *cough* women come on to these threads whining about the arguing that goes on and proceed to put themselves directly in the middle of the battle. Gosh I love my screen name *giggles* ↑
That's funny because every time any one of you sits down to spew your excuses about how you were on birth control and got pg despite it (READ what i said; best birth control = no sex!! duh) it sounds like gibberish. It's like you are trying to sound intelligent and mature but all anyone can hear is blah blah blah blah blah. give it up please, this fourm is so much better off without all of yours obsenities, bickering and bad grammar!! again, stay in school, stop having babies, grow the hell up and leave people alone....stop cruising the internet for easy pray and back off. And Ashley please look up your spelling!! reading your posts literally hurts!!! ↑
if you dont like my posts hmm DONT read them =) With my first child i wasn't on birthcontrol with my second i was! Its a free country and I CAN have sex if I want to! I support my child and I will support my unborn one as well! Thank you! And like i said before if you don't like this forum the maybe one of the other one's would suit you better! How can you put stay in school when most of the girls here (addysmommy ect) have finished and I myself am still in school?? I didn't realize that you where god and we all had to bow down to you!! And you say "That's funny because every time any one of you sits down to spew your excuses about how you were on birth control and got pg despite it " I've never seen you on these boards and I was on here when I was pregnant with my son and off and on and he will be 18 months old tmo.. and i've NEVER Seen you post so unless you are someone who has be stalking the boards or you are someone who left and made another user,:S ..................................You are saying that your more mature due to your education and what not, yet your still here bickering!! Seems to me an educated person would removes themselves if they didn't like it! Many people have tried to change this forum and make all the rude people leave and it hasn't worked I would hate to think that you believe that you will be the one to "clean" up these boards! ↑
addysmommy- how many other babies do you have ?? I thought this was your first haha lol... .... i went to the dr today and set my ultrasound for next friday!! Then I will know what im having haha to the mall i go =) ↑
Hahaha, ashley when I went to find out the gender, the ultrasound tech was like "okay are we finding out the sex today?" I practically interrupted her and said "Yep! Make it quick I have shopping to do!" Then immediately afterwards, the little girls section of babies r us was pretty much bare :) ↑
Does anyone even know what preppy is talking about?....hmm I thinkI may be lost.... *Kicks dirt in preppy's face because I dont thinkI like her and her useless post* ↑
preppy hun before you get on people about their spelling....it's prey NOT pray. If this forum would be much better off without our bickering then it would be better off without you also because.....last time I checked.....you were on here bickering *sticks tongue out at you* And why don't you comment on angel's spelling because hers is a hell of a lot worse. ↑
