My Boyfriend Wants Me To Have A Baby
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Hello everyone this is my first time on this sight and I was reading around and seems as though there is alot of support and help out here so I thought to ask a question..Ok i'm 22 I will be 23 in october and my ex boyfriend is 24 we were together a year and a half and recently broke up a month ago we are still friends best friends actually..he says he loves me wants to marry me he does everything in the world for me ..he thinks taking a break will really tell if we are made for each other..but any way we have unprotected s_x have since the first time we had s_x ..i've never gotton pregnant by him but lately he has been saying he wants me to be the mother of his kids..that i would be great..he says even if were not together or dont' get back together..that im his best friend and he wants me as the mother to his kids at least..what does that mean..can anyone tell me...should I do it or not.. I do love this man, I see kids with this man..a future, a house everything...someone please help me....
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If yall want to be together I think you should just be together, don't deal with all of this playing games and stuff. Get married....buy a house.... start having children as a family. I think you all should talk about this more, and decide what is best.
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 | G - September 17 |
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Umm you two broke up. Why would you break up if you feel so much "love" for eachother? You want kids with someone who breaks up with you? If someone is going to bring a child into the world, they need to do it right...they need to be together and have a strong relationship. They need stability, financially, physically, and emotionally. I brought my son into a family, I'm not married BUT I live with my fiance', we aren't constantly breaking up and getting back together. We are best friends but we are more than that. Don't let a guy impregnate you just because he wants you to be the mother of his kids. You'll have those babies and he'll be out somewhere finding other women and telling them the same thing while your home busting your a__s for nothing. Please just be smart. A child doesn't want to grow up with his/her parents playing games with eachother. Your so called best friend needs to grow up. This post wasn't to hurt your feelings, I'm just giving you advice because from what I read, it doesn't seem right. YOU need to think this through a lot more. Please don't bring a child into your type of relationship, think of how it would affect your child.
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Why doesn't he want a relationship first? If you want to talk, you can email me at jenny1606492@yahoo.com.
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if you really love him FOR FOR IT !!!!!!!!!
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