What Is The Best Age To Have Another

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Denise - August 24

I have a three month old son. I really miss being pregnant and want to have another one already. My husband wants to wait until our baby is out of diapers. Has anybody had a second pregnancy within a year? If so, how did you handle a todller and a newborn?

 

soleil - August 24

Im kind of feeling the same way, my daughter is 7mo. now and even though i hated being pregnant because of really bad morning sickness and the pain of labor and delivery, the outcome was something beautiful u know? I tell myself theres no way im getting pg again but then again If i have another child i want it to be close in age with my daughter. like 2 years apart.

 

- August 25

dude my son is 20 months and im 3 months pregnant and think im going to go crazy, just wait till there in the walking talking and getting in to stuff stage. but good luck its hard

 

Denise - August 25

Isn't that funny when your pregnant you think that you will never do this again and once it is all over you forget everything you went through? I also had really bad morning sickness but now I can't really remember it. My Mother had her fourth baby when I was 3 and a half. I loved having my sisters and brother to play with. I want that for my kids.

 

soleil - August 26

lol, i know i mean i know it sucked really bad when i was pregnant but right now im thinking....its not so bad, your only pregnant for 9mo.....I know what you mean with wanting that for your kids, the close in age thing. I want that for my daughter, i want her to have her siblings close to her age so that she can play with and relate to. My brothers are 10 and 15 years apart from my age and it just wasnt the same. We were into different things and didnt do much together you know, we barely talk now.

 

USA - August 30

You have to do what works for you. No one can tell you. I know siblings that are two years apart that truly can't stand one another and I know siblings that are 10 years apart that are extremely close. Good luck with what ever you decide.

 

mandee - September 5

hey girl, iam in your boat totally, but my daughter is only 1 month old, lol. i miss being pregnant to, and iam old enough (30), and my hubby doesn't say anything, but not yet lol. she is a blessing, and it took years to concieve though only 1 month of insemination, so if we did it naturally it could take years, which is not what i want. iam so with you girl. i know it's best to wait at least 6 months, but we won't be totally protecting ourselves from it not happening. we have money and i don't have to work, so i hear ya! i also wonder how hard it is to handle that kind of load, so iam looking for opinions as well. my best to you!

 

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