Miscarriage At 16 Weeks

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Ljj071416 - June 17

I had my 12 week scan at 12 weeks and 4 days. Everything showed normal measurements, heart rate was good, Down syndrome test came back as low risk etc. I’ve had three healthy pregnancies, no issues whatsoever. This time I had low iron. I started the iron tablets the day after the scan and got severe diarrhoea. The next appointment at the drs I had I was 13 weeks and 5 days and the dr couldn’t find a heartbeat with Doppler. I was told not to worry as it was early, so convinced myself not to. At 16 weeks and 1 day I went to hospital with a slight bleed which was bright red they thought I may have had an infection and were going to send me home after a quick check of baby via ultrasound, which then showed no heartbeat or movement. They said the baby died around 13/14 weeks. Looking back I had been super tired for about two weeks (which when they said iron I thought that might be it- level was 11), severe knots in shoulder particularly my left side and horrible stomach/ diarrhoea pain. Now I’m wondering if I had some kind of infection or virus. Has anybody had similar symptoms before a miscarriage to see if I can get tests done for maybe some kinds of answers. 

 

Anisa28 - June 20

Oh! I feel so sorry for you. I know it would be so hurtful to you. I have gone through this pain too. I had uterine polyps due to which I faced miscarriage. I was infertile and I never knew that. I was so upset and suffered a lot because of all this. I was so disappointed. I went for treatment too but nothing could help. I wasted 4 years trying to conceive. IVF and IUI were really a disaster for me. They failed due to poor egg quality I decided to go for the unnatural process. I thought about IVF but it was impossible in my condition to be successful. I made to go for surrogacy. I went for it to a clinic in Europe. I made my mind for this because I heard a lot of success stories of the clinic. I never thought of becoming a mother but surrogacy gave me a chance and now I am blessed with a baby. Just try again, If nothing could help go for Surrogacy. Stay blessed.

 

Sallylyon - June 20

Hey, I am sorry for such condition of yours. Sometimes a woman cannot conceive. I was also not able to Conceive. I was a sportswoman and I had fatigue injury due to which I was not able to conceive. My family was not accepting me. But my husband was supportive enough to help me out. We both wanted a baby badly. IVF is a risky and painful procedure so I wouldn't go for that. I was also not in a favour of adoption because I wanted my own baby. I chose surrogacy on my gynaecologist's suggestion. I found a clinic that was affordable and reliable. The clinic provided me with the healthy surrogate. So we went for it and we were happy that we are going to be parents soon. It was my last hope. I was blessed with a baby girl. I was so happy because now I am enjoying m motherhood. I hope my suggestion works and you would be a mother soon.

 

Stephine648 - July 5

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. I hope you don't have to face more of them. I have been through 3 miscarriages. There are many good clinics for solution regarding miscarriages. I have recently found one situated in Ukraine. They have quite a costless package with all the facilities. I have had many treatments from many experts but they never turn out to work out for me the way I hope them to. People have now told me about surrogacy and I am really thinking about going for it. I just need some guidelines as surrogacy is illegal in the state where I live and I am very scared. I just need to complete my life and my family before it is too late for me even to try.  I think you should give it a try too because in my view it is quite a suitable procedure for women of our age. I have pregnancy issue and complications from the past 10 years and I still am childless as I have always been. There must be some way to carry out everything legally, right? I guess surrogacy is the only solution to my problem. A friend has now suggested me to search for some international clinics that do not reside in our country. You should also visit a surrogacy related clinic.

 

Sasha1513 - July 5

I am sorry to hear about your miscarriage.I am also TTC from last 10 years but i can't conceive. There is no reason behind this. No one knows the reason behind my infertility. Even the doctors can't figure out the reason behind this. So we have decided to go for surrogacy now. But don't worry this happens to most of the women be strong and brave.

 

 

monikadavid - July 8

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. It must have been so hard for you. I hope everything gets better. I know MC can be so difficult to go through. I am sure that there will be no virus. However, if you think just visit a doctor. It is always better to visit a specialist and get some help. Stay strong and be brave.

 

marySmith - July 8

Hello. Hope you are doing well. I personally haven't experienced this symptom. I can understand the pain of miscarriage. I know it is hard. I am here to give you hope. You are so lucky to have three healthy pregnancies before. You are lucky that you are not facing infertility. My friend was declared infertile. She went for her treatment in a clinic in Europe. Now she is fine and a happy mother too. You should be hopeful. You can surely conceive again. I would recommend giving some gap first. There are also many treatments like IVF and surrogacy. I wish everything turns out well. Good luck to you.

 

Isla28 - July 8

Hello dear, I am so sorry for you. Every woman wants to have babies. You should go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. And surrogacy is mostly successful. And the clinic in Europe is peerless. I have also a baby through surrogacy. And visited Europe for this purpose. I am very glad now.

 

Rachel966 - July 8

Sorry to hear about your miscarriage. Its the part of life. I am from Japan. I am also infertile. We moved to Europe in search of a very good clinic. We didn't found a good clinic in Europe. We moved to Ukraine than. In Ukraine we found a clinic. It has many good reputation. As i am sharing my direct experience with you all. We found a good surrogate. Now she is pregnant with our two daughters. Soon we will have two daughters.

 

AshaSmith - August 18

Hello. I am very sorry to hear this. If you're having doubts, visit your gyno as soon as possible. Only they can give you the right answers. Don't delay it. Don't wait for any answers. We're praying for you. Good luck! 

 

flora12 - August 20

Hey. I'm very sorry about your miscarriage. I can feel your pain, dear. I've been through 3 miscarriages myself. There isn't any pain greater than the pain of losing your unborn baby. Don't lose hope, everything will be fine. You'll definitely get pregnant again and have a smooth pregnancy. Just pray for yourself. All the best! 

 

Brenda12 - August 25

Hey, there! I can't believe this. Miscarriages are a nightmare. I can relate, honey. I've had two of them! It's the worst thing in the world. I hope you get over it, ASAP. My prayers are with you. 

 

sidneywhite - August 27

Oh! I feel sorry for you. I know it would be so hurtful. I have gone through this pain too. I have heart problems due to which I faced miscarriages. I was infertile and I never knew that. I suffered a lot because of this. I was so disappointed. I went for treatment too but nothing could help. I wasted 4 years trying to conceive. I tried IVF too but failed. After that we decided to try surrogacy. We contacted L***s clinic for treatment. We were hopeful and happy. We sent them several emails but they didn't reply to any. It has been approx 2 months but still we are waiting for their response. The waiting period made all our hopes die. We don't know what to do next. we heard a lot about this clinic but the clinic's negligence killed all our hope and dreams. 

 

lidya - August 28

I am sorry for your loss. I am sure this can be treated. Consult your doctor on regular basis. Just take care of her, this can cause infertility problems in the future. Ask her to keep trying. I am facing infertility issues. I am trying to conceive for almost 4 years and yet not conceived. So the point is to never lose hope. there is nothing to feel ashamed of because it's part of life. And it's natural. Much love for you.

 

Nina Edward - August 28

Hello! How are you? I am so sorry for what you are doing though. No doubt infertility is the worst disease. But don't give up. Try to be brave. I am in the same boat. I was also infertile for a long time. I had 2 miscarriages after marriage. My doctor said I can't conceive naturally. It was really shocking to me. I was really depressed when my friend suggested me to go for surrogacy. She told me about a well-reputed clinic in Europe. I and my husband decided to go there. It was the best clinic. They gave us the best treatment. I recommend you to contact them too. Take care of your health.

 

Brenda12 - August 28

Hi, there. I hope you're alright. Miscarriages are the worst. I can't believe this happened, honey. I really hope you get over it. I had a miscarriage a couple of years ago. It was the worst time of my life. Lots of love and support for you! x

 

Sasha1513 - September 28

Don't worry dear it happens to most of us. There is no need to be worried off. I am also infertile. I was also TTC (trying to conceive) from past 10 years but had no luck. My husband now said me to go for surrogacy. I have heard that it is the best solution for infertility today. I live in Bulgaria so now i have decided to move to Ukraine for surrogacy. I have heard there are any good clinics regarding surrogacy. My husband is with me and he is always there to support you. 
Best wishes.

 

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