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InADaze - November 15

my fiance got another woman pregnant and I found out about a month before our wedding. I also miscarried that same month. I miscarried first and the I found out that this other woman is pregnant. The wedding is in 2 weeks. Family and friends are all flying in. My fiancé has asked me to stay with him throughout all of this but postponed the wedding because the girl's pregnancy is fragile and He doesn't care about the other girl but only wants his child. He also told me that he sees the pregnancy as a mistake. 

Now am I an idiot for staying with him and tolerating all of this ? 

 

 

Grandpa Viv - November 18

I've seen too many good relationships fail because one partner can't forgive an infidelity. If you are confident he wants you more than her, try to reconcile. You will eventually end up with some kind of relationship with his child and the mother.

There are some unanswered question. Your fiance has got two women pregnant in six months, so maybe his moral compass and responsibility is questionable. Was your marriage planned because you fell pregnant, or was the pregnancy jointly planned? Is this story of a fragile pregnancy well founded or a hook she has dreamed up? Does he regret straying or just the fact that she got pregnant? Is he spending a lot more time with you than with her?

Above all, do not get pregnant again until you are sure of where you stand.

 

Tiffany786 - August 28

What you have done? Are you staying with him or not?

 

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