Pregnant By A Married Man

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tuesday girl - March 24

I am new to this site as well, but I want to tell you my story. About 14 years ago I started an affair with someone that i truly cared about. As a result of this affair I had a beautiful daughter. The father really care about me but was torn and was there with me through the whole process.At first he didn't want the child, but after I told him that wasn't going to have an abortion, he was okay with the situation. Well the baby was born in 1999 and he gave her his last name. I thought that we were so in love and that everything was going to work out. Well I was so wrong. He stopped coming to see the baby and I just lost it. I started doing things that normally I would never do and eventually, I told his wife and put him on child support. Well it so happens that his wife left him because i learned that he cheated on her before and had another child during their union. He has nothing to do with his child with me and has since remarried and is living well. Myself however, I been having trouble trusting other men and is still devastated that he does not have any contact with my daughter.It's really hard to deal with knowing that he just was able to bounce back like nothing happened and totally ignores our daughter. Just be careful and be prepared to raise your child alone. Don't do anything harsh or rash because you will have to live with the consequences as I have been for the past 14 years. good luck and God bless.

 

tuesday girl - March 24

I am new to this site as well, but I want to tell you my story. About 14 years ago I started an affair with someone that i truly cared about. As a result of this affair I had a beautiful daughter. The father really care about me but was torn and was there with me through the whole process.At first he didn't want the child, but after I told him that wasn't going to have an abortion, he was okay with the situation. Well the baby was born in 1999 and he gave her his last name. I thought that we were so in love and that everything was going to work out. Well I was so wrong. He stopped coming to see the baby and I just lost it. I started doing things that normally I would never do and eventually, I told his wife and put him on child support. Well it so happens that his wife left him because i learned that he cheated on her before and had another child during their union. He has nothing to do with his child with me and has since remarried and is living well. Myself however, I been having trouble trusting other men and is still devastated that he does not have any contact with my daughter.It's really hard to deal with knowing that he just was able to bounce back like nothing happened and totally ignores our daughter. Just be careful and be prepared to raise your child alone. Don't do anything harsh or rash because you will have to live with the consequences as I have been for the past 14 years. good luck and God bless.

 

TheWife - August 21

Late and new to the site and post, but this is a topic very near and not so dear to my heart. After being married 10yrs and giving hubby hell, he found a "friend." She knew he was married from day one, but had her own agenda. She loaned him an ear and more, though at no point he promised to leave me, she a__sumed she was "that girl." One of our main problems(hubby and I) was he wanted a child and I didn't. After 3 mths together she got pregnant. I found the emails and he never once said he was coming to her. I contacted her and she was very nasty and disrespectful. It's been 2yrs and MY husband and I have the child every 6mths. I told her I'd be there to help raise the child, but she disbelieved me. Be careful ladies, b/c while the men are not blameless, don't underestimate your opponent (the wife) some of us will fight for our family. Granted, if he wanted to leave, he's free to, b/c I have too much to offer to waste myself on someone who wants to be somewhere else. It's not always easy, but he is constantly trying to be the man he vowed to be, not to mention even though it's a whopper of a mess up, it's his only one in our 10, now 12 yrs. 40yr marriages don't come easy people.

 

RebeccaT - November 16

TO ALL WHO LET THEMSELVES BE FOOLED BY A FOOL,I DONT KNOW WHY ITS OK FOE A SAUDI GUY TO HAVE s_x B4 MARRIAGE BUT ITS DIFFERENT FOR A WOMAN,YET THEY ARE THE ONES WHO WANT A VIRGIN ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT AFTER CORRUPTING ,,HOW MANY VIRGINS ALREADY,,RIGHT...IT ISNT FAIR AND THEN WHEN THEGIRL GETS PREGNANT ITS ALL THE GIRLS FAULT,,NO..ITS..JUST AS MUCH THE GUYS BECAUSE THEY ARE TO BE A MAN AND SHOULD BE STRONGER AND IF HE LOVED THE GIRL IN THE 1ST PLACE HE WOULDNT EVEN ASK HER TO GIVE OF HERSELF LIKE THAT,,,AND THEN TO NOT CLAIM HIS OWN CHILD,,WHEN HE DENIES THE CHILD,,AT THAT TIME,,ITS UP TO THE WOMAN TO DECIDE WHATS BEST FOR HER,,AND IF SHE CHOOSES TO NAME THE CHILD AFTER THE FATHER SHE HAS THAT RIGHT BECAUSE THE FATHER GAVE HIS RIGHTS UP WHEN HE DENIED THE CHILD-SPERM DONOR,WHAT EVER YOU WANT TO CALL HIM,,HE SURE ISNT A MAN,,THATS FOE SURE,,AND IF ANYONE OF YOU NEED A PLACE TO GET SETTLED HERE IN THE USA ,,IM A MOM & GRANDMA I CAN HELP AND UNLIKE THESE FREAKY s_x CRAZED GRANPA,S WHO JUST WANT TO USE YOU AS A s_x OBJECT,,I CAN REALLY HELP YOU,,,AND GIVE YOU THE GUIDANCE YOU NEED LIKE ANY OTHER MOTHER WOULD DO WITH A DAUGHTER....hottamalemom59atyahoodot.com.....IF YOU HAVE NO WHERE TO GO BUT HAVE THE MONEY TO GET HERE CONTACT ME...SOMEONE WHO WAS THERE B-4

 

African_Queen - June 25

Well, good that you brought this up. I am a mother to a 10 year old boy and have been single for some time. I am one of those so called Educated women (PhD) that men dont have the courage to approach me. I am 36 and would love to have another child...and yes, I was thinking of having baby with a married man.. After reading all these comments, I am not going ahead with it.... I will not date him either... I dont even know what the heck I was thinking

 

jenduhh - September 10

can u email me at jenduhh06 at yahoo

 

KCasting - May 16

Hello Everyone,

I hope this message finds you well. I'm really sorry to hear about some of your troubles surrounding your pregnancy, but would like to tell you about the project I'm working on in the hopes of speaking further with you!

Firstly, my name is Kate and I am a casting associate for a television production company in New York City, and I am currently casting individuals for a television docu-series on the TLC network that is centered around pregnancy and parenting.

We are looking to tell unique and heartfelt stories, and one of the topics we are interested in touching on is a woman who is pregnant by a married man, and going to be raising the baby as a single parent. We realize this is a sensitive and unique situation, but that there are people out there who can relate to such a circumstance and would like to see this story told on television.

I would love to speak further with anyone who has an interest in learning more about our show or in sharing their story. If you are currently going through this and would like to speak to me directly and confidentially, please feel free to email me at kcooper [at] magilla [dot] tv for more information!

 

Thanks for reading this ladies and I hope you have a great day!

 

KCasting - May 16

Hello All,

I hope this comment finds you well. I?'m sorry to hear about some of the troubles you are having in your pregnancy, and I wanted to tell you all about the project I am working on that may be of interest to you. 

My name is Kate and I am currently casting individuals for a television docu-series on the TLC network that is centered around pregnancy and parenting. We are looking to tell unique and heartfelt stories, and one of the stories we are interested in telling is that of a woman who is pregnant by a married man, and is going to be raising her child as a single mother.We realize this is a sensitive and unique situation, but that there are people out there who can relate to such a circumstance and would like to see this story told on television.

I would love to speak further with anyone who has an interest in learning more about our show or in sharing their story. If you are currently going through this and would like to speak to me directly and confidentially, please feel free to email me at kcooper [at] magilla [dot] tv for more information!

Thanks  so much for reading and have a great day!

 

 

 

 

KCasting - May 16

Hello All,

I hope this comment finds you well. I?'m sorry to hear about some of the troubles you are having in your pregnancy, and I wanted to tell you all about the project I am working on that may be of interest to you. 

My name is Kate and I am currently casting individuals for a television docu-series on the TLC network that is centered around pregnancy and parenting. We are looking to tell unique and heartfelt stories, and one of the stories we are interested in telling is that of a woman who is pregnant by a married man, and is going to be raising her child as a single mother.We realize this is a sensitive and unique situation, but that there are people out there who can relate to such a circumstance and would like to see this story told on television.

I would love to speak further with anyone who has an interest in learning more about our show or in sharing their story. If you are currently going through this and would like to speak to me directly and confidentially, please feel free to direct message me for more information and contact details.

 

KCasting - May 16

Hi Everyone- my name is Kate and I am a casting associate at Magilla Entertainment  in New York. We are now casting pregnant woman for a docu-series about pregnancy and parenthood on TLC. I am currently looking to speak with woman who are pregnant by a married man and planning on being a single parent, which lead me to this forum! I would love to speak with some of you and tell you more about the project. If you would like to speak to me directly and confidentially, please direct message me so I can give you further details.

 

Thanks so much and I hope to hear from some of you!

 

KCasting - May 16

Hi Everyone- my name is Kate and I am a casting associate at Magilla Entertainment  in New York. We are now casting pregnant woman for a docu-series about pregnancy and parenthood on TLC. I am currently looking to speak with woman who are pregnant by a married man and planning on being a single parent, which lead me to this forum! I would love to speak with some of you and tell you more about the project. If you would like to speak to me directly and confidentially, please direct message me so I can give you further details.

 

Thanks so much and I hope to hear from some of you!

 

KCasting - May 16

hihi

 

CDP - October 14

Hi, 

I am new here. But this is how my story goes. I was once in a 10 year relationship where my man at the time cheated on me continuously until finally he got someone pregnant and our relationship came to an end. 

When I was with him, I tried to have kids but doctors told me that I might not have any because my tubes were blocked.

6 years after being separated I met a man who told me he was going through a divorce.  I decided to give him a try and 6 months into seeing him I found out I was pregnant.  I was shocked, confuse and very surprise. I never loved him but I did care for him. When i told him I was pregnant he was devastated and bitter and insisted on an abortion because he did not want anymore kids. An abortion had never crossed my mind, from the time I realize I was pregnant I fell in love with the person that existed inside of me. I knew that even if he came out special I wanted him to be apart of my life for ever.

He treated me horrible throughout my entire pregnancy, he never had sex with me during that time, he did not help me financially and I had to prepare for my baby on my own. 

I was stronger than I thought. I have absolutely no family around. Only prayers kept me through.  By the time my baby came he had everything he needed, a roof over his head and two loving arms. Throughout all this, all i had was two part time jobs. I went into labor at work because I couldnt afford to loose a day of work. My family came for the delivery and they supported me through that time. 

After the baby came, the dad started coming around again. I am not sure if he really care about my baby or if its just to get between my legs but my son is now 10 months old and my mind is made up. I dont want to see the dad anymore. I need my freedom. I need a breath of fresh air, I wanna build an amazing future for my son but I feel like dad's negative energy is holding me down. It is suffocating.  I am not trying to find a new man I just wanna raise my son the best way i possibly can. 

Daddy though dont get it, he wants to hold me down, he wants to keep me in his realm. This is not the first "oops baby" he has. He has a son with another woman while he was already dating his wife, and he has a daughter with another woman when already married. the wife and his other kids dont know about my baby. I am not trying destroy them because I know what it feels like. I just want him to get out of my life and let me and my son continue to bond. What do I do?

 

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