Pregnant Of A Saudi He Left And I Want To Use His Lastname

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Thais.arguelho - October 6

Hi all, My story is a very sad story and i'm sure i'm not the only one who was involve with the lies of the lovely Saudi guys. I had been in a relationship for more than 2 years, and all was good until the last two months when he went back to Saudi Arabia and never come back, even if he knows i'm 7 months pregnant. In my culture a children without the last name of his father has not value for the society, and my baby will born in U.S. the couple months. As i said the father of my child left me alone and runaway and even tho i want to register my child with his last name. However, I'm not sure if i can do that, and if i do that i will be able to get the passport of my child without any problem taking in consideration his nationality and the laws in America. I hope to receive some good news and advices. Thanks a lot, Thais.

 

Thais.arguelho - October 6

Oh I forgot i'm in Texas.

 

pregnant_single - October 8

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Grandpa Viv - October 27

Thais, any child born in USA is automatically a US citizen. Each state has different rules about what goes on the birth certificate. If your Saudi is willing to sign an affidavit that he is the father, there should not be a big problem. If you have no way of communicating with him, it will be tough. From what I read of Texas, they really like you to name the father, so maybe that will help. Ask if there is legal aid in your town where you can ask a lawyer this question at low cost. I don't think there are any rules about middle names.

 

pregnant_single - November 1

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Grandpa Viv - November 1

Thais, one person I asked said that you can give the child any name you want. Naming the father can be more complicated.

 

Thais.arguelho - November 2

Thank you for the information :)

 

RebeccaT - November 9

you can put the baby,s last name as the father.My daughter did and they still have not gotten married yet Its the childs birth right.and they cant tell you what to name your baby.

 

Thais.arguelho - November 9

Hi Rebecca, I have that question because most of the people said that i need the permission of her father in order to put his last name. Hopefully, I can do it when my daughter born. Thanks.

 

pregnant12 - February 13

I am so glad you asked this question. I am in a very similar situation. I too fell for a Saudi, thinking that he was my soul mate. We we very happy and in love for 3 years until I got pregnant 4 months ago. Now, he wants nothing to do with me or the baby. I was told I was not able to get pregnant, but I did. I was shocked and excited. After telling him, I was only shocked - not because of the pregnancy, but because of the way he immediately changed into a different person right in front of me. Despite of his hatred for me for refusing to have an abortion, I still want my baby to have his last name and have a understanding/respect for his culture/heritage. I have many more questions, if you would like to chat, please let me know. I would love to hear from someone going through what I am painfully going through right now.

 

RebeccaT - February 16

your baby takes the name you decide,and NO you dont have to ask for permission!IF YOU WISH TO MOVE HERE I CAN HELP YOU AND YOU WILL NOT BE DISCRASED IN THIS COUNTRY BECAUSE SO MANY HAVE GONE THRU THE SAME THING ,EVEN ME...REBECCA T

 

pregnant_single - February 17

If you are single and pregnant, you don't have to be! Check out my profile for Facebook page information on finding a man that will love and adore you during and after your pregnancy, or search 'Pregnant and Single' in Facebook. I have also established a Yahoo group called 'PREGNANTNSINGLENLA' to put single pregnant women together with men who possess a strong s_xual attraction for pregnant woman. So, if you're still pregnant and single, that is purely your choice as you don't have to be.

 

dekraytom - November 13

I got it .It's pretty easy to understand. Thanks.

 

RebeccaT - November 16

TO ALL WHO LET THEMSELVES BE FOOLED BY A FOOL,I DONT KNOW WHY ITS OK FOE A SAUDI GUY TO HAVE s_x B4 MARRIAGE BUT ITS DIFFERENT FOR A WOMAN,YET THEY ARE THE ONES WHO WANT A VIRGIN ON THEIR WEDDING NIGHT AFTER CORRUPTING ,,HOW MANY VIRGINS ALREADY,,RIGHT...IT ISNT FAIR AND THEN WHEN THEGIRL GETS PREGNANT ITS ALL THE GIRLS FAULT,,NO..ITS..JUST AS MUCH THE GUYS BECAUSE THEY ARE TO BE A MAN AND SHOULD BE STRONGER AND IF HE LOVED THE GIRL IN THE 1ST PLACE HE WOULDNT EVEN ASK HER TO GIVE OF HERSELF LIKE THAT,,,AND THEN TO NOT CLAIM HIS OWN CHILD,,WHEN HE DENIES THE CHILD,,AT THAT TIME,,ITS UP TO THE WOMAN TO DECIDE WHATS BEST FOR HER,,AND IF SHE CHOOSES TO NAME THE CHILD AFTER THE FATHER SHE HAS THAT RIGHT BECAUSE THE FATHER GAVE HIS RIGHTS UP WHEN HE DENIED THE CHILD-SPERM DONOR,WHAT EVER YOU WANT TO CALL HIM,,HE SURE ISNT A MAN,,THATS FOE SURE,,AND IF ANYONE OF YOU NEED A PLACE TO GET SETTLED HERE IN THE USA ,,IM A MOM & GRANDMA I CAN HELP AND UNLIKE THESE FREAKY s_x CRAZED GRANPA,S WHO JUST WANT TO USE YOU AS A s_x OBJECT,,I CAN REALLY HELP YOU,,,AND GIVE YOU THE GUIDANCE YOU NEED LIKE ANY OTHER MOTHER WOULD DO WITH A DAUGHTER....hottamalemom59 atyahoodot.com.....IF YOU HAVE NO WHERE TO GO BUT HAVE THE MONEY TO GET HERE CONTACT ME...SOMEONE WHO WAS THERE B-4

 

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