What Do I Do

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Sica - May 14

The monday before Good Friday my boyfriend told me that 2 months into our relationship he had cheated on me (drunk) and may have gotten her pregnant. For the last month this had been hanging over our heads if he was the father or not as she had slept with someone else at the same time. 4 days after he told me a baby boy was born.

We have been together for a year and I love him, so I was trying to accept the fact that he made a mistake and fingers crossed that this baby was not his while waiting for the test results.

A week ago I went to my doctor and found out that I am also pregnant. 2 days after that we got the results, and the baby is his...

My friends do not know I am pregnant, but have been telling me that if I love him and that if I can accept the fact that there is a kid and can see a future with him, to try and work things out.

But honestly, I absolutely hate the woman and I have never met her. I don't know what to do as I am having trouble trusting him when he goes out, and I do not believe some things he has told me. I've been trying hard to only focus on him, our baby, and I. But his first born id now just a reminder that he cheated on me and that I am very hut and sad right now.

My family said they will support me in any decision. I just dont know if I should try and make this work, or get out. I love him, but he hurt me pretty bad... I feel like I'm in a movie or something.

 

Grandpa Viv - May 19

Painful, for sure. He must have been in contact with her all this time, and the important question is what are their feelings for each other. Children have half siblings all the time these days. This is about an adult triangle and where you stand in it. 

 

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