Hoping To Adopt

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shellbelln - April 23

My husband and I have been on this journey of hoping to adopt for six years. We have been through all the red tape so to speak at times it feels rather hopeless. We have been through an adoption agency which ended up closings year later; can't say it was much of a surprise. We decided next to get into foster care we have been in the program for three years and have had many babies come and go. We were asked by a local foster agency to switch to them because they are in need of more families like my husband and myself. The problem is I feel like my heart is a revolving door. I wanted to take a period of a break from foster with hopes to find a forever baby or child we could adopt and finally have a family. We created online profiles and have managed to have five failed adoptions through the six years of our various navigation through all the resources. I didn't expect it to be easy to accept infertility nor was I nieve about the hardships of waiting for adoption but six years!!! I feel heartbroken. I have given my all to all the birthmoms that have come into my life, as well as every foster baby. We live in Pennsylvania and hope to find a mom in need of an adoption plan and possibly live within our state so we can build a relationship, trust and mutual acceptance of each other. If anyone has advice, knows of someone I would be utterly grateful. We dream to devote our lives to a child, to cherish them and give them the best we can give filled with a future of unconditional love and encouragement. Michellefejes at yahoo dot com

 

Unfortunately, due to the fact that many people have been using this forum to essentially try to "buy" or "sell" babies we have decided not to permit any more posts to this area of the site

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