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HEY IAM 20 AND I FEEL THE SAME WAY BUT I ALSO FEEL LIKE I CAN WAIT THERE'S A LOT OF THING THAT I WONNA DO THAT I HAVENT DID AND JUST THINKIN ABOUT BRINGING A BABY INTO THIS WORLD IS CRAZY IAM 20 AND I THINK IAM TO YOUNG SO YOU KNOW WHAT IAM GOING TO SAY ABOUT YOUR AGE NOT SAYING THAT YOU CANT DO IT BUT JUST MAKE SURE YOUR READY AND YOU HAVE A GOOD JOB AND A MAN THAT WILL STICK BY YOU THREW EVERYTHING BECUZ IT GETS HARD SOMETIME BY YOURSELF I DIDNT GROW UP WITH A FATHER DONT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE
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If you have to ask others if they think it's OK, it's probably not. Once you've finished high school, gone to college, found a stable career, enjoyed adult life for a bit and found the right man, you won't need to ask, it'll just be right. So perhaps it's best to wait.
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Unless you have a steady job and can at least drive legally, you shouldnt have a baby. Wait until you, yourself is able to care for it.
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r u kidding me ??!! i have wanted a baby for as long as i can remember. i am 31,married and trying very hard to conceive. u r selfish to think about being able have a baby! just being able to get pregnant and give birth does not make u a parent it takes more then just love. it takes money to provide shelter,food,clothes,etc. do u want to miss ur friends,prom,etc.ur parents would be the ones providing that and its not fair.at least graduate hihg school and re-think having a baby.
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Hey kid... I am not one to lecture you about under age s_x... ( I started when I was 12... and learned my lesson.) I am 20 now, and still, though I think I could care for one, and provide, I worry if I am to young... but I know this... If I would have had my baby (I was pregnant b4 my first year of high school and dis something I will regret for the rest of my life.) I would NEVER have been able to graduate or give my child the things it would have deserved... and it wouldn't have been my baby... It would have been my mother's baby. Do you understand that part? I know that I made the right decision not to have the baby BUT the better decision would have been to keep my legs closed in the first place.... and everyone would have been better off... WAIT TO HAVE A BABY! I am trying to wait, and I have wanted one ever since I lost mine....trust me, I find it hart to believe you want one worse than me, who carried one for 4 months! -Sorry...
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This might be hard to accept. But you might be in dire need of attention and love. What is lacking in your life that a baby would fill? Love? Some children grow up and hate their parents. A baby is not a guarantee of love... especially if you can not provide for him. If you have a baby now, will be most likely be on welfare when you come to the age to move out and get your own place. It's very hard for people to get off welfare. You can still go to school and do something with your life but then you're going to have to put the baby in day care or hire a babysitter or have your mom watch the baby. Since you are under age, your parents might decide to adopt the baby and raise it as their own, as your brother or sister. You have to really sit down and consider ALL the possibilities that could happen. My husband's sister had a baby at your age and her mother adopted the baby. They were raised as siblings. When my husbands sister wanted to move out, she wanted to take the baby with her but legally she couldn't because she was now the mother's baby.Even though the baby is now 18yo, many years later, they are still fighting over her.... and one more thing. what about your boyfriend? Does HE want a baby or are you planning to dupe him into getting you pg?
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