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I'm 22 years old, and in the past 2 weeks I have REALLY gotten the baby bug!!! I"ve always known I was meant to be a mommy, but I always thought it was goinig to be wayyy off in the future. Lately I had been having all the pregnancy symtoms, and was 98% sure it was the real deal. I came to terms with it and was really excited, but after the bloodwork came back they found that it was a thyroid problem, and I wasn't pregnant at all. My boyfriend and I weren't relieved, but dissapointed. He's my childhood sweetheart and the one I want to be with forever, and he's so amazing around kids it makes my heart melt. I think he's more dissapointed actually, cause he keeps saying how much he wants a baby A LOT. But after much thinking I've realized this isn't the greatest time for us to start having kids. We were planning on going to a different school next year across the country, and want to be a little more stable first. I know that you can't wait to have all your finances together, cause that may never happen, but I mean just more stable then the current situation.
But my quesiton is: Once you know that it's not the ideal time to have kids, how do you get the baby off the brain!
I'm going crazy, so any tips would be appreciated. Thanks :)
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