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you are welcome shorty! i believe you are making the right choice to wait. the desire may "pop up" on you again, but try to brush it off for now. we all wanna be loved, heck, i'll luv ya shortly, and be your pal, i have no problem with that, i just so want you to be happy and feel good about you! i know i did NOT at 15. good luck hon and w/b whenever i will check up on you:) sherry
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'Sherry' Thank you Sherry you are brilliant you are realli understanding. hope t chat soon! x
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see i felt the same way i wanted a baby really bad the past year. i never tried to have one. i have a boyfriend and now that i might be pregnant everything changed. im scared. my boyfriend is more scared than i am and the more i think about it and the more i just wanna stick to babysitting.
try overnight babysitting once. it will totallly change your mind. but atleast you can give those back.
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hi, gd luk wi ur pregnancy n i fink ul b a gr8 mum, ur luki t av ur lad stik wi u. Pls keep me updated n keep strong xxx
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I am 18 and pregnant, and I thought I could manage. WAIT UNTIL YOU ARE OLDER AND MARRIED. IT IS BETTER FOR YOUR CHILD AND YOU CAN GIVE YOUR BABY A REAL LIFE AND A REAL FUTURE TO LOOK FORWARD TO.
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Dear shorty , im sure you could get pregnant but would it be the right thing to do is another question . Here in the uk i work with young mums from 14 upwards , some are brilliant mums but i do feel sad when i visit them in their grotty flats with no money and no family support .Here in the uk we have a awful record for teenage pregnancies and research has shown that the children of teenagers have worst outcomes in life , but iunderstand that when you want a baby this rational thought goes out the window , just think about your reasons about having a baby and keep talking . good luck.
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your work sounds very interesting I want to do something like that when i'm older, or councelling with teens could u give me any info on your wrk? wd b very appreciated lv shorty
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hey jus thought i would let u know that so far my babys dad is still with me and it will be 3 months for us on february 17th! he got me a $80 valentine day present and we are still holding strong. reguardless of the little fights we get in..but hey every1 have them rite! well jus thought id let u no what was goinon
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hiya jessy,
congrats!! did u av a boy or a girl? hw was the birth?keep me updated pls, im realy glad u n ur bf r still 2geva i wish u all the best 4 the future, loadsa lv nat xxxxxx
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hiya jessy,
congrats!! did u av a boy or a girl? hw was the birth?keep me updated pls, im realy glad u n ur bf r still 2geva i wish u all the best 4 the future, loadsa lv shorty xxxxxx
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Hey Shorty. I just wanted to say that i know exactly how you feel, I am 17 and want a baby more than anything right now...and have wanted a baby since i was 15. I think you should make sure you have found the right guy and make sure he is up for it. You wouldn't wanna be left raising it by yourself. And do you plan on saving enough money for the hospital bills and payments after that? Just some things you may want to keep in mind. If you have means of pey for the baby and a great dad for it i think then you should proceed. Good luck and i think everything will turn out the way it should.!
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wat till ur a li tle older and u been workin and saving account
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hey...when i said 3 months i meant our 3 month anniversary lol...sorry if i confused ya but everything is still going good and we just got engaged!!!
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3 months - thats committed? and you were pregnant when you'd been together at most 2 months? ((snigger at the silliness))
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Dear shorty sorry i have not got back to you b4. I am a health visitor in the uk and work with a lot of young mums supporting them , i also run a postnatal depression group which sees the reality of being a mum , if there are issues that are not resloved b4 having children they can often raise their ugly head after the baby is born. This all sounds very negative and is not the norm but is another side of motherhood.
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Hey Everyone! My names Elise and I am head of a site called Bundlesoflove where we support Teens TTC! So if you want to post , chat , and meet other Teens that TTC without unwanted interruptions. It is easy to join my organization! You can contact me at TeenParentsRock@yahoo.com I hope to hear from you soon! ~lots of love and support ~ EliseMichelle
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