Fallen Pregnant Using Contraception HELP

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lan - November 15

Hi, I'm 25 and mum of 3 who works full time in a good career that i've worked hard at building since my eldest have been at school. I took a pregnancy test the other day and it's positive. I'm 6 weeks pregnant with child number 4 and I had the same situation with child number 3 (now 2 yrs old). I'm not reckless/careless, in fact had a coil and now an implant - obviously I'm incredibly fertile. The father is different to my other children's dad- and he has only just had ANOTHER baby with someone else (since seperated). I don't know what to do - pretty sure i'd be giving up my career if i have this baby, also pretty sure i'd not have any support from the father financially (although he will stand by me whatever happens), but my own family for that matter, will not be overly willing to help. HELP...I went through this emotion before and COULDN'T go through with an abortion. What should I do? Do I risk giving up my job and maybe even losing my house for the sainity of not having an abortion, or am i just delaying the inevitable - I seem to fall pregnant no matter what the concraception method - coil/implant/pill and condoms (and I'm only 25!) - None of my 3 children were planned - but of course I love them so much... couldn't be without them. What do I do???

 

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