I Have Never Felt So Alone!!
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I feel really sad. I would blame my hormones, but I have been feeling sad for a couple of weeks about this. If I dont bring up my pregnancy in a conversation, no one will talk about it. No one asks me how Im doing, or how baby's doing. I understand my friends who dont have kids might not be interested yet, but the friends who recently had kids also seem not to care! I had pregnancy symptoms like nausea and severe hip joint pain since 6 weeks, even though the pregnancy was only confirmed at 13 weeks (thats a whole other story!). I was already feeling terrible before I found out I was pregnant, and within the first week of knowing, I overheard how I was "faking my symptoms". So I decided to stick to my younger sister (mom of a 2 year old) because we are very close. The moment I asked her about the hip pains and told her about my extreme pains I get, I overhear her telling my gran (not even 10 minutes later) that 'I will never survive this pregnancy if im already complaining now'. So I have my husband. And thats it. Mom passed away 10 years ago. No one else cares. I cant dare talk about my symptoms, because I'll hear how Im faking it and how im complaining too much. I was completely invested in my sister and my friends pregnancies. Why dont they do the same for me? Sorry... Now Im going to hear how Im just feeling sorry for myself (~sarcasm~)...
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Maybe the “13 weeks a whole nother story” is at the root of this. Your friends got listened out during that phase and are now reluctant to get you started. Wait until you have a nice baby bump and they will get more talkative
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Hey I hope you are feeling well. You're not alone we are all with you in this. If you want to share anything you can always write about it here. It will make you feel 10 times better. It is sad that people are spreading such negative vibes. I think you should only talk about your feelings with your husband. Be positive about it and stress free. I hope your pregnancy goes well.
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Stay strong at this moment of life. I hope your husband understands you. I know it's really the worst experience you're going through. Best of luck with the pregnancy! I hope it does a miracle to you. Trust me! Things will start changing for you. Once, you get out of it. Best of luck! Sending you some baby dust. xx Keep calm. It's important for the baby. Make your husband understand with you. You need him for now more than ever. :)
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Hey Adel. I'm really sorry for your loss. And i'm really sad to hear about your current situation. However you must know that you are definitely not alone. There are people that care for you. It's just hard for most people to do so. These things are hard to go through. And people have to be really careful of what they say in order to keep you happy. It is a tough time for them too as they are your friends. For the time being, just spend time with your husband. He is the only one you can turn to for now since he knows exactly what to say. Give your friends some time. They will be normal with you soon enough. Good luck till then. Hope everything goes well for you.
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Hi there. You are not feeling sorry for yourself. When you were so interested and invested in their lives and pregnancies, it is natural that you expect the same. But I believe this is part of life. Stressing too much would do you no good. Also, it is not necessary that you should share things only with those face to face with you. These forums have been made for all of us to share our experiences and stories. Do not let these negative things affect you or your pregnancy. Let these people be. With time they will realize their mistakes. Your priority should be taking care of yourself and you baby. Enjoy your pregnancy while it lasts. It is the best feeling to experience. I believe you should be focused on your baby and you husband. Make sure he understands what you are going through. Ask him for suggestions.
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I felt grief to known about your loss. Your current situation made me sad. Well, you are not alone in this journey. You'd know that many people around you care about you. You'd care and think about them too. I known infertility is really hard to go through. No one wants to face such hard times in life. It would be really hard time for you, that's disturbing. I must say you'd support and convince your DH in this regard. With his support, you can do anything. Surrogacy is a great blessing of science. I must say that you'd go for it. A clinic in Europe is known well in this regard. Till then, all the best!
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Hey Adele. How are you doing? Hope so you are fine now. My dear, you are suffering from a lot and it's really unfortunate. I think you should stay positive state. My dear, I know its very difficult to recover from losses. But sometimes you have no other choice then forget it. Because if you won't left it then this will going to tease you. So dear choice is yours. You have to decide whether you are going to fight or give up. Best of luck. Sending you positive vibes.
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