My Wife Is Pregnant And She Has A Heart Problem.

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brooksbill - May 21

My wife has a hole in her heart. She was told by the doctor that she won’t live long but she did. She even joined some sports during her college years and went on a few Latin America singles club to date around. Eventually, she got married to me. The doctor has been telling my wife to avoid getting pregnant but a few days ago, we found out that she is indeed, pregnant. She took 3 pregnancy tests and all appeared positive. We are extremely happy but a big part of us is worried. I’m worried for my wife and I’m worried for our baby. I don’t want my wife to suffer when she delivers the baby and most of all, I don’t want my baby to inherit the heart disease. I feel so lost and confused. My wife and I have yet to talk about this whole thing but I’m pretty sure we are keeping the baby. It would help us a lot if anyone went through this already. Please share your experience, advice, etc. Thanks ahead.

 

FloraRustin88 - May 21

First of all, congratulations. But, secondly, yes! That's really a tough situation to be in...So, yes! I wish you guys all the best! I hope you guys do conceive while your wife remains in a positive health condition. Wish her all the best! xx

 

page12 - May 21

hello there. I hope you are doing great.i am so sorry to hear about your loss. I started crying while I was reading this. it must be so hard for you. I am so happy that she has you and you are there for her. I think in the matter of pregnancy you should really be careful. there can be a lot of serious problems. your wife can have complications during the labor. I think you should consult your doctor. you should not lose hope. if you really want to have a baby you should consider going for surrogacy. surrogacy is a great choice, it was for me. there is no shame in it, and it is totally safe as well.

 

Grandpa Viv - May 21

Maybe a cardiologist would give better insight. Could the hole have gotten smaller? When did she last have an echocardiogram? Best of luck as you get another opinion. 

 

Rosina King - June 4

I am so sorry for the situation. It is such a mess. You have two most important people at the stake. You obviously dont wanna lose any one of them. It is such a difficult situation. Did you talk to the doctor? What are the chances? Will your wife be able to deliver the baby? I think you need to evaluate all the possibilities. You can have children in future. What is more important is your wife. You need to keep her before the baby. I know it is hard. But this is the safest decision. I hope you get a way out. 

 

DIVIYASALANA - June 7

Well, that's really a tough situation. It's time for you to remain strong! I guess! Yeah! What does the doctor say? Yeah. I mean it's not easy. I know! But, I really wish your wife good health stay close to her. I hope it's fine for her. Best of luck!

 

erin_wales - June 12

Hey, I hope everything is happening great with you. Your loss really broke my heart. It filled my eyes with tears. I have some idea that how much it would be difficult for you. It's appreciable that you are supporting your wife so much. Pregnancy is very critical so you should be very careful. One may face many serious problems in such situations. Your wife may fell in such consequences. I would recommend you to follow your doctors’ advice. Never give up and keep on trying again and again. If you really want to go for artificial treatments, then you'd go for surrogacy treatment. Surrogacy has filled my life with colors. There is no health risk in surrogacy and also, success chances are very high!

 

annataylor1 - June 12

Hey Brook. This is really a tough situation. Having a hole in a heart is really very difficult for pregnant women. But hope for the best. and stay positive. Maybe this is written to happen like this. Miracle happens everyday. Don't worry give her a strong diet and also be with her all the time. And ask her to look forward to becoming a mother. Don't lose hope things will work for you. And yes keep in touch with a doctor. Because they know the best. And in the end, I would like to say you where there is will there is a way. best of luck.

 

ria_14 - June 13

Such a sad story. It brought tears to my eyes. Awe such a painful disease. I know you love her a lot. You don't want to lose her. Congratulations that she is pregnant. I suggest your surrogacy. In this embryo of your wife will be transferred to another female. That surrogate mother will carry your baby for 9 months. So don't worry. You should go for it. There is a good clinic in Europe. They are best in dealing with surrogacy. Their services are less expensive. I wish you and your wife have a bundle of happiness

 

lindaswank - June 13

Hey Brook. Well, this is something serious. But if you conceived it and really don't have any intention of dropping your children. Then don't think about negativity. Expect for the positive things and positive will be an outcome. You just have to think positive before going toward anything. Always be in the winner state of mind. Well, my dear, I think if something does not go well. Then you should go for surrogacy. This is the securest way to have a baby. But also choose your clinic wisely. Because I know many clinics like Lotus and Adonis which is scam. So choose wisely. But for now, think positive.

 

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