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i'm in the same boat!!! my s_x life was never exactly penthouse forum, if u know what i mean. I invested a little $ in a good toy for these occasions. hope this helps!

Any suggestions on what a good toy to buy is?

To just wondering, the best toy I've found is a Conair personal ma__sager from Walmart. It's about $12 and it plugs into the wall (saves a bunch on batteries). My husband and I each have one...Of course, if you're looking for a toy for penetration, that's a little different. Go to the adult video store and check out their toys. The soft, rubbery ones feel better than the hard plastic ones.

Hey ladies! Don't let your men buy your toys. They will pick out the smallest one in the store!

is it ok to use a vibrator when your pregnant?

I'll have to say our favorite is kitty cat, I just stick my booty far enough in the air as he holds my hands and just goes at it, plus I just love it when he reaches his hand around and starts fondling me while we grind!!! Plus a few spanks!! But the perpendicular position is definilely a orgasm winner!!!

I have never heard of the kitty cat. Are you facing him or not?

omg E..ahha I would be scared to use such a thing

Hey ladies! It's pretty much like doggie, but really a whole other feel. You lay almost completely on your stomach but just raise your b___t in the air enough, since they just love to feel your b___t cheeks! Have you ever seen cats mate?? Ha!! Sometimes I have to throw a meow in there, kidding!!!

hahaha what a fun post!!! you girls are some "busy beavers"!! to tara-once your belly starts growing i found that doggie style was the most comfortable...to PP maybe if you jerk him off first...then get him heated up again for round two he will last longer!!!i had the same problem with my ex, my husband on the other hand always pleases me first whether its a quickie or an all-nighter...gotta love it!

I was never a big fan of the doggie style (but I guess i have to get used to it pretty soon), but liked the kitty-cat...just never knew what it was called 'till now!

Thx ladies for ur suggestion.I am in the same boat as PP, M y husband is just c___p when it comes to bed ..( sorry it was harsh but i'm frustrated .)I tell him what to do to please me but he won't do it.He used to be d__n good b4 we married.He is one of those men who have a low s_x appet_te or not say does not have one, and i'm the h__y type( from day one ).So preggo or not, it's the same, he just doesn't like doing it .I'm young, slim, s_xy and beautiful .( not being pretentious, just trying to figure out what's wrong with him ).So i don't know what else he needs. PP how do u manage ? Sorry this comment was way too long , but i needed to let it out.I complain to him everyday, but he feels pressurised.Not to mention that we never kiss( french kiss i mean) , i feel like a prost_tute ! He has issues !!!

Oh! not fair! I feel for ya!! I had the same problem with my hubby when we were dating in college, there were times when I thought, I can't be in a d__n relationship like this, there's not enough s_x!! It was our main fight weekly!!! So I started to do some research to help us work through it, because hell!! when we did do it, he was the best I ever had, plus he gave me my first orgasm so maybe that's why I needed it more, I was introduced into the real world of s_x!! But anyways I found an excellent article that completely helped me see where he was coming from and allowed him to see where I was coming from, ok I'm not a religious freak or anything but this was what I got from searching s_x was an article on a web site www.christianitytoday.com and you go to marriage and then to the better s_x category, and the article is called "When your s_x drives don't match"!!! You may think I sound silly but the article saved our relationship and our s_x life, plus a little help from a few friends who said to stop bugging him about it all the time, because I was humiliating him and taking his manlyness away by wanting it all the time, so then he was turned off, so I layed off of him as well, flicked the bean a few times, but hey!!! he started to come around and now he wants it all the time and our s_x life is GREAT! I hope it helps you, if you have trouble finding it let me know!! I hope it helps, make sure to sit your husband down and you guys read it together!!! Good Luck!

LMAO LeahP - "flicked the bean":)

Boy! I must not be up on the internet lingo, what's LMAO mean? You haven't heard of flickin the bean?

I am not handling or coping well. We had a huge fight and I told him he was a horrible lover, friend and husband and that I wanted a divorce. He refuses to divorce me for religious reasons and I am not happy. Granted this is not a knew problem. My husband needs to grow some t______es and tell his family where to go and then put me in my place for being such a bit$%. And then maybe I would want to be married to him. He has not done anything. He makes no decisions and everything he tries to do gets screwed up. Honestly if it wasn't for the fact that I play raquetball and softball 5 times a week I would be a mad woman. and soon I will have to cut that out cause at 19 weeks I am starting to show. And while I honestly can't say I am gorgous, I am not but ugly either. I am pleasently plump like a size 18 but I am also in excellent shape and can out bench press my husband, played 2 college sports and continue to actively compete in 3.