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I am not handling or coping well. We had a huge fight and I told him he was a horrible lover, friend and husband and that I wanted a divorce. He refuses to divorce me for religious reasons and I am not happy. Granted this is not a knew problem. My husband needs to grow some t______es and tell his family where to go and then put me in my place for being such a bit$%. And then maybe I would want to be married to him. He has not done anything. He makes no decisions and everything he tries to do gets screwed up. Honestly if it wasn't for the fact that I play raquetball and softball 5 times a week I would be a mad woman. and soon I will have to cut that out cause at 19 weeks I am starting to show. And while I honestly can't say I am gorgous, I am not but ugly either. I am pleasently plump like a size 18 but I am also in excellent shape and can out bench press my husband, played 2 college sports and continue to actively compete in 3.

Hi leahP - LMAO means "laughing my a__s off". I have heard of flick the bean, but have not heard it used in so long. I think it is hillarious.

Hey ladies. Low s_x drive in men could mean low testosterone. Has anyone checked it out with a doc? Could be the answer. I do know it's really frustrating to have a partner that either doesn't know or doesn't care and I give credit to those who have the cojonas to actually tell their partners what's what. It took me a long time to be able to do that. Thank God it's not something I need to do now. :)

Ok, I'm going to be the dumba__s that HAS to ask. I've never heard "flick the bean". I'm going to a__sume it means masturbate?????? Am I right?

Yes:) You would have to set Hercules aside for the day, lol!

Oh, well no dice here baby.... cuz Hercules ain't goin' anywhere!! LOL

Anyone ever see the Eddie Murphy version of The Nutty Professor? I have visions of the mother clapping her hands going "HERCULES! HERCULES! HERCULES!" You guys are too funny!!

thought you guys might get a laugh, but my husband and I are not racist by any means, but we sit around and joke about how many ethnic beans there are!! There's pinto beans(mexicans), negro beans(blacks), and us white folk are the great white northern bean! ha!

LeahP - that is awesome!! I never even thought about all of the "beans" in this world.

Yea! the only problem is I can't come up with one for asian folk, indians, ect. It can make a funny joke to tell friends at happy hour, when the time comes back!! Hey sorry about the snide comment this morning, these hormones!! this site can get interesting!!

No problem Leah. I get edgy over the issues of substance use and pregnancy. Oh - Indians can be garbanzo beans.

To Leahp and PP, thx ladies.I am so happy Leahp that ur hubby is now a h__y rabbit ! LOL It seems u found the magical answer, I never thought about the idea of humiliating him by bugging him, but it makes sense as he gets more & more shy over the yrs, he's shy by nature ( especially with s_x ) and i'm a wild adventurous girl, totally the opposite so it could be that i'm simply scaring him away .Thx for the link , i'm going to check it right away.Have fun with ur DH , ha ha.. PP, i don't beleive in divorce,I beleive nothing in life is easy and walking away is the easiest thing to do,HOWEVER I do understand what u are going through, it is tough i know, the frustration.Are u sure u want a divorce ? or is it u want to divorce the frustartion only and not actully ur husband ? Try to sit him down and talk to him ( without being so harsh next time..ouch ) U both agreed to marry each other , so he must have some good qualities.I know i sound a lot like Dr Phil, and i apologise but i feel for ya. Again, Talk to him, u once loved him , remember that !

You all may want to hear from the other side of the isle, maybe you don't. For what it is worth, as a man, I don't really want s_x from my wife. Don't misunderstand, I enjoy s_x as much as any but my wife is one of those who cannot be pleased and I'm not referring to s_x either. Nothing pleases her. Nothing I do is right. Everything I do is wrong. She is a perfectionist. I did not know that when I married her. Only some time after, did I realize that. She only sees things her way. If you haven't guessed it already, she's a bit__. She's got WAY TO MUCH MOUTH. I don't want to get close to her or even kiss her. She has made me so angry at times, I hope she doesn't come home someday. I feel like I am in jail and she's buried the key. I went into this marriage with no thoughts of getting divorce but I really think there are things worse than divorce now. If it comes down to it, I'd rather do without than have s_x with her. So if your man is not giving it to you, maybe it might be worth a self examination. Not saying its your fault but you might want to look at it. Men do like s_x but not with someone like my wife. BTW, no, she is not pregnant and I haven't been unfaithful either. No........ I can't talk to my wife either. She knows everything.....

Good Lord Dude!! How about a little counseling. This is sad, and a bit pathetic. If you are THAT unhappy that you hope she doesn't come home, get your a__s out of that situation. Who knows, maybe if you leave her, it will be a reality check and she will straighten her a__s out........ a__suming that she is REALLY at fault here. Usually when either party acts as bad as you say she does, it is the result of unhappiness. Sounds like you both are unhappy, and BOTH need some self-examination, as you put it. I don't believe in divorce, but I also do not believe in people staying together out of principle! Get help or move on. Either way, good luck, goodness knows luck is all you are running on, I sure don't sense any love here. My apologies for the brutal post. Just speaking the truth as I see it. :o)

PS - If you are a man, and she isn't pregnant, what are you doing on this site? And of all threads, you are in the "Pregnant and Horny as Hell" thread. Are you sure you are (and plan to remain) faithful????

For Sale ...one small p___s ...wife is trying to get pregnant for second time and will have no use for it any longer after conception.