Pregnant Girlfriend Is Back And Forth With Feelings About Me

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Jeremyb6 - February 8

So my girlfriend and I have only been together for about 3 months.  She told me the day before my bday, on January 3rd she was pregnant.  I already have a child with my ex so I made it known I would support her no matter what.  I could tell this is not what she wanted though.  She thought this was going to ruin her new job promotion and life in general.  We talked and then she came to the conclusion abortion was the way to go.  I didn't think she was serious about it but she ended up texting me saying she had an appointment for a Saturday. This was about 2 weeks ago.  2 days before the appointment I messaged her and spilled my heart out to her begging her to not go thru with it.  I told her I would take the child and raise it myself.  Anyways, she messaged the night before and said she wasn't going but that's all she had to say.  She ended up being very upset with me saying I shamed her and made her feel guilty when she already came to terms with what she was going to do.  I don't feel I did, I just expressed my feelings about it all.  We didn't talk for about 2 weeks.  I finally got to see her again this past Monday.  She was so sweet to me again, talking about the pregnancy changes with her body and all that.  Tuesday I saw her again and we was laying in bed on our sides, like I was spooning her. I had my hand on her hip and she took my hand and put it on her belly and put her hand on top of mine.  It was the sweetest moment I have ever felt.  Everything was great those 2 days.  I didn't see her Wednesday cause she had to work late which I understand.  I spent the night again last night and same stuff. This morning I laid there and rubbed her belly with her hand on top of mine.  It felt so good.  But like now all of a sudden, in the middle of the day, she is back to the attitude it seems.  I asked her how her day was going and she said she was tired, nauseous, and anxious feeling.  I told her I was sorry and told her if there was anything I could do to please let me know.  She never answered me back.  I can tell she's back in that attitude where she doesn't want me around.  Honestly it seems this happens most of the times on the weekends for some reason.  I may be freaking out over nothing but it kills me cause I want to be there for her every step of the way.  I think she's about 7-8 weeks along right now.  She still hasn't went to the dr that I know of.  I asked if I could go but she hasnt mentioned it yet although she did say earlier in the week she tried calling to schedule an appointment but I never heard anything else about it.  No one knows she is pregnant.  She won't tell anyone right now, family or friends.  She doesn't want me to either.  Is this just typical hormones or what?  Am I freaking out for nothing that she just shuts me off and doesn't want me to be around?  The weekend is when I would love to be there for her so we could just sleep in together and not have to worry about getting up for work.  She says she sleeps all weekend off and on.  But idk.  She goes from super sweet during the week to this way on the weekends it seems.  We literally have the sweetest, what you would think is meant to be story about how we met.  I use to chat with her on social media back in 2010 but we never met.  We got along so great but was both in a bad time to be together.  We stopped talking in 2014.  Well, last year me and my ex split for good and I moved into an apartment here in Nashville.  I use to notice this pretty little blonde walking all the time.  I finally one day got the nerve to go say hi and sure enough it was her from back in the day living right beside me this entire time and I never knew it.   She was moving out that weekend though.  But we exchanged numbers, starting hanging out, and now here we are with her pregnant. Again, I may be freaking out over nothing but it sucks someone is so sweet to you sometimes then it goes to hell and no communication.



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