When Did I Conceive/who Is Father

9 Replies
Newmommy23 - April 28

I had my period April 3, 2017. I had sex with guy A 10th 12th and 17th of April. I had what I thought was a period may 1st it ended around the 4/5th but I think it was very light.  On may 8th I had severe pain in my lower back and went to ER pregnancy test was negative. I had sex with guy b starting may 9 and throughout rest of month. I never got a June period which usually come around beginning of the month. On June 9th I got a positive pregnancy test. On june 26th I went and got an ultrasound which would of made me 8 weeks from may 1st lmp. I had another ultrasound at 8 weeks 3 days somewhere else to make sure I was really only 8 weeks they both said i was spot on for may1st lmp and that I conceived around may 15th. I then had a scan at 14 weeks and 18 and both said GA was just that. My due date was dated February 5th 2018 my water broke February 1st and i delivered that day. My son looks more like guy A to me so I’m so confused on how it could be his baby and not guy b. Please help 

 

Grandpa Viv - April 28

NM, this obviously calls for a paternity test. My feeling is that guy  B will be the winner in spite of the baby’s looks. 

 

Newmommy23 - April 29

If the may 1st bleeding was really implantation bleeding shouldn’t the ultrasound shown a much bigger baby at the 8,14 and 18 week scans? Say I did conceive in April is it possible my baby could measure 8 weeks? And is it possible to get a negative pregnancy test a week after implantion bleeding? 

 

Grandpa Viv - April 29

New, right, the ultrasound can be off by a few days but not by a month. That light period in early May was the real thing and not implantation  

 

 

Newmommy23 - April 29

So in your opinion a paternity test is not needed? I was sure guy b was the father because I thought I had a period and all the ultrasounds confirmed I was so far along and I delivered 4 days from EDD. So it has to be guy b son right?

 

Newmommy23 - April 30

Say I conceived super late in April, so since the 17th was the last time I was with guy a and sperm can last 5 days. so if I conceived april 22nd that would have made me 9 weeks and 2 days fetal age at the June 26th ultrasound is it possible to mistake the baby’s size for 8 weeks Gestational age?

 

Grandpa Viv - April 30

Correct. I’m my opinion a paternity test is not necessary. I suggested it only because you were leaning the other way. My focus is on the Feb 5th due date which goes with ovulation May 12th after you started with B. 

 

Newmommy23 - April 30

Say I conceived super late in April, so since the 17th was the last time I was with guy a and sperm can last 5 days. so if I conceived april 22nd that would have made me 9 weeks and 2 days fetal age at the June 26th ultrasound is it possible to mistake the baby’s size for 8 weeks Gestational age?

 

Newmommy23 - May 6

I had a nuchal trans scan when I was 14 weeks and measured 13+5 days they wouldn’t of been able to see see the fluid if I was further along right?

 

kushal - May 18

hey there, I am really sorry for your loss. I can understand the feeling of yours. Dear, don’t get sad. I am not as much expert to tell you many well-known clinics. but there are good clinics in this regard. Just consult a good doctor. I think it will be really helpful to you. wish you very good luck.

 

ADD A COMMENT:


You must log in to reply.

Are you New to the forum? Sign Up Here! Already a member? Please login below.

Forgot your password?
Need Help?
New to the forum?

Sign Up Here!


Already a member?
Please login below.





Forgot your password?
Need Help?