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Thanks guys. Nice try but I don’t think anyone will ever get through this guy’s thick skull. I think I figured out why too! Kinda sad really. I wondered what the big deal was & why he couldn’t give me even a fraction of an inch and something like, “Well, maybe it will work for you. I wish you luck.” & drop it. Here’s the deal: StressedToo can’t begin to try & wish someone else some happiness because he’s JEALOUS. He needs some serious mental help/counseling. He’s super p__sed because (he said) his own daddy was a cheater. Daddy couldn’t keep his pecker in his pants & be faithful to his mommy. If his mommy & daddy couldn’t make it, then by God, NO ONE WILL ELSE CAN MAKE IT EITHER! Makes sense, doesn’t it? That is why he is dead set on being "right". That is why he cannot see any other side. He’s p__sed that his daddy didn’t care enough about HIM to even TRY & work it out with his mommy. (I’m not going to do that to my children & neither is my husband.) His family was broken & he thinks everyone should RUN AWAY instead of trying. Maybe daddy didn’t think he was special enough? And “What a JERK”, I didn’t even think about that. Not one of those people he talked about as his reference ever TRIED to save the marriage. Some of them didn’t even get caught. (So those shouldn’t even get counted in the first place.) Of course THEY cheated again! Nothing changed. No demands were made. No new boundaries were set. No professional help was sought after. No one TRIED to work on anything. Poor set of examples = Poor outcome. I’m done trying to crack some light into his thinking. Little boy Stressed is stuck in his childhood & can’t be man enough to wish others happiness. He only wishes he could “laugh his a__s off” at someone’s PAIN & tell them “I told you so”. His excuse for that was … “Well SHE called me an ASS first!!!” Poor thing. Just like a little boy. Here’s a clue, StressedToo, act like an ASS, get called an ASS. Then he claims he is “taking the high road”? Excuse me? Since when is laughing at someone’s pain taking the high road? The dude contradicts himself left & right. He is the pathetic one. And I’m over it.

"He’s p__sed that his daddy didn’t care enough about HIM to even TRY & work it out with his mommy" Hmmm.... Lets see... Nah, you are wrong. I'm not bitter, I honestly believe my Mom took the most reasonable and healthy solution for her. I had and have a wonderful relationship with both my mom and dad, I would say I have a much better relationship than most people do with their parents. My Dad is my business partner, my friend as well as my father. So it seems you really have no idea what you are talking about, nice try though! I actually feel sorry for you if the only thing that holds your marriage together are kids. No real truest but you have sets of rules and the thousands of dollars spent on therapy!! It must be a WONDERFUL relationship you and your husband share. "No one TRIED to work on anything. " As I said earlier, your reading comprehention is terrible, read my posts again. I clearly said that some of them tried, they all failed! And by the way, I think I understand why your husband cheated on you in the first place: You are really unbearable, if I was him I would too find me a girlfriend. You guys must have adorable children, I don't see any other reason your husband would want to be near you, he chose to sleep with another woman so I think that is clear its not you but the kids he cares about, even if he says differently now... wait and see.

Ummmmm ... Is this when I am supposed to say "Ouch"? LOL More of your "high road" I see. Is that the best you can do? Please.

Kristi, there really isn't any point in trying to talk to an opionated imbecile that truely believes his own opinion as the only way things should be. Honestly, I feel for his wife - she must be very docile as it is clear to me she probably isn't allowed to think for herself abiet it goes against what he believes... And to answer the question - is it possible to carry on a marrage and continue to trust? Yes - without paying money for therapy? Yes. Does it take work? Yes Can Stressed ever understand what it's like? No. Again, this is pointless.. Have fun arguing with him...

"there really isn't any point in trying to talk to an opionated imbecile that truely believes his own opinion as the only way things should be". Right, I should change my mind and think as you, because we all know YOU are right!. Also, if someone decides to trust 100% somebody that has proved not worthy of that trust, thats who I call an imbecile. "I feel for his wife - she must be very docile as it is clear to me she probably isn't allowed to think for herself abiet it goes against what he believes". Lets see... My wife runs her own business which I helped her start (both financially and strategically), she is constantly taking additional college courses in different topics, we have managed to split the chores around the house almost 50/50, we agreed that she would be in charge of some parts of the decision taking, I can have very entertaining discussions with my wife where some times one will prove a point to the other but there are some times when we gracefully agree to disagree. Yeah, I'm a real pushy, macho, abusive neanderthal! LOL! "Right now he’s just my online, moronic puppet on a string" LOL! Funny thing is we both share the same feeling. "Now sit back & let’s see what kind “intellectual words” of hate & doom". Hate? I don't hate you, I find you amusing. You hate what I have to say, because in the back of your mind you know I'm probably right and that hurts. "I wondered what the big deal was & why he couldn’t give me even a fraction of an inch and something like, “Well, maybe it will work for you. I wish you luck.” & drop it" I'm not here to give you what I believe would be a false sense of hope, I'm here to tell what I have seen, if you want confort go pay the therapist another couple thousand dollars. "what kind of weak, chest puffing, spineless, “man” hangs out in a PREGNANCY FORUM bashing a pregnant lady ALLLLL because she flat out refuses to agree with his close-minded black & white view?". I posted earlier that we have to agree that we disagree, and also, I really find it funny that women will pull the "I'm pregant" card, it is a very lovely time in your life (except for the disconfort or course) but I don't see where it says that you get any special treatment intellecutaly. If you feel I'm bashing you there is a very simple solution: How about not reading the thread? You keep coming back because you want to justify your decision (perhaps you know it will backfire?), and justify it to everybody, including somebody of no concequence in your life like me. "Daddy couldn’t keep his pecker in his pants & be faithful to his mommy." You are trying to offend me with this coment? LOL! I was not married to my dad, my relationship with him doesn't change a bit, my Dad's pecker is reeeeeally not of my business. Your husband's pecker is your business though. Let me ask you a question: When was it that your husband decided to "salvage" your marriage? Was it before, during or after he was in between his lover's legs? Was it only because he got caught?

Tahhehehhe ... TOLD YA! Here boy! Here boy! SIT! Good dog. :)

"Tahhehehhe ... TOLD YA! Here boy! Here boy! SIT! Good dog. :)" Wow, you sure seem like a mature person. As I said before, you are not dragging me down to your level. If you have something educated to say please do, if not then stop wasting the internet bandwidth like you have been doing for the past (counting), well with all of your posts. As I said before, calling names is what mentally handicapped persons do when confronted with something they can't debate rationally. Lets make a brief summary of our "conversation" 1. I post that in MY opinion cheaters will cheat again. 2. You call me names. 3. I post that in the experiences I have observating at very close range how cheaters cheat again I have come to the conclusion that cheaters will cheat again. Personal observation and conclusion that *I BELIEVE TO BE TRUE* 4. You call me names. 5. I post that I stand by my opinions. 6. You call me names. Repeat ad nauseam. We can keep this up as long as you like, it entertains me. Of course none of this will change the fact that your husband found a good reason/excuse to cheat on you and that chances are very high that he will find a good reason/excuse to cheat on you again. Am I right? I believe I am. Are you right? You believe yo are. I guess time will tell.

Here's another HOOP, Fido. Now JUMP! LOL

"Here's another HOOP, Fido. Now JUMP! LOL". Keep proving my point, you are very inmature. I've heard LOTS of "smart a__s" responces just like that, from my 13 year old girl. Next thing I know you will be covering your ears while singing "NANANANANA", you can't expect to be taken seriously like that.

Now ... ROLL OVER!

The sad thing is you actually think your inmature comments make you look smart. They don't. I hit a nerve on you, my posts made you feel angry because you know I might be right and now you lost it. I find it entertaining. But since you refuse to respond maturely I have to say that you win, your husband will never cheat on you again. I have no comebacks, you really beat me at this playing stupid game, of course it was a no contest from the get go, you are a natural at it.

That was fun. Good BOY!

Reading his email.... that's nothing. Sometimes it takes a bit of dishonestly to get it out of someone else.

"That was fun. Good BOY!". I already conceded victory to you in the "I can prove I'm stupid game" but you had to prove you really are Queen Stupid. Show off!

He just can't get enough. Can he?

No, he has to have the last word... That's all that is.