Fianc Is Pregnant And Says She S Not In Love Anymore

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Faithmonkey - April 19

I feel really dumb doing this, but I don't know what to do. My fiancé is 25 years old and I'm 27, we were so happy and so in love especially her in our relationship, we rarely argue and get along great laugh all the time and have tons of fun all the time, well she is pregnant and about 6 or 7 weeks, we go to the doctor on the 5th of next month, but she's telling me she just wants to be alone, and she says she just doesn't know anymore, I've been at my moms for 3 weeks now we went on a date the other night and I could tell it wasn't the same that was the first we saw each other in 2 weeks, she says that I'm so handsome and she loves me and that she wishes it could be the way it used to be, this is our first child by the way, we've been together for about 2 and a half years, everything was great but now my heart is getting torn to pieces, she doesn't want me to move out yet she still wears her engagement ring, but I don't know what to do, she told me the chemistry just isn't there anymore and she wishes it was, what is going on, why is this happening, is it really over or is this just pregnancy and things will go back to normal, what do I need to do, should I hang on or just get my stuff and get ready for my baby, I need help, please I want to be there for her during the pregnancy and I want to be there for my baby, any advice will help


E457 - August 23

Hey, I'm right there with ya and asking myself the exact same questions. I haven't been with my girlfriend as long, but she IS pregnant and saying VERY similar things to this. "I feel detached, like I don't feel anything for you, and I wonder if maybe I don't love you anymore", or saying she's "annoyed when I'm around" or "Doesnt even like it when I'm attentive and affectionate, because it annoys her".. With all the similar stories, I'm starting to think that this IS in fact a normal occurence and we may just have the girlfriends who will be taking their pregnancies out on us.



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