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My ex-GF is 36 and I am 40. Neither of us have ever been married or had children. We grew up in the same neighborhood and always had feeling for one another. We reconnected last march and fell in love. We both wanted children, but are timid of marriage. I wanted to, but she refused. She is extremely intelligent but has been on anti-anxiety meds since she was 12. Her father left her early. Her mother died in a car wreck and her only sister committed suicide. The family home she lives in is in ruins and she owes years of back taxes. Point being she is an emotional mess. I've helped her immensely psycolgicaly, finacially and have worked my butt off around her house and enjoy doing so. I own a nice finished home perfect for a baby but she insists on her old house to raise the baby. I got her pregnant sooner than hoped for, but am excited to be a father. She is naturally super moody but now that she is pregnant she is like a monster. I cant say anything right. So, she cant get off of all her meds and I'm concerned about birth defects. I brought this up too often for her I guess and she left me and wont communicate with me anymore. She says she doesn't need me anymore and she is moving to New Orleans with her dad to have the child. If I call or text her she threatens to call the police. I am super nice and feel I'm non abusive. I'm sure ultimately I can get joint custody down the road. but I really want to be a part of the birth of our baby. And I don't want her to got to New Orleans. I have a gigantic super supportive family here in Utah. They are so excited for me. She has her dad and one Aunt in New Orleans. What can I do to contact her or keep her from leaving? I have a stable life but not much extra money to run to a lawyer. Answers