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not literially but let me explain myself. I made a comment yesterday on the site referring to not having any help now like I have in the past.. Where I used to live I helped a single Mom take her kindergardener to school walkig her in the early mornings and late mornings home when school was done. I did this for 4 months,before the baby was born and after due to the child having health problems. Now I need to take both by boys 3 and 5 out in the blasting cold,ice covered sidewalks and streets to take my oldest to school while my husband is away for 4 and a half days away from home. Yes if you understand it right I am a single MOm half the time. Not that I am complaining please don't miss understand me! I am pg again due in and around March 20 . I just wished I had help like I helped the single Mom a couple of years ago. We have no family close by or freinds who can help. So I am on my own. Now my story is all told so go away so I can eat my s***. Just joking thanks for caring to whom ever has asked about my matter.
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Lisa*9, that must be so difficult to be on your own most of the week. My hub went to a conference a few months ago, and was gone for 5 days. I was alone and it was trying. Children miss their father, mothers need some time off, fathers miss their children. It can test us, can't it? I am in the same boat with not having friends/family near me. Every minute of my day is spent w/ Aja. Would love a break but don't see one coming soon... Still, we have a right to fantasize about some help! How's the baby??
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If it's a him moving right along.,same as if it ws a girl. I have been doing the single Mom thing for more then a year since we moved here in Aug 04.
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Where are you originally from? The states?
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Nope born and bread in Ontario,Moved to Alberta in the city of Calgary and moved to South western Saskatchewan to a small town of 1100 people.
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Whenever I hear the name Saskatchewan, I think of the Saskwatch monster, lol.
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Oh, Lisa....I think I'll bow out now while it's possible.
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Huh what do you mean by that,it is just because somebody ripped me off of a phone bill of $1200 drs. This was the problem. My nephew is part native.. I love him dearly. I just have a hard time with trust if you understand now.
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Lisa, you know its offensive. I have a hard time believing you could write that and not know it is going to draw criticism, and rightly so.
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I hear whar=t yiou are saying but this native person lied to me and never paid me a dime,how would you respond to people like that?
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lisa..cant you put and add up, for a teen to walk your oldest morning and night, offer a liittle amoutn for the servies, the teen will be happy to make pocket money and you wont have to go out in the cold
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I would respond to the individual, not the entire race.
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And when you refer to a race as a breed, it is most definitely negative. We refer to breeds when talking about animals and the context that you used it in makes it an issue. I am just trying to enlighten you on this.
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Fair enough . Can't argue anymore. I know your comment is the most apporpiate thing to do for now on.
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Karine - good suggestion but don't have the extra cash on hand to do so.
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Please stop spreading hatred against Natives. It's people like you that are responsible for the continued conflict in Canada. Please do not share your ignorance with your children, it will only hurt them and perpetuate misunderstandings.
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