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Liz, well said!!!! I was no trying to be as blunt....heeehee.....Birth control is a great option for you.

KEEKEE, I look at it this way.Everyone has their own opinions about spanking or popping or hitting their children.Im obviously one of the ones who thinks it ok.Just for the record, cps has been in my childs life.NOT because i hit her, but because i was in cps until i turned 15.They have investigated me to see how i raise my daughter and they even know about how i pop her because i did it in front of them.It aparently isnt a big deal to them or they wold have taken her away and put her in foster care already.I have been through parenting cla__ses also.In these cla__ses they taught me that its ok to pop her a few times as it teaches them right from wrong but its suggested not to spank them at all.In the bible it said" spare the rod, spoil the child".I think god is on my side with this one so worry about your self please and stop acting like the immature "women" on the teen forum.Thank you.

See, i was going to leave this along. You are looking for an argument. What type of Parenting cla__s would tell you its ok to hit a child. I don't think you were listen!!! You are hitting a child because of normal toddler behavior. Your daughter is doing what every 15 month old child do. She is taking off her pamper. If you don't want her to take off her pamper(which is probably wet) Put something over the diaper. If you don't won't her hitting( later in life she's is going to hit on other kids/bully) or bitting, tell her in a soft voice no and soft touch. SHE IS HITTING b/c MOM is hitting!!! Its a learned behavior....Duh!!!....What is wrong with you. So, beating your child is ok. You need help....Serious Help...I feel very sorry for any kids that you have...Do you think people are not going to get upset by your posts?? You are posting about hitting a baby just for being a baby. You have the nerve to put God in this..Honey Please, God has nothing to do with this........You have prove my point!!!...If you don't want people opinions...Don't Post!!!! You go back to the Teen forum!!!

This isn't necessarily a teen forum and if you go by what the bible says so much than practice abstinence, you need to.

BTW, you are just proving my point!!! You are too young to be a mother. You are not mature enough to handle everyday life. A mature women would have used Birth control when she noticed it is hard to raise a baby. You went and got pregnant again. You have the nerve to judge us. Look in the mirror!!!

STOP CALLING IT POPPING! What is wrong with you? You need to sugar coat it b/c you KNOW d__n well you are hitting your BABY. At least have the b___s to call it what it is. I gave you the benefit of the doubt b/c it sounded like you thought it was wrong to hit her, if you were trying to teach her not to hit you. Some day she may knock you in the face and you will have nothing to be shocked about when it happens. You taught her:) Authoritarian style parenting doesn't work, FYI. Try treating her the way you would like people to treat you.

Keekee, HOW can you say anything about me using birth control?!? As i recall you posted you have 2 kids also.I am not sugar coating nothing.I pop her when she is in the wrong.You are all acting as if i leave bruises on her or beat her every second of the day.As you were once a first time mom, you didnt know much more then i do now and i noticed that my daughter has lived 15 months with me and has not once been hurt or sick or even had a diaper rash for that matter.So aparently im not as bad as you all think i am.I have noticed that alot of my friends' children who dont get spanked are horrible.They seem to pick up hitting and cussing not from their parents but from school and other people who come around the child.You think that just because you dont spank your child its going to be an angel?!? Maybe you are living a fantasy.Maybe you think if you dont spank them they wont grow up and hit or be in gangs or anything bad.I think maybe you should direct your attention to your own children and stop worring about me because for you to preach that i should have used birth control but have the same amount of children is stupid.You are only proving that you didnt learn your lesson either.Why dont you just stop ragging on me and get a life and try to alteast act your age.Real grown woman dont sit around critisizing teens because they ASK FOR OTHER WAYS TO TEACH HER NO INSTEAD OF HITTING OR POPPING OR ANTYTHING ELSE.

Hold me back Ladies....I'm about to snap...Listen little girl, I am 29 years old and married with two kids. I am grown. A grown woman!!!! I am not on here posting and starting threads about hitting my kids because I know better. Yes, Hitting!!! That is what it is..You are trying to sugar coat what you are doing. E is right. You have the nerve to compare my life with a teen life...Give me a break!!!... My oldest son is 9 years old...He don't cuss, hit or bully other kids. Hopefully he won't end up like you. No life at 17 with two kids, you can't take care of. You are on the wrong forum. This forum was nice and peaceful before you came along. I know you are use to drama on the Teen forum, so you came on here to start something up. I have a great life....Believe that..I don't feel the need to keep this disagreement up. I am going to annoy you....Word of advice....Keep you legs closed..You wouldn't be having the issue...Birth Control works..Use it..try the shot, so you won't slip up and make another baby to pop......Have you ever heard of Adoption!!!! Place those babies in a loving home since you think babies need to be hit....Next time take our advice for your kids sake!!! Live and learn..First step to becoming a women. Learn to listen

Haha KeeKee, you are really funny.It seems as if you are saying im in the wrong for doing everything you did.Hmm.How is it that you have 2 children,a husband,and an education(i hope) and you are a woman but i have a husband, 2 children, and an education and a job but im a little girl? Why dont you stop being so immature and leave it alone?Your not proving nothing to anyone.You notice that the other women on here said what they said and left it alone?You notice that everyone else suggested other ways of dealing with it other then to hit my daughter?But you, you have the nerve to sit here and argue it out with a 17 year old.Why?Because you are as immature as you are calling me maybe?Look,read this nice and slow so it gets through your big a__s head.GET A LIFE AND LEAVE ME ALONE!!!!!!GIVE OTHER TECHNIQUES OR SHUT THE HELL UP.Got it that time?

Angelina, Enough is enough!!!....I am no longer going to continue this. Btw, there is something missing in your life that you feel the need to keep having babies at such a young age.....attention or love.....I keep asking myself, why don't this girl see what she is going or have any respect. I read in your other post. You were raised in foster care. Try to understand, I was trying to help you. There is no need to get upset when someone offer you advice. I still think a parenting group(support) will help you control your temper around your babies. Angelina, your babies will be less then 2 years of age. It will only get hardier. You need to talk to someone. You are likely still in high school. Maybe a teacher or your child father's family. Try to find an outlet....Everytime you post a Question, you will get people who will disagree with you. You see what you get!!! This is a forum. I have the right to answer your question. I am being honest...Hitting is wrong. This is my last post on here. This is getting out of control..........Are you the same Angelina who tried to have a late term abortion and it failed?

Angelina, it doesn't have to be all or nothing. You can rear a child to be a happy and well-behaved person without having to resort to extremes, on either side. Believe it or not, there IS a happy medium. Why did you ask about finding other ways to teach her if you are closed to all of the suggestions we proposed?

I guess.Why to you keep saying i have an temper problem? Yes i was raised in foster care and my foster parents were great.I am not in school.I have a ged.I noticed how you were "trying" to help me by saying i beat my child and i think its ok to beat her because i hit her hand.I noticed how you were helping when you told me i was a bad mom because i have different beliefs then you.Nice KeeKee.

E agree with you. I don't think she has it all. Something not right with her mentally.....E, how is AJA....Both boys is great. Avery learning more signs. I am a proud mama........

Ok E, where did it say that i was closed to all the options?As i recall i asked for other options.Im sure you all just gently tell your children no and touch them and they listen.Look, im not going to sit here and tell you all that you are right because hitting is wrong.You obviously have different ways of raising your children but you cant expect me to listen to any of you if you are all rude and uncaring.I asked for other options then hitting.I didnt ask what you all thought about me hitting her.She is my daughter and im not going to stop doing something because you think its wrong.I dont beat her so i see no harm in hitting her hand when shes in the wrong.

That is just it. If you see no wrong in your way, then why did you ask for other options? You always defend your choice to hit, but you originally asked what other options you had.

Hi KEEKEE! I am also proud of my boy:) He is sick (we all are) but still has all of his spirit. I love him more than I love myself. I want to eat him up:)