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My inlaws were super nice to us before we had the baby but now I just can't stand them~! they want to be with baby all the time, they call him "my baby", when they didn't even want us to have kids to begin with and we are in our late twenties and have never asked them for money or anything and somehow they think they have some kind of ownership in our baby. The want to hold baby all the time (he is 15 months) always want to babysit (but not at our place, they want to take him overnight to their place but then I hardly get to see baby next day, last time they took him overnight i told them i wanted to see him the next day and they said they would bring him back whenever I wanted and i called them and they took 3 hours to get to my house!, when it's a half an hour drive!!!!!!!!, I feel like they don't respect me and they are driving me crazy and when i tell my husband he says he has no problems with it and that I should just tell themwhat i think. they also say stupid things such as he's going to get a lot of chicks and are already planning what his hobbies and interests will be. I cant stand them! Now I am pregnant again and when I told them the news about it they didn't like it but now that baby is almost due they keep calling him "my other baby" when they never even cared and were dissapointed to find out I was pregnant again. The other thing is that when they call they never ask for hubby or me as if they don't care about us at ALL, they just care for the baby and that drives me nuts bc they are my hubby's parents and should care for him. Me and hubby already worry enough about baby and my parents worry about me, that is how it should be! ughh i don';t know what to do please help and please don't be mean, I am pregnant and my hormones are driving me up the wall!