Infertility Then A Miscarriage

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Julie C. - March 24

Shaz, Hey. Glad to hear you had a better day! I've been better a bit each day since Saturday. Talking to everybody here has really helped. (I thought about retail therapy . . . and haven't got around to it yet . . . maybe tomorrow I'll find some time!)

 

Shaz - March 28

It really helps to go shopping, try it believe me it takes your mind of things

 

CarmenMorr - May 26

My situation is so similar to yours Julie. 

it took me 1.5 years to get pregnant and then i miscarried at 29. Then I left that relationship and at 32 started trying again with a new relationship. After 2.5 years of off and on trying I got pregnant naturally (found out days before going to arrange IUI). Then I miscarried.

That was 6 months ago and I’m about to turn 35 and so lost. We are trying but I swear I haven’t ovulated since the D&c.

hope you are doing ok! You’re in my thoughts.

 

AmandaK - May 27

Hye Jules, I can relate to you in a way that I have experienced similar instances and then miscarried three times. It was terrible which led to my depression. Miscarriages can be devastating also it gives you hope that there could be a way for you to conceive naturally. Have you tried seeing an RE? A good doctor also helps you to conceive and work put on your infertility. Assisted conception also allows you to conceive with your own eggs. In case if you have endometriosis, then a surrogate will carry your child. The possibilities are endless. You must seek a fertility counselor. Then a good RE.

 

scarlett9999 - May 29

hey. how are you now? I feel sorry to hear this. please do stress out. you are perfect already. things will fall into place step by step. ill pray for you. take care.

 

Anisa28 - May 30

Hey. Sorry to hear about your condition. But don't lose hope. You should adopt some unnatural methods like IVF or Surrogacy. IVF is somewhat risky procedure Surrogacy is the best method to have your own biological baby. I also had the same situation when i first heard about my infertility. i had cervix Incompetence disease which left me infertile. I wanted a big family but that was not in fate. I was so disappointed so I decided to go for IVF. I chose a clinic in my country. It was so painful process. But after all its pain it failed. I decided to go for surrogacy. I found a reputed clinic for surrogacy. I asked my husband he was agreed. I went to the clinic and they provided me with a healthy surrogate. Just after few weeks, she got pregnant. We were so happy. Our dream came true when she gave birth to a healthy baby. Today I am blessed with the baby. I am so happy to have my baby. Surrogacy is a blessing indeed. I hope it would help you too. Stay blessed.

 

Catherine1214 - May 30

Reading stories like this give a great deal of strength. It is sad but a harsh reality. Whatever comes in life has to be faced with patience, endurance and tolerance. You faced a big challenge when you fought your infertile days. I can imagine how it must have been after getting the news of getting pregnant. At this stage don't lose faith and hope. Try seeking for guidance. Keep consulting your doctor. There can be great options resting before you. Optimistic approach is a must. There are several opportunities waiting for your happiness. I know life will change if you reach a proper decision. Just take first step and see how life changes. Just hold on to the courage. I am confident that destiny will design your fate to the best levels.

 

monikadavid - May 30

Hey, I hope you're doing well. I can completely understand what you're going through. It all sometimes gets too much. I am extremely sorry to hear about your MC. It must have been really hard for you to cope with the news. However, the fact that you were able to get pregnant without any help is a sign. I think you should keep trying and hope for the best. Make sure the doctor you are visiting is professional and has a good year of experience. You should give IVF a try as well. It has proven to be quite successful for couples who are suffering from unexplained infertility. Just ensure that the clinic has a high success rate. Also, visit a doctor who is good at establishing a patient-practitioner relationship. One of the reasons you might be more frustrated in visiting the doctor could be because of the way they are treating you. All my warm wishes are with you. Sending baby dust.

 

page12 - May 31

hey there! I hope you are doing great.i can tell how painful it is. I miscarried twice and I was told I was infertile. it's because of the blocked tubes. it was a rough time and I used to cry a lot. I can feel what you are going through. and I know you need a baby of your own. there are other options like surrogacy and IVF. I would recommend you surrogacy. surrogacy was amazing for me and I am pretty sure it will be amazing for you as well. you should be strong and stay hopeful. I know its hard for you but you need to stay strong. I hope it turns out well for you.

 

sidneywhite - May 31

Reading stories like this gives me strength. I am a daily visitor of this forum. I love to read here. It gives me motivation. I feel sorry for your miscarriage. But hapy to see you are going for surrogacy. I wish you good luck for the journey. Keep me posted about your journry. Take care.

 

Esther65 - June 1

Hi! Hope you are doing well. I suggest you not to lose hope. Because when you lose hope, You Lose everything. I tried for TTC more than five years. But with no luck. I went for IVF. My IVF failed for two times. I was too fed up. But I did not lose hope. I decided to go for surrogacy. It was really hard to decide. But I had to complete my family. I blessed with a baby son. And this way I completed my family.

 

riazoyer - June 1

Shaz, Hey. Glad to hear you had a better day! I've been better a bit each day since Saturday. Talking to everybody here has really helped. (I thought about retail therapy . and haven't got around to it yet . . . maybe tomorrow I'll find some time!)

 

erin_wales - June 4

Your story is really very inspirational. Infertility is the sad but bitter truth. One should have the courage to fight with it. It was such a big challenge for you to fight with these circumstances. I have an idea about how you are feeling now. I request you not to give up. You'd try to consult as many people as you can. Ask people for the solution. Science has suggested many possible solutions for it. Optimism is the key to face any hardship. Life is all about ups and downs. But if a person remains persistent, these ups and downs make the man persistent. I will suggest you take an initial step in this regard. Have some courage to face the people. I'm sure that this road will lead you towards the success.
 

 

Samiah - June 4

Hey there thanks for this inspirational story. Infertility is hard but we cant get over it. We should believe that it is not the curse or we are not the one who are facing this. There are many women out there in this boat who are facing problems in this regard.According to the survey I have read a while ago that one out of every eleven women face infertility. We should never give up . We should keep on fighting. Difficult roads often leads on beautiful destination. We Should be Hopeful that a beautiful destination is waiting for us. Now a days science has providesd us many solutions so we should look on all prospectives

 

riazoyer - June 5

Yes, you can get pregnant after the miscarriage, once you are ready to get pregnant firstly mentally and physically you can try to get pregnant.
To overcome the loss of the blood and health it is important to be physically fit and uterus takes time to recover from a miscarriage. 

 

alex1018 - June 5

Hey. I am sorry you went through this. Your story was really inspiring. I hope you start looking at other options. I know they will help along everything. Options like surrogacy and adoption. Just take care. An dgood luck with any decision you make.

 

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