Need Suggestions About Surrogacy

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pitjulie19 - June 27

Hey everyone! Hope so you will be fine. I want to share a story of my friend. Actually, she was suffering from PCOS. Doctors declared her infertile. She was not expecting something like this. Then she heard about IVF. She contacted a clinic named Lotus. She went for the treatment there. The IVF failed there twice. She became so upset. With infertility, she observed some hormonal disturbance in their body. It's another issue. Now the option of IVF is no more. She says clinic was responsible for this. She is devastated now. I want to give a suggestion about surrogacy to her. What do you think about it? Would it be good for her? Waiting for your view. All replies are welcome. TIA

 

tara42 - June 28

Hey!! Thank you so much for sharing your story. I have seen people disappointed by IVF technique. IVF technique is not always helpful. I have been through many cycles of it but no luck yet. Now I have resorted to surrogacy. Some clinics have good name everywhere. I think so i should have tried it while going through IVF as well. They must have guided me rightly. I wasted my money on my nearby clinics and only got hopelessness. Now I am much hopeful because one of my friends also got her surrogate children from there. They surely make you love them. I have heard of their cooperation as well. Their staff is very friendly. They make sure their client happy and satisfied. Well, thanks a bunch for sharing the success stories. Best of luck to you!!

 

Stephine648 - June 28

Now i am 43 years old. I told him every complication regarding my infertility. He said he is happy with me. I have asked him that we will go for surrogacy to have a baby. He has agreed for it. I am so happy. I am going to start a new life soon.

I had 3 losses. This kind of losses are very hard to be faced. I tried very hard to be pregnant but there was no luck with it. I tried again and again. and finally i was pregnant for the first time. I was very happy than all happiness went away with a miscarriage. Than again i was pregnant for 2 more times. But again both pregnancies resulted in miscarriages. My first marriage ended badly and i was totally heart broken. Than i met another man and he was very kind and good. I am going to marry him soon.
Need wishes.

 

Olivia_1990 - June 28

Hey! Thank you for sharing this story with us. More of us need to be aware of such information about conception methods. It is really heart-breaking to see your friend suffers so much. I would suggest you to always be a support to her, however, I am glad to see you so concerned. She is lucky to have a friend like you who is so considerate. I am suffering from a hysterectomy and I was devastated by this news that I won't ever be able to conceive naturally. I lost all hopes. But one of my cousins suggested me to go for surrogacy in a clinic in Europe. I have visited the doctors quite a few times and they are very helpful. I would recommend you to suggest your friend go for surrogacy and consult various doctors' opinions. Good luck!

 

scarlett9999 - June 28

hello. how is she now? I hope she is fine. this is so sad. I mean she trusted that clinic. they must not have done the treatment well. well, I guess she is left with surrogacy. it is really important to choose a good clinic. else the patients could suffer. I would suggest her to go for surrogacy in Biotexcom clinic. they work really professionally. take care. lots of love. sending her baby dust. bye.

 

Isla28 - June 28

Hey, don't worry about anything. Tell her to go for surrogacy. Surrogacy is a blessing. Surrogacy is mostly successful. I had also a baby through surrogacy. I was suffering from fatigue injury. I was trying to conceive. My family was not accepting me. But my husband stood by me all the time. We both wanted a baby. One of my colleagues suggested me to go for Surrogacy. I went for Surrogacy in Europe. That was the best clinic I must say. Now, I have a baby. It's just because of Surrogacy. Stay blessed.

 

Pamelaa1 - June 28

Hey Julie. How are you? I hope you're okay. How is your friend? I'm so sorry to hear about her problem. She doesn't deserve this. No one does! Lotus Clinic have a horrible reputation. I'm really gutted she had to go through this. My best wishes are with her. I'd suggest she change clinics, ASAP. There's one in Ukraine by the name of BioTexCom. She should check them out. She won't regret it, I can assure you! Good luck to her!

 

Anisa28 - June 28

I am really sorry about your friend. I know it's a hard time for her. This clinic is not good. She should avoid such clinics. This feeling of infertility is really painful. Your friend shouldn't refuse Surrogacy. She should go for it immediately. Surrogacy is the best unnatural method than others. As it is not painful and expensive than others. I had a uterine polyps disease. Due to which I faced infertility. I can understand her situation because I had suffered the same. But when I adopted Surrogacy I felt really happy. I have done my Surrogacy at a clinic in Europe. They provided me with a surrogate who gave birth to our child. Now I have my own biological baby through Surrogacy. I am blessed to have him. I hope things go right in her way.

 

lella12 - June 30

That must be horrible! I am so sorry to learn about her experience. I seek everything improves after her. It genuinely terrifies me when richness centers act this way. You should be so watchful with such medications. I would recommend that you take her to a decent center. There are such a large number of other great facilities around there. Visit the one with the most astounding achievement rate. It is so imperative to be legitimately examined before you select the system. IVF and surrogacy both require experts who are specialists in the treatment. But I prescribe you to go for surrogacy Best of fortunes to her. I will petition God for her. I am certain she should be so vexed. I can comprehend what she would experience. Sending child dust her direction.

 

Olivia_1990 - June 30

Hey! It is so sad to hear about your friend. She must not have researched about the clinic properly. It must be a really hard time for her. She should stay strong throughout this time. Tell her to join these forums because they are really helpful. She can increase her awareness by reading posts about different clinics so that such mistakes can be avoided. I am an infertile woman going through a hysterectomy. It has been an emotional ride for me to fight against infertility. However, one of my cousins suggested me to go for surrogacy in a clinic in Europe. I have visited the doctors and they offered me great service at a very reasonable price. I got to consult the doctors and have a proper discussion where they showed me why surrogacy is a better option. Recommend your friend other treatments. Good luck

 

matinajohn785 - June 30

Hey Julie! Hope so you will be fine. I just read your post. I really felt so sad to know about your condition. It's really painful. But it may the part of life. You should not go there. I heard a lot of bad reviews about the clinic. My colleague went there but she returned after watching some treatment there. I also heard so bad reviews about them. I think you should move to Europe. There are some best clinics in Europe for surrogacy. Their success rates are very high. I think you should go there. It hopes your wish will be fulfilled.
My sympathies

 

Gomez115333 - July 6

Hey dear! I just read your post, that is indeed a harsh part of her life. IVF succession rate varies upon some factors, like age, eggs quantity and quality. I was shocked when I read that she failed twice in IVF treatment. She doesn’t deserve the pain she is going through now. I am an infertile too, and I have also tried IVF. But IVF didn’t work out for me, Then I decided to use the surrogacy. Now I am a mother of a beautiful baby. IVF is not successful for everyone, maybe IVF wasn’t made for you. But you do not need to worry, tell her to be strong and motivated. Now Surrogacy is being used to have a baby. The success rate of surrogacy is about 75% and up to 95% when the surrogate is pregnant. I’ll suggest you the surrogacy because after getting a baby by using this technique, I have got a baby boy. I am looking forward to your baby. I hope you get out of misery soon. BEST OF LUCK for your baby.

 

lella12 - July 7

Hi dear! What's going on with you? Your dread is common. The dread of turning into a parent for the second time is because of the prospect of entanglements what not. I surmise that you and you're significant other should think judiciously. Choose the age contrast between your kids. You shouldn't be against him. He is simply frightened, endeavor to quiet him down. In some cases, a decent discussion is all you require. I wish you an upbeat parenthood.

 

rebecca12 - July 7

Hey there! Feeling really bad for your losses. No words can describe me sorry for you. It is awful. But you have to stay brave dear. Don't worry you'll become a mother. Our prayers and wishes are with you. The clinic you went to is worst in their dealings. You should be aware of this. Before going somewhere search for it completely. One of my friends also had a really bad experience with them. They took all of her money and didn't treat her. I suggest you the clinic in Europe. They deal with infertility. They also provide surrogate mothers. They will provide you with the best guidance about surrogacy. You'll never be disappointed. Wishing you good luck in this regard.

 

matinajohn785 - July 7

Hey Julie! I just read your post. I really felt so sad to know about her. It's really a tough time she spent with. I have heard a lot of bad reviews and experiences about them. By the way, surrogacy is a great option. You should advise her. There are some clinics in Europe that are best regarding surrogacy. I think you should go there. Hope so it will be good for you.
All my sympathies are with you

 

annataylor1 - July 7

Hey, Pit Julie. I am really feeling sorry for your cousin. Indeed there is no fault of her in that unfortunate thing. Sometimes things happen just naturally. Also, the clinic is also responsible for this to some extent. Dear, now I will suggest you to ask her to move on. Because things only get better in this way. There is no other option than that. Surrogacy is now a right choice for her. This is the only option she can go for right now. Hope so my words will help your cousin.

 

lindaswank - July 7

Hi, Julie. This is really an unfortunate thing. The clinic like Lotus and Adonis are the reason that people are now afraid of going for this treatment. The choice is your dear, I think you should go for another try. And this time you should find a good clinic for your cousin. Don't lose hope and stay strong. Try to motivate your causing. There is time comes when there are ups and downs in a life. But it does not mean that you become hopeless. Hope so my words will help you. Sending you positive vibes.

 

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