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Em... I'd just like to say good for you for vowing to abstain from s_x till you're married... you're very smart and you should definitely be proud of yourself!! Just be sure to keep that mindset :) I also want to say though, that abortion is never the answer... In a situation like this one though, adoption might be. If someone thinks they're mature enough to have s_x, they should be mature enough to handle the responsibilities. That includes carrying the baby for 9 months... even if you're just going to give it away.

i totally agree with not having the abortion because it is killing a humans life, but what you realy need to think of is what life your baby would have if you kept it. Do you have enough money, what about your education, you are only a child and if you have a baby now your future will change completely. I'm not saying it could be bad, but you have got to think of the consequences. As for telling people, you have GOT to tell your parents. They probably will be p__sed off with you for sleeping around at your age but they will give you some great advice, much better than what we are giving you on this post. And as for the babies father, he has got a right to know as well. Would you like your baby growing up not knowing the father? Maybe adoption is the best option for you, because you still have your whole life ahead of you because you're only 13 yourself. Anyway i hope my advice helps you and good luck xxx

i think you should be due by september so good luck! there are lots of girls like you in the same situation so dont panic. talk to your parents and boyfriend. you are right not to chose abortion but think about adoption and remember no matter what happen you and your baby come first!

i think taht you should not have an abortion just sit him down and if doent help 15yrs old nick name:channy.b

Hey girl, I am very related to that question. I'm 15 now and I had a baby when I was 13. It was very hard to tell my parents. I was so confused on what to do, but I hope you won't be confused anymore after reading this answer. It was a weekend morning. I figured it would be easier on the weekends. I ask them if I could talk to them in the family room about a very important desicion in my life that I had made. My parents didn't know that I had pre~meritle s_x. I had it alot. It was time to face my fear and tell them. I look my mom in the eyes and started crying. I wasn't exactly sure I was doing the right thing. "Mom, dad...I don't know how to say this. PLease understand me." What is it honey"my mom said to me. "I'm, I'm, Preg....I'm pregnant." At first they were speachless....they just look at me. My dad didn't talk to me for three days. My mom took me to the Doctors, and she found out that I was right. I was gonna be a mother at the age of 14. My mom walk through it with me. It was great. My boyfriend had to tell his father and mother next. They responded worse that my parents. His dad disowned him and his mother called my mom. They talked it out and it all worked out in the end. I was the mother of a beautiful baby girl named Carlee Joy. She was healthy. That was so miraculous. What I thought was the biggest mistake of my life turned out to be a miracle. I went back to school 5 months later. When I returned to school nothing was the same, and nothing will ever be the same again. I hope your baby is healthy. And God bless you...I'll pray for you and your boyfriend. Take care.

People who get pregnant at an age as 7-19, must be very crazy. NOt meaning to be rude, but no one should have pre-merital s_x. It's against God. What you girls need in your life right now more than ever is God. Please think about this verse from the Bible: (1Thessalonians4:3-8)It is God's will that you should be sanctified:that you should avoid s_xual immorality; that each of you should learn to control his own body in a way that is holy and honorable, not in pa__sionate lust like the heathen, who do not know God: and that in this matter no one should wronge his brother or take advanntage of him. The Lord will punish men for all such sins, as we have already told you and warned you. For God did not call us to be impure, but to live a holy life. Therefore, he who rejects this instruction does not reject man but God, who gives you his Holy Spirit. Basically, you can only give your virginity once. If you give it to the wrong person, it is forever lost on someone who did not appriciate it or deserve it. Tell your boyfriend if he really, truly, loved you , he would not ask you to give yourself to him until you were married. I will pray for all lost souls. Jesus loves you.

Abortion is wrong. My name is Mya I am 15 with two boys. I am pregnant now also. I highly support you just telling them when you feel it is the right time. If you react to early your parent are going to be stuck and you parent may just want an abortion. Take my advise; s_x can't always what but get the pill, get the shot something. You don't to be messed up all you life.

Mum and dad was shocked to see in the hostpical laying on the bed crying of scaredness i am only 13 and i want another. dad is pleased for me as he is really stricked and my mum as died he is really protecting me. my baby girl 'Sasha Omillia' she is age 1 and a half and dad knos i am pregnant to a boy called 'Stuart mark'.

haley, I was 11 and also had twins.i think that its okay but vary hard.I wish the best to you and your babes

All of you who wan't babies are crazy!. I am 14 years old and gave birth to identical twin girls last year. When I was 12 and found out I was pregnant, I was thrilled! And I was exited untill a month after my girls were born. I mean don't get me wrong, I love them to bits(there names are Amery and Jadden), but it was really hard. My parents arranged for me to go live with there (the twins) 17 year old father in his 1 bedroom apartment. And now I live with him. I had to drop out of school. So did he. He works days and I work nights. I don't get to go out with my friends 'cause when I am not carring for my girls, I am working( Not to mention the fact that I can't afford to). I only own seconned hand close from a used close store in my neighberhood. I don't own a tv (although that is ok 'cause I would never have time to watch it any ways). I don't go swimming or do eny sports. We can't afford it. The girls allways need something. Maybe it is cookies or homo milk(wich is discusting, but we can only afford to bey one kind of milk and homo is best for babies) Or maybe they need diapers(we spend a little over $200 a month on diapers and wipes.)Or maybe they need bigger close(babies never stop growing). And we pay 600 hundred dollars canadien for rent a month, we have to eat to,(we spend a little over $400 a month on food). Other than financilly I am allways tired, I am not half as smart as my friends( what is BEDMAS ANY WAYS) I also dont have enough time for me.(All you girls who wan't to get pregnant, do you wear make up? You won't once you have a baby. For one thing, if i don't have time to take a 15 minute shower every day, where am I supossed to get time to put on make up? And for another thing, make up is expensive. And once you have kids every penny you make goes to your kids.) And other thing is that labour hurts. I dellivered both my girls vaga___lly. So girls, think about squeezing two watermellons out of you v____a! It is not easy. The only thing that makes it all worth while is when Amery says Mommy or when Jadden sighns it(She was born deaf, wich was really scarry, and we had to learn ASL so that Jadden would learn to comunicate with others). Or when they look up at you and smile. That makes it all worth while!

I am 15 and I just found out I am having triplets! I am really scared, eny advice?

im 13 and mite pregnant, it's a scarry think to think about. my boyfriend was staying over for a couple of days at am house. one of the night we had s_x it was fun but painful trust me!!!!!!! it's been 13 days since we had s_x, my friends and best friend A.K.A. brother think im pregnant and i think ai am, but i don't want to know. if im pregnant my parents and my boyfriends parents will kill us. my boyfriend said he wants to be a daddy and i want to be a mommy but we're scared. tomorrow im going to take a pregnancy test, wish me luck i neeed it too!!!!

I am 16 and I have a 3 year old son named Mark! I have lived on my own for about 7months, and I have a really great, supportive boyfriend who is 19. About 2 months ago he moved in with me and my son. He pays half the rent so my life got really easy! Exept now I am really scared you see, I just found out I am pregnant again! And when I told my boyfriend, he asked me to mary him! but the thing is, I think he only wants to mary me because i am pregnant! Should I say yes eny ways?

Please Help! I need to know! About 4 weeks ago me and my boyfriend had s_x, and now I am 2 weeks late, my b___bs hurt, and it is like I have had the flu for the last 3 days! Are these sighns of pregnancy? My mom thinks that I am just sick, but she dosn't even know I am s_xually active yet! So I can't ask her to by me a pregnancy test 'cause if I am not pregnant she will be mad cause I had s_x, and if I am pregnant, she will be mad. And I can't go out and by a pregnancy test on my own because I am only 10 and I don't have eny monney. And the only person I trust is my mom and I just can't tell her. I fell so alone. My boyfriend and his familly just moved out of the city last week, so I didn' t get to talk to him about it yet ether. I am so confused!

I would say tell your parents.... They should know because ofcourse beacuase they are your parents and they would know how to help you..

wow after reading through this a BIG well done is needed for all the young girls who have had children and have kept them and faced up to their responsibliltys