13 And Pregnant What About My Parents
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wow after reading through this a BIG well done is needed for all the young girls who have had children and have kept them and faced up to their responsibliltys
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ive missed muh period and i think im preganant and dotn wanan tell mii parents and mi b.f dont knoe.. it was all a mistake.. some one please help? im 13 aalmost 14 in november.. i cant do this.. and all i can think about is abortion... if you wanna email me you can rewach me at sarah11_91@hotamail.com
thank you all/
sarah<3
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my girl friend keeps thinking im seeying someone eles and thinking that iv been slagging here of
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Why are you having s_x at 13? Do your homework,ride a bike,play a sport or something. Tell your parents and put the child up for adoption.
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My god girls.... I am the last person to judge, I had my first child at 15..I am not judging believe me, but to hear that 10 year old girls are having s_x and are pregnant brought tears to my eyes and made my heart break for them. I have a 10 year old daughter and I would be devastated if she was behaving like that. Believe me girls, when you have your own kids, a little girl, you would be heart broken to know that someone had touched your little girl. You obviously need support and love right now and I wish you all the best of luck, I really do. But girls remember this.....this will be the end of your childhood. It is now grown up time, you will have responsibilities, worries, financial pressure, you are in the grown up world,..it may seem like a great place to be when you are a kid, but when you come into it, expecially not having given yourself the chance to have that childhood, there is no going back. It is hard work...And babies are cute, no doubt about that, but they are also hard hard work. Are you ready???? Gee I hope so for that little baby's sake..
please take care
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As I was too a teen who was pregnant at a young age I would have to tell you your going to need lots and lots of support either from family, the father,or teen support groups. I didn't think anyone would or could help me but after my twin baby boys were here reality hit me hard in the face. You wanting to keep your baby is great. But please be prepared for a life long responsibility. Think of it as being a positive change in your life. I'm not judging but it occurrs you made need one considering your 13 and s_xually active. Remember I was in your shoes 4 years ago and now I'm a full-time college student with a part-time job and in my own house with two beautiful twin boys. I wish you the best of luck .
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I don't know what is wrong with some of you girls on here trying to get pregnant at 13! and younger and 11 year old pregnant. I was also a teen mom i got pregnant with my daughter when i was 15 i was alos taking birthcontrol when i concieved her i my boyfriend was with me when i took the PG test and he also stood beside me when we broke the news to our parents luckly everything turned out fine with the help of our parents we finished school we are now married and expecting our 4th baby due in dec. i wish you all the best of luck but plz remember it is not an easy road infact the hardest thing you will ever do in your life is be a mom. 'its a child not a choice'
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Heyaim 14 , im not pregnant or anyfink but today my friend who is 13 , fort she was pregnant so we took a test a found out she was ! she says she dos not no wht to do do (meaning abortion) but all she has dont all day is talk about abortion ! i absolutley hate the idea of an abortion , i asked her if she would keep the baby if she didnt have to think about telling her family she said definatley !! i told her in this situation to think of her and her baby ! her mum i no wil support her ! i thought you could help me understand her feelings
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hOT DO U KNOW IF U PREGNANT
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I dont knwo weither i should cry or flip out!!!! Its sad and sickening to hear of some many young people getting pregnant or wanting to get pregnant. YOu are just abbies urself!! How do you expect to beable to raise these babies and give them everything that they need and deserve and yet continue to raise and care for yourself. At 13-16 you should only have to worry about weither or not this boy likes you or not, not where am i goign to go to get food and diapers for my baby!!! Im 26 years old....and am currently 7 months pregnant with my 4th child, and i know how hard it is for me, so i couldnt imagine being the age some of yous are!! Thoses of you who are pregnant.... may the gods be with you, those of you who want to be pregnant...... sit back and take a reality check.... parent hood is great.... but so is being a child well you still can!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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Wow! Ten and pregnant! That is sad, sad that first you aren't playing with toys, dressing up, enjoying elementary school. But you're choosing to have s_x when you're a child. I had s_x at 10 but not by choice, I was raped by my brother for three years, and it was HELL. But thank God I did not get pregnant. I didn't want a baby, and I was nowhere close to being ready. I was scared when at 18, I got pregnant with my first son Matthew James, and I had been dating my boyfriend for two years. I didn't give birth to Mattey, I had a unexpected miscarriage at 16weeks, I was scared and still am. I'm now 19, and married, we want kids but not for a little bit longer. I know at 10 you don't think that life is hard, everything is given to you by your parents, but teen years are hard enough without worrying about a baby. Enjoy playing sports, going to dances, having parties, all of that. Because those are the years that movies are made of, but you also learn to be an adult. I enjoyed High school and now trying to enjoy college. But thinking back to Elementary school, I wish I could be that care-free again.
I know some of the responses are mean and not caring. But little girls, it's a hard world and you better get used to it. I hope you all make the best choice for you, just take your time and ask a trusted adult for help, you can't do it on your own. But God bless and hopefully you will be great young women and moms.
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OMG 10 years old!!! what are your guyses problems!! when i was ten i was still playing with barbies i didnt even have a boyfriend when i was 10 or want one. sorry but it makes me wanna throw up. I dont want a kid iuntill im like 30 something. And trust me your not in love at ten years old. ITS DUMB !! Your life is messed up i suggest you get help. i hope you do well god bless
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You should tell your boyfriend that you are pregnant and your parents but don't let them conveince you to have an borsion just think what if it was you that your parents are aborting and you have no say so over it and they kiled you what really hurts that why i am standing up against aborsion cause it's not right.
love always breanna fowler
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Do you remember the decisions you made just a year or so ago, and perhaps they seem immature and silly to you now? Remember just a few years ago playing with dolls and even before then, being in diapers? Seems like ages ago you were such a different person making different decisions? Well, you are not done growing. You will continue to grow just like that - and if you do CHOOSE to get pregnant at that young an age, it will be a decision that you will regret in a few years when you are looking back at the choices you made NOW. I remember being 10 and thinking how cool it would be to get pregnant because I'd be so young . . . fortunately for me, I went through high school and college without anything like that happening to me. I look back at my college years and I think - how fun! How "S_x & The City"! How independent! Going out with friends, driving to parties, socializing, without a parent nagging you or a BABY to take care of. Spending the night at friends' houses or even a boy's place, getting up and studying and LIVING MY LIFE. I took the path I chose for granted, and I look back now and I thank GOD I did not choose to go through with intentionally getting pregnant at that young an age. I am now 30 and I still think I am young, but am pregnant with my first. There are so many ISSUES that are stressful - day care? food? clothing (for me & the baby)? new furniture? baby proofing the house? new room for baby? SIDS? I haven't even had the kid yet and I'm freaking over all the serious issues involved. If any of you have the option of avoiding pregnancy, choose to live YOUR LIFE and ENJOY YOUR LIFE before you consider creating another one. It will not make you older or more mature by becoming a mother - it will just rob you of the opportunity to truly live your life to the fullest!!
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I just want to say, that if a young girl was to fall pregnant, i really think that abortion would be the best option for her, only because her herself has not grown up yet ( I am personally against it, but i would never get pregnant at such a young age!) But everyone telling them that they made the decision to have s_x, that they should live with the consequences! That is wrong, because there body is not mature enough yet to have a baby!!! But it is everyones own personal choice!!
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hey girl i just weant to say good luck i wish you all the best trust me and for you girls out there plz stop and think what you are doing i am not trying to beyour mom or anything but i am 14 and have s_x it is not the best thing in the world trust me i put my family throw a lot and it is not cool ok i almost got pregnet i thot i was nut i was not and all i have to say is just wait till your older .trust me if you do when you get older and have s_x it will be ten times better plz just think about it i mean you can email me any time at babygirl_15834@yahoo.com plz just come and talk to me ok i no a lot about this cinde of thing.. i can help you .......plz talk to me
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