Am I Doing The Right Thing -pg31
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I am 23 years old and 100% in love with my boyfriend who is 44. We are 8 months pregnant and he has been there through the whole thing and he says that he continues to be. He always talks about moving in with me and doing this the right way as a intact family, but thats all it seeems to be is talk. So I have told him that he either does what he says or we are going to break up and be 2 single parents. I live alone right now but have 100% suport from family also through this. They have told both of us numerous times that this baby deserves to be raised by both a mom and dad, and as much as I thinmk I can do it its going to be hard by myself. they have offered to let me move home for a few months after the baby is born so I have some helping hands. Do I continue to press the issue with my boyfriend or give up and accept the help from my parents?
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Do what you think is right. If you think you should keep him to his word, then do it. You're right though, if you say your going to do something, then do it, don't hesitate or change your mind. Also, if a baby has the chance to be raised by both their mom and dad, then he/she should get that chance. Plus, it will be easier on the mother, she'll have more help and she wont have to do everything by herself. I hope I was a bit of help. Wish you luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want it to.
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