On The Same Boat

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Ariana - September 8

I am 25 and am 7 weeks pregnant. The baby's father I've known for 8 years. We were together until the last couple. Then we were just "friends"... Now that I am pregnant, he is avoiding me like a plague. I can't believe this... I am so hurt! He is going through his own situation right now... He was a police officer but has been fired on felony allegations and was convicted this summer. I believe he escaped doing time, but he has had to move back home and has no car or money now. He's very upset that I won't have an abortion and has told me he's moved to Florida for a few months... since then he's been ignoring me. I get the feeling that some of my family and friends think I should not have this baby due to my current financial situation and the lack of cooperation from the baby's dad. I am so torn because I feel like there's only 1 right decision, and that is to raise this baby I don't know yet, but love dearly. But everyone's scaring me and making me feel very insecure about my decision. PS. The baby's dad and I never used protection and I never got pregnant before. Not to mention other partners I've had unsafe s_x with. I can't help feeling this is a gift from God. Please help. I don't know how to feel or what is right.

 

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