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what to do about my SD- sperm donor or other wise known as "super Dad". Well last night we talked and he is begging for me to be with him to live as a family and that he is going to wait forever until i am ready, he is going to wait even though I rather him not. Of course being a man he only hears certain parts and never the NO's. I aske dhim if he was wanting to be active in this childs life, he said that he is at a check mate in this situation, he wants me and the baby, but if I will not be with him he can not be a loving father to his son that he already has if he has to work all of the time, paying child support, to me as well as his ex. So if he can't have me and us live together basically so he does not have to pay child support then he can't "afford" to be in this childs life hahaha, he using "loving father" that makes me want to vomit! So now that, i know that he really does not have the love for this child that I feel he should nor the respect for him/her, I definately feel this is the right thing, my intuition never fails why did I ever second guess myself, I know better then that!!!
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Im sorry but how selfish can you be? That child that you both are bringing into this world deserves a chance to be brought up by an intact family.(both mother and father) And if you actually have a guy who your not married to that wants that same thing you are lucky. I feel sorry for this child if you are depriving him/her of that
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Do what you feel is best. However, it does help to have both the mother and father. "Mom" won't have to do everything and etc. Wish you luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want it to.
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