 | CLW - October 27 |
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I am 27 and this is my first pregnancy. I do have a boyfriend but we do not live together. He attends every doctors visit. Calls on the phone alot but we hardly spend time together. He says that he has other things that have to be done. I dont want to be greedy or anything but I am caring his child and I think that I should be at the top of the list. I spend every night he is not around crying wandering if he is just staying with me because I am pregnant and so he dont look bad to our familys. I dont want to do this alone what should I do?
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 | km - October 29 |
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You need to sit down with him, or write him a letter and tell him exactly how you feel. Tell him that this is a time where you are very emotional and needy and you need him to spend time with you and help you through this pregnancy.Tell him you NEED the support and if hes not willing to give it up, then maybe you are better off without him.
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| DD - October 31 |
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I agree, you need to sit down with him or write him a letter or something. You need support, this is an important time for you and the baby. I know that I am having problems getting my boyfriend to understand that. He does not spend any time with me or go to the doctors visits with me. I have talked with him and written him but he says he is doing stuff for when the baby actually is here. That hurts me and I am afraid that this is creating major resentment in me for him. I don't want to be alone either but I guess I prefer alone to unimportant.
Good Luck!
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I am going through this alone. And it hurts me to the core. Let this man be there because it seems to me he cares. Rather it is about you or the child a man being there, is rare. So count your blessings. You could be in my shoes
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