I M Devastated

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fish1006 - January 9

My wife and I have been married for two years and have a beautiful baby boy. So my wife and I were arguing earlier because she said she was mad because I "Work so much" and she said "That's why I cheated on you, with (insert friends name here), and it was right before New Years." Now, that would have been heartbreaking, but she said "New Years" because that's when my son was conceived. I'm devastated at even the thought that he might not be mine, I've been through 9 months of ultrasounds, 1 week of NICU being there 24/7, waking up and putting him to bed, providing everything for him. I'd do it one million times again. If he needed a heart I'd give him mine. Now, my wife just called me back and said "She was lying, she just wanted me to feel bad." I don't even know anymore, I don't. I'm just in this numb feeling state where I don't want to do anything. Not even type this..Typing this is making me cry. I don't know what to do, what can be done, or how to do it.

 

Jessica215 - January 18

If it is bothering you, request a dna test to find peace. You hae given your heart to the child and care for him. One does not need to be a biological parent to be a parent, the question is can you forgive her if she did conceive from another man?

 

Jessica215 - January 18

If it is bothering you, request a dna test to find peace. You have given your heart to the child and care for him. One does not need to be a biological parent to be a parent, the question is can you forgive her if she did conceive from another man?

 

Jessica215 - January 18

If it is bothering you, request a dna test to find peace. You have given your heart to the child and care for him. One does not need to be a biological parent to be a parent, the question is can you forgive her if she did conceive from another man?

 

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