I Need Advice. Alone And Pregnant At 36 Years Old

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Chaira - February 17

I was dating my nd for 1, 1/2 years.  I moved in for approx a month and We started fighting constantly.  We drank alot which made things worse.  When I found out I was pregnant I quit drinking right away and he continued to smoke weed and drink alot.  I moved out when he smashed some of my belongings and have been living in my own ever since.  

He seems to have 2 personalities.  One- he wants to get married, buy a house together and be a family with me and my son, or-

Two- he hates me, wants nothing to do with me and the baby and verbally abuses me to the point where I have to block his phone number and not talk to him at all.  This pregnancy has been absolutley horrible with stress and no support from him whatsoever. He has given me an engagement ring twice and asked for it back both times when we fight.  My gut instinct tells me things will never get better.  I wanted a secure family with this man, as I already raised one child alone.  I just Dont know what to do.  The sweet man that I know He can be is barely there anymore, And the names he calls me have destroyed me so bad, I dont think I want him in the delivery room

 

Grandpa Viv - February 20

Chaira, so sorry you find yourself in this position. Your gut instincts are guiding you well.  There is no suggestion that a permanent relationship with this guy will spell anything but trouble. Best of luck!

 

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