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When I got pregnant, my boyfriend was so excited that he never wanted to leave my side, even wanted to marry me. He would always tell me how proud and happy he is, that I have given him a reason to live. Then suddenly when I was at 16 weeks, he started behaving strangely. Only to find that he had gotten back together with his ex who is also pregnant with his child . He started lying to me and coming up with every excuse in the world as to why he can't see me. A few days later, I found out he has moved in with with this girl at her home. When this started, he would ignore my calls and never responded to my texts and it used to hurt like hell. Then to add salt to the wound, his girlfriend started calling me and telling me to leave his boyfriend alone. Soemtimes she would call me with his phone in the middle of the night just to prove that they are together. I remember it felt like my whole world just came crashing down, I hated myself for falling pregnant.
Now at week 25, nothing has changed and I haven't even stopped thinking about him. No matter what has happen, my lonely little heart still has hope that one day he will come back to me. Am I naive to think like this? At the same time, I have this strong urge to destroy him. I keep thinking of ways to destroy him the same way he destroyed me. He destroyed my life and my career and doesn't even seem to care about it. Sometimes I feel like I am loosing my mind, I even want to go to court and find a lawyer who will help my lay a civil claim against him. I mean: am I wrong? He promised to marry me, impregnated me and then ran off to be with someone else while I pick up the pieces of what used to be my life and move on. Now I am at a verge of loosing my job since I can't work in the mining industry while I am pregnant. So when I go sit at home, who will provide for me? How will I be able to provide for me and my baby? The money people get for maintenance will not be enough. Even so, what happens if I need medical attention before giving birth (before clainming maintenance)? Where will I get the money to buy maternity wear and new born clothes? This is my last month at work and with each day that comes, confusion strikes.
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