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NO! Please don't do it!! I am 19 years old. I caught my baby's father cheating on me at a pool hall with some nasty skank on Christmas Day!! I was 3 months pregnant at the time, and I seriously considered abortion. I was dumb and went back to him, and he threw me out at 8 and a half months pregnant for some other girl. He left me homeless and alone. Or as so I thought. True friends will always help you out in these situations. You are not alone. I moved in with friends, and I am anxiously waiting for my little arrival any day now. You know what the best part is? This little miricle will be all yours and you won't have to share them with anyone now. There is always financial help through the govt. with school, and you can always put the baby in day care, the best part is it will probably be free. Honey, just put some thought into this before you make a regretable decision. I will pray for you.

It is your decision in the end irregardless of what anyone tells you. But I can tell you how wonderful it is to have a tiny beautiful look up at you and say "mumma" There is nothing else like it in the world. To have to small arms wrap around your neck and give you dandelions and to you there the most priceless thing you've ever received.Also that genle kick in the middle of the in the middle of your belly that reminds you you need to pee. You need to realize that your b/f is probably scared right now too. I'm not going to tell oyu going to college with a child isn't difficult but you can still acheive everything you want to in your life it is just going to take more init_tive and originality. My prayers are with you.

when do they stop given abortion after how many mounts

No... you should never give up something god has givin you for a reason. I have had one and i wish i never had to this day.

I agree, having an abortion is a terrible thing and whether people are big enough to admit it, they usually have regrets. God has blessed you with beautiful gift and you should either, A give it up for adoption or B take care of it. Also, don't worry about what your mom and boyfriend says, if this is what you want and your determined, then do it. Wish you luck and I hope everything turns out the way you want it to.

You should decide quickly, it's almost to late to have an abortion. While arguments like you will regret this are valid, you may regret just as much actually having a child. If you are truly not ready to be a parent being pregnant is a no win situation, regardless of the choice you make. No matter if you decide to abort, give it up for adoption, or raise it on your own you will have perfectly natural feelings of regret.

im a 48 year old mom of 10 kids 5 adopted and 5 not. Are you interested in putting the baby up for adoption? I would be interested in adopting Let me know thanks

Please please dont have an abortion

How come it seems that when any1 seems to want an abortion brucen, u always answer, is it cuz ur for abortions, ur a guy what do u know

I am 3 months pregnant and I am married to a verbally abusive man. We got into a HUGE argument just last night and I've made upmy mind to leave him. I thought about abortion but I realized I would not be bale to lay my head on my pillow ever night in Peace if I did. Not onlt would i hate my husband, but I would myself for allowing someone else's immaturity and ignorance make me weak enough to go against what I feel in my heart. I guess what I'm trying to say is follow your heart. Rely on your heart and God. With that combination you can never go wrong. STAY STRONG

Dawn, if i were a guy it would medically impossible for me to be 29 weeks pregnant. Stop judging books by the cover. Maybe you should read more of the forum and you would know that I do not only answer abortion questions. Just as you felt free to drop in your two cents... why shouldn't I?

La Toya, I will tell you right off the bat that abortion is the right decision only if you are completely sure you do not want the baby. Do not have an abortion based on other people and what they think. You need to think about your life and where you want to go. Abortion may seem scary, but its really not anything to worry about. I am talking from experience. I have had 2 abortions and they have not bothered me at all. I think abortions bother the people who are confused about their situations. If you are going to school soon, i would not have the baby. Think of your life in 5 years. I have a child, and I did it on my own, so i can tell you what its going to be like from both perspectives. A baby is hard to handle, and you will have to put your life on the back burner for a while. Im not saying that having a baby is not a good thing, but under the right conditions. By yourself it is very stressful and hard. Its ok to be selfish right now, dont think about the baby, you can always have kids later on when your settled. Think about yourself, and dont let your so called boyfriend who is not there for you talk down to you. I also hope you dump his a__s after you make your decision cause you can find better hon. Best of luck, mel

i am kinda int he same boat.. my baby father will stand by me but we dont have the money n my mom says if u eva get pregnant ur moving out.. im scared that no1 will help us n also every1 will dislike me im very down n depressed i just turned 20 years old.. i had a abortion b4 n i just can do it again it ruined me life.. what should i do?

dont have an abortion. i did, it was the wrose thing i could have done. I am now pregnant again (6months) and he left me and hes with someone else. But i have my baby and thats all that matters. We don't need men to raise our kids.

Don't need men to help raise your kid, but need them to help make your kid?

All I know is that I will pray for you. I am 4 weeks pregnant. i have always been those girls that never wanted a child and still feel that way. I will pray for all of us to stay strong with our decisions. Take care....Aren't there places that will help you with the baby? like birthright or sign up for WICC program and medicaid. do what you feel you should do, and Hey I will support your desicion.