16 Possibly Pregnant Can Take Test On 28th

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AddysMummy - May 1

Aww! angel is angry because her loose stupid a__s isn't pregnant :)

 

amanda17 - May 1

Hahaha, ah that's gross...

 

angelmonkey - May 1

ahhh did little wittle teddy not have anything better to say so she went back to the same thing!! ahhh(pully of the cheekys) your so cute!!

 

angelmonkey - May 1

oh thats what you think is going on aaaaaahhhhhhhh it al makes sence now. well atleast you have some sence coming out of you in the other post, which is more than what i can say for most people on here

 

AddysMummy - May 1

Lol I like to thank God that /I/ am raising my kids so that they wont turn out as retarded as a___lMonkeys stupid a__s LOL.

 

angelmonkey - May 1

you just cant stop can you!

 

AddysMummy - May 1

You can't get over the fact that I am pregnant and you AREN'T.

 

AddysMummy - May 1

Aww, sweetie jealousy isn't pretty.

 

angelmonkey - May 1

lol

 

AddysMummy - May 1

You are just making yourself look worse and worse.

 

AddysMummy - May 2

She pushed the envelope first not me. And in other posts you'd know what really got this whole thing started.

 

Teddyfinch - May 2

no i saw. trust me i know she started it. but i think now it's gone too far. i also know from experience that once you step over a certain line, everyone who you thought was your friend will turn on you. it's happened to me. she's just not worth the effort and this fight is a little old now. especially when you guys flood real posts. i would say don't waste time on her anymore. she's really not worth it.

 

angelmonkey - May 2

your right teddy.........addy im sorry for saying you should miscairy it was a stupid thing to say but trust when someone is telling you over and over you wont get pregnant like its a fact in really dose your head in but its not an excuse for what i said. i think we have BOTH been very imature and it should stop now. your turn =p

 

mama4andmore - May 2

I dunno if i should do this, but this is about to be really long. This is for all the young teens ttc. I hope you can learn something from it. At 14 years old I lived with my father. One day I told him I needed to go to the docs because every time I stood up I got real dizzy. He said you aren't pregnant are you? I told him No and laughed. In my head I was think I had s_x and unprotected, but being pregnant didn't occur to me. For some reason I didn't really think it would happen. It was only in movies and rare occasions teens got pregnant. Well a few weeks later I finally realized I hadn't had a period for a long time and went to a place a facility to take a test. I really didn't think I was pregnant, but wanted to make sure. So i was sitting there waiting for the results really expecting a neg. The ladies eyes got big and said its pos. I started crying. I wondered how I would go to college and they said all of these ways and convinced me I could still go to college and have the baby. My pregnancy i was alone because my parents were very unhappy about it. Then when I left school to have him and returned I was so tired and could verily keep up. At 16 I started working. I worked a lot and went to school. I was saving my money for an apartment. I had no time and missed a lot of stuff. I got invited to a prom but couldn't go because I didn't have a baby sitter. My parents provided a lot fincially, but mentally there was no support. My father wanted me to cook dinner and I had finals and a crying baby. I became very frustrated and depressed. I took my SATs and scored pretty high. I had a good chance at going to about any college. My Junior year.I got emancipated. Because of work, school, and parenting and i still wanted to have friends (hang out time) I quite school. I was going to school from 8-3 and working from 4-1 sometimes 2. getting home at 3 and then doing home work til 4 or 5 and then getting up at 6:30 (it takes longer to get ready when you have someone else to feed and dress and then take them to a seperate place). I never thought I would quite school. I thought that once again it was in the movies. I am a really strong person and thought I could do it all. Work Parent School everything, but I couldn't as hard as I tried. i had to take energy pills just to keep moving. The days I was off work I thought I would do catch up sleep but couldn't because of the baby. So i was really disappointed when i quite school and the next week went and got a GED. During the time of quitting school and taking the GED I had so extra time and found an old guy friend. I was imediately in love and moved to the city a few weeks later to be with him. Life seemed so perfect. I was 17 he was 24. We would talk about getting married and all thatgood stuff. I was sure he was the one I would spend the rest of my life with. I never thought we would ever end. So when we planned to have a baby together I was all for it. I found out i was pregnant and he was sooooooooooo happy..... For a while. He was a grown adult and when I reached about 3 months pregnant he began hitting me. I couldn't figure out. I thought It was me for a long time. I made a lot of excuses for him. We split up when I was 4 months pregnant. Because of all the stress I was going through I lost my job and was put on bed rest. I ended up loosing my apartment. Thankfully my father let me go home. But a week later at 17 i gave birth 7 weeks early to a little girl. She was healthy though. So i knew I had to figure something out becaus there was no way $8 or 9 per hour was going to run a house and take care of two kids. SO i decided to go to college 3 weeks after she was born. Because of the lack of support I quite school. My daughters father and I tried to work it and I got pregnant by him again at 19. He put me through a lot. He beat so bad I almost miscarried. I had to stay in a domestic violence shelter. It was horrible. I now had 3 kids and only made enough money to pay daycare get diapers and some gas. See I kept having kids because I thought with each one it would be different then the last. I thought things would work out how I had them planned. I planned to finish college and marry and then have another child. But some sincere promise by a man always left me sayingThis would be so great and work this. Well as much as we plan and have good intentions it doesn't work that way. I am now married to a really good man who takes care of me and all of my children. We also had a child together and our planning another one, but it took a lot of tears and pain to get here. Had I only waitied I could have spared my self so much. At one point we decided to start a facility for pregnant teens. In my research I found out that 750,000 teens in america become each year. 1/3 of all american girls become pregnant at least once before 20. 80% never graduate. Only 1.5% will have a college degree by the age of 30. 80% will live off of welfare. So as well as you have it planned so did a lot of these other girls that still ended up without there dreams. SO really think about what you are doing. It all seems so easy but it isn't. It is like watching someone do something and say ooh that is easy I could do that standing on my head, but when you try to do it you can't. The only problem is with a baby you can't just say I can't oh well. You are left struggling to find a way. It isvery stressful. Enjoy your lives.

 

angelmonkey - May 2

im so sorry that happened to you.............the thing is is that in the uk at 18 you are an adult and i know people on this forum think im immature ect and they say oh having a rough like dosnt makeyou mature but it defo does not make you feel like a ten at 18 i left home at 16 a live dosed around friends houses for about 6 months and then moved in to a hostle where i met my now partner. within a few months i was doing drugs everyday......smokin weed taking pills ect i was like that for a year, my partner then had to move out of the hostle as you can only stay there for 2 years he stayed with a friend while i stayed at the hostle where my drug habbit got worse bleh bleh bleh................i got my self clean (completly) we moved away to a village both got jobs bleh................the point is with stuff that has happened i feel about 30...............im not like any other 18year old i dont even drink! so for me a baby is perfect and if it turns out not to be so good then i have to deal with it its my responsability and im prepared to deal with what life throws at me good or bad. but i think your story will be inspiring for 14,15,16 year old girls ttc. im glad you are now happy

 

AddysMummy - May 2

And I am sorry I said you are infertile etc. It's just that when I was just trying to give you advice you jumped on me all when I was trying to be helpful seeing as I have been in your situation granted things are a lot different because I'm in the US and I'm doing well with my husband ... but eh that's not the point. All I stated was that I hoped you didn't get pregnant until you were mentally ready because yes I just don't feel you are ready because you JUMPED on me after me trying to give you ADVICE.

 

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