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First of all I really think you might be pregnant but the only sure way to find out is to take a test. I'm sorry to hear that you think a baby is okay fora 14 yr old but i'm only 14 and i had a baby almost two weeks ago and let me tell you it was horrible. I know am living with my mom and she's been awsome. My b/f that told me he loved me said he only wanted to have s_x once and we did and thats all it took. Going through birth was hard enough. Before i got pregnant or even got involved with that type of a boy i wished to be pregnant so that i could get attention but then i realized i didn't want to be. You really are way too young to be thinking about a baby. YOur a baby yourself and so am i I wish i could take back the things i had done so that i wouldn't be in this pedicament. Also people will give you looks and try to make you feel bad and school.... school will be the worst aren't you going into 10th grade ....??? Will your parents kick you out ?? and if so do you have a house or an apartment??/ All i have to say is get a job and save becuase the way your going your gunna b pregnant.

Teenagers are so "detailed" and graphic about their s_x lifes! We did it 36 times? Man to think I was like that once!! LOL, I would just LOVE to brag about every detail!! Well anyways...If u two really LOVE each other, then like Mary Wells said "even if we're seperated, a thousand miles apart, we will still be together...in each others hearts" U will still be able to talk to him Im sure, sneaking in those late night phone calls or buy a phone card...you'll find a way to be in touch, but a baby, you'll just complicate things between the both of you. Good Luck!

Isabel, I kinda think you don't know what you're getting your self into ,into the reality actually sinks in. I'm also 14 wondering about pregnancy. I use to think it was cute seeing young moms walking around with their babies and pregnant stomachs but can we really love and support our babies like normal adults?Honestly, I don't think we can. We can try our hardest but we already can barely get a job and we're not even finished school so what kinda life can we give a child?Think about this carefully and also you boyfriend can't possibly love you if he knows you're not even out of school still basically a kid and he wants you to be pregnant. And also, gurl, I doubt you're pregnant . And you need to get something on your mind instead of a baby because a baby is only going to slow you down.If you want to talk about this email me at yacrazygurl@aol.com

Beleive me, as a mother at 14, you DO NOT want a baby. If you have one then great, your blessed, but you dont want to try for a baby at that age.

i do not think that your pregnant but i also think that you should hold out on haveing a baby till you have school almost out the way and then make sure that you have a lot of help so your baby will have everything needed.

okay i'm 14 and i've had s_x three times and unfortunatly one time i didn't use a condom.......don't worry i'm fine and with out any std's. I wanted to tell isabel do what your heart wants and asking for help like this is very brave of you. But you should also listen to your friends and your family and boyfriend on the reasons they want/ don't want you to have a baby. I think i might be pregnant as well but since that guy i havn't had s_x with anyone and don't plan on it for a long time b/c i don't want a baby and i'm not ready for a baby but i would never get an abortion. let me know if you want any one to tal k to and let me kno wat to do!

On another completely differant note, do you know the health risks for you and the baby if you have a child at 14. Just something else to think about.

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whats the point in trying to get pregnant at a young age? i got pregnant when i was 14 and it wasnt easy, not all guys stick around, mine did, but it still wasnt easy because i was still at school and paper rounds dont pay much do they?

you had a period after yopu had s_x? but you still think that your not preggers? even though youve had the painters in, doesnt mean that you coiuldnt be knocked up. have you ever actually had any s_x education? because from the sounds of you, you havent. think of your parents, and the baby. what kind of life could you provide for it? it would be selfish to think thatyouve only thought about your self in all this. remember that the baby didnt ask to be born, so when its crying and your at the end of your teather, just think back to when you went mad to have him/her. good luck in whatever the outcome may be.xxxxx

you had a period after you had s_x? but you still think that your not preggers? even though youve had the painters in, doesnt mean that you coiuldnt be knocked up. have you ever actually had any s_x education? because from the sounds of you, you havent. think of your parents, and the baby. what kind of life could you provide for it? it would be selfish to think thatyouve only thought about your self in all this. remember that the baby didnt ask to be born, so when its crying and your at the end of your teather, just think back to when you went mad to have him/her. good luck in whatever the outcome may be.xxxxx

well its going to be freakin hard but as much as u wanna be pregnant thats as much as i dont want me wife to be mybe even more we know we are not ready yet but if u think u can handle it more power to and to Nichole hells ya u can fall in love at 14 i did and now im marred

So when thngs dont go as planned with the baby are you going to runaway?

Sometimes I just wonder why people post things that are so harsh.

ok! where to u start... here we go, this sounds good: YOU HAVE BEEN ON THIS EARTH FOR 14 YEARS! u could possibly live till ur 80! u have not even lived a quarter of ur potential lifespan! i am also 14, and ever since i was little i have always dreamed of having a fairytale family, kids and a loving husband, but i know its not necessarily gonna happen! right now my boyfriend and i are considering s_x -PROTECTED s_x might i add- he really wants to but hes also prepared to wait til im ready which could b a while he knows that he respects that he cares for me anyway. i want kids and its my biggest fear that ill never have them but im not going to go get pregnant at 14! also today i just found out one of my best friends-also 14- could possibly b preganant.(which is y i was looking on this site) she had unprotected s_x 3 weeks ago with a guy 4 years older then her -which is illegal in Aus- her period is due in like 2 days and she is freaking out! which u would think would b the normal reaction for a potentially pregnant 14 year old. there are a million reasons not to even think about being pregnant at this age and i know everyone has said this but i will reinforce it becoz im a very 'people person' and -whether or not i know u - i care wat happens to you. i dont want u to regret this which is most likely going to happen. if u do end up having a kid now, in 16 yrs time do u wanna hear ur child say to one of there friends " oh yeah im less then half the age of my mum!" tell me do u want that!! not to mention all the health risks- post natal depression etc plus wat about ur schooling! if u drop out of skool to care for this kid u wont have a adequate education and how exactly do u expect to support ur child in the future and the final thing i shall mention, mind u dont think its the last thing on the list, can u truthfull answer me this , one afternoon u tell him ur pregnant , will he love u in the morning ? will he? will he continue his education to support u and the child or will he run ? knowing men and having experience dealing with the broken hearts of my mum, my aunty and friends i can tell u he most likely wont! u r both teenages with raging hormones! who knows what he really, really feels for u please deeply think about wat all these ppl have said to u bcoz it all matters

hun im not gunna be ignorant to yu. im just gunna be brutally honest. i am 15 thought i was preggo. as far as i kno im not. yes its true. that ur boyfriend will be thynkin ' i cnt NOT be wit this girl..she has my kid." so that may make u feel more secure. but thynk bout the future. if he cant stay with yu and be with yu because he loves yu and u need a baby to keep you guys together. i dun thnyk u guys hav a good relaitonship in thie first place. Love means you will stay together thru anythyng. and i kno ur not that stupid and i kno u see that most of the tyme . the boyfriends fynd it too hard and leave the girls..as much as they sai they love yu. trust me..ikno.. so please. jus be careful. ur whole teenage life is going to go down the drain and ur gunna feel so lost. i would highly recomend you jsut a wait a few years. and if u man sticks by you til then. then good for yu guys. thats my opinion. so thhynk about it.