I Am 13 And Really Scared
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I am 13 (nearly 14) and scared because I might be pregnant, I can only take a test after Christmas or in January. My boyfriend is 14 and he is really nervous too, we didnt plan to have a baby. I have my friend called Stephen and he is giving me a lot of advice and he knows quite a lot because he used to help his mum with her pregnancies. It is scary for me to say this on the internet, but I am even more scared to say it to people I know. All of you are like 16, 17 and 18 but I am 13 and 3 quaters and if I am pregnant I will keep it, even though I am too young and too small I will try my best to be a good mum. X
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Vampire, sorry you have this worry hanging over you during the holiday season. When did this accident happen? Do you have any early pregnancy signs to talk about? Maybe you are not pregnant, so please don't go taking any more chances. Good luck!
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We did stuff on the 12 th december. Recently I have been having serious mood swings, I have been wanting to eat paper, my stomach has hardened a little bit and I have had minor stomach/abandomen aches. I have been feeling tired and get hot easily. Also I have gained a tiny a reallly tiny bit of weight.
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Only three days ago? That is too soon to be having signs, other than those you are psyching yourself into. Can you describe what you did, and tell when your next period is supposed to come?
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My next period is due on the 4th january, he did not c_m inside me but did c_m around that area. And ever since I have been having strange feelings in my abdomen.
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So I'm thinking your last period started Dec 7th, you had s_x just as your period was ending, and you are not even going to ovulate until Dec 21. If I am right you can't yet be pregnant from s_x this cycle. Was the last period normal or short and light? Did you fool around during the November cycle, especially around Nov 23rd? Keep talking and we'll get this sorted. GL!
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I took the test far too early the day after Christmas and it was negative., my period was unusually short, My abdomen is harder, bigger and aches a little when I put pressure on it, I have a metalic taste in my mouth, my b___sts are a little bit bigger, and I have felt sick all week, I am thinking of stealing a test before school tomorrow (i have no money) I dont know what to do...
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I took the test far too early the day after Christmas and it was negative., my period was unusually short, My abdomen is harder, bigger and aches a little when I put pressure on it, I have a metalic taste in my mouth, my b___sts are a little bit bigger, and I have felt sick all week, I am thinking of stealing a test before school tomorrow (i have no money) I dont know what to do...
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Stealing will make matters worse. The school nurse or guidance probably has pregnancy tests. Are you feeling unusually tired and can't sleep well? Maybe you should fess up to your mom and get it over with. At least she will make sure you have proper birth control so you will not get pregnant going forward.
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