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I know some of you have had this problem and to me, it's stressing me out! My mom emailed me the other day and asked me if my DH mom was going to be in the delievery room, she lives out of state. I had told my mom that she was coming down AFTER the baby was born and she got it in her head that she was going to be there for the birth. I love my mother in law and if she could come I would love for her to be there. My mom told me that she was jealous of her and didn't want her in the room. Excuse me, but isn't that my choice? She also asked if mother in law was coming down to take care of me? My mom was like "Doesn't she have a daughter who has a kid? Why does she think she needs to come down and take care of you!" This is getting to be frustrating! I don't want any issues and want my mother in law to see her grandchild since she lives in another state! I've tried to talk to my mom about this, but she won't listen! Anyone have problems like this? If so, how did you resolve it?